They are not afraid of loneliness. They will make full use of their time to do more meaningful things. Such a woman is a woman who knows how to live and manage her own life. Such a woman is naturally "unsociable".
A "loner" woman likes to be alone. Such a woman will know how to get along with herself, unlike other women, who will panic once they divorce everyone. A woman who likes to be alone will always be a bystander, will not participate in right and wrong, and will not talk about right and wrong. Those women who slowly enjoy themselves in right and wrong are somewhat vulgar and ridiculous to women who like to be alone.
Jewel Lee is a detached woman. She insisted on keeping a proper distance from this group of women, not far away. They often call her when they are quarreling together, but she just listens with a smile and doesn't participate in talking about who is right or wrong. Jewel Lee is wise to do so, but those women always feel that Jewel Lee is unsociable and difficult to get along with.
Jewel Lee clearly knows that what she wants is not this meaningless life. What she wants is wisdom and awakening, not wasting all her time talking about other people's affairs.
After the First World War, Jewel Lee was more convinced that my idea was correct. Women get together to speak ill of others, but I didn't expect the person being talked about to be next door. After hearing this, of course she couldn't let them go. What rushed in was a fist, and a group of women wrestled together. It's really scary. Some people have messy hair, some people have injuries on their faces, and some people even make a fortune. When a group of women were sent to the police station, Li Fei felt that.
Such a woman will not add unnecessary trouble, she will be alert, of course, she knows the benefits of silence better, and she doesn't like noise, because it is meaningless to know that it is true.
Women who are "unsociable" will not feel too dependent. Often those women who are unwilling to participate in people's opinions are people who like to think about problems or do things quietly. Most of them often have their own preferences. For example, Li Jing likes to read and write alone, especially when the women in the community are laughing in groups, and Li Jing is always sitting alone in the study to practice calligraphy.
She likes to admire ancient fonts quietly and find pleasure in learning books. She thinks that the value of books is a valuable resource that she will never learn. She cannot and will not waste her time on other things. Her greatest pleasure is sitting at her desk alone, but in the middle of the square is her big world.
Nothing can replace this pleasure of wandering between heaven and earth and ancient and modern times. She won't be as keen on buying China's clothes and jewelry as they are, and she won't compare and brag with each other as they do. Her world only needs her to understand.
A while ago, she saw a man's husband die in the community. The feeling of suddenly losing her physical support is indescribable. She is thinking, assuming that the woman can have a hobby worthy of lifelong pursuit, even if she loses the most precious person, she will not be so emotional and lose most of her hair in just a few weeks.
Li Jing knows how rich my material world is, and she will never be lonely. Her body is independent and has no dependence on the outside world. Her unsociable nature gave her more time to enrich herself and make the rest of her life slow or even better.
A lonely woman knows how to invest in herself. When a woman doesn't want to chat with most people, she must know that there are more meaningful things. She will put her time and attention on herself, and she knows how to invest in herself.
Fang Yue has been studying English for half a year. She wants to know about the outside world, but she hasn't had a chance to allow her to do so. It suddenly occurred to her to study. She wants to learn about the world by reading foreign books and websites. She knows that if people can keep learning, they won't age too fast. Although she is almost forty years old, her physical fitness and memory are declining, but she thinks it is better to spend a lot of time wasting money.
So in a short period of six months, Li Jing turned herself into a middle-aged woman who has never been abroad, but can speak standard spoken English. She looks more energetic and knows more, even more elegant and funny than those women who talk about their parents' shortcomings.
Sometimes it's not a bad thing to be "unsociable". Someone who can get along with me happily. They will enrich themselves from time to time with their own time alone. When a person is more and more enriched, she will live more and more happily regardless of her age.