He just doesn't worship you anymore.
The day before yesterday, my friend went to see the movie "Passing Through Your World" and came back and said to me: I didn't know why she left me and looked at Chen Mo and Xiao Rong. I don't think we worship each other anymore.
In the end, Chen and Xiao Rong separated, not because they didn't love each other, but because they weren't suitable.
One is romantic and uninhibited, and the other is realistic and courageous. The mutual worship in the university is slowly worn away by different personalities and pursuit directions, leaving only incomprehension in my eyes! Only forbearance!
So, when I heard my lovelorn friend say: He said he has put up with me for a long time, what can I say? If you can't stand it, divide it!
Then, watching her break glass in ktv, standing in a chair and screaming, "What else do you want from me?" I silently said to myself: Maybe he just doesn't worship you anymore. ......
Talking about the reasons for their separation, she said: "When we were together, I always gave in to him and obeyed him. Why did he finally put up with me? I really don't understand this relationship! Has he never really loved me? Are there so many questions for me? "
"Well, we don't talk about your problem for the time being. I will ask you: Does he worship you? "
My friend looked blank. "We are in love. I am not his idol. Why do you worship me? "
"Then do you worship him?"
"Well, yes, at first, I felt that he was very focused in his work and life, and he had his own goals and opinions. He is very handsome when he works hard and has always admired him! " Her tone is full of affirmation and pride.
"Then do you think he worships you?"
"I don't think it is appropriate. He has always taken care of me and guided me.
He thinks I can't handle a lot of things well, and always talks about how to do it properly, but I also know that I have nothing to admire!
Besides, isn't loving someone just helping the other person become better? Isn't that what everyone does? "
"But, the premise is that he decided that you are good enough, for your growth will be certain! You see how humble you are! "
She was silent for a moment. "So, we have always been an unequal relationship. He always thinks that there are many problems in what I do, and I always try to be better, always suppress myself and try to maintain our relationship.
He has been forbearing and trying not to tell me what to do. Finally, we are both very tired and often complain that the other party doesn't understand. "
I'm not sure what true love is, but if he doesn't praise you, encourage you, or even look up to you until you are hot all over, then I think he just doesn't love you.
/ 02 /
The appearance of love is an intimate worship.
These days, many couples are tortured by a sweet and loving Korean star couple. The man is An Zaixian, who plays Qian's younger brother in You from the Stars, and the woman is the Chinese cabbage comet in Meteor Garden.
What caused netizens to abuse single dog is the following photo. They ended their overseas trip that day and appeared at Gimpo Airport, holding hands all the way, which made a large number of wives envy and hate!
The two struck a spark in the cooperative drama "Hot Blood", and then the news of love and marriage broke out, which surprised many netizens and deeply regretted the man!
After all, the man is only 28 years old. He not only owns his own fashion brand AA. Gban, who also works as a designer for Jewelry brand, also has great development prospects in TV series. Entering the marriage hall early, the loss is a large female fan market!
However, many people ignore that Ku himself is not bad. She is not only an actress, but also a director, screenwriter, composer and performer. She is a veritable talented woman in Hanyu Circle.
Life is also a kind girl, insisting on doing charity with An Zaixian. When you get married, simply take a wedding photo and donate all the wedding expenses to the child's ward, which is very low-key.
Therefore, it is not surprising that An Zaixian's nickname "Youadults" in public programs is full of admiration.
It is understandable that the two of them can love each other so much, because they have equal careers and flourish in their respective fields. When they are apart, it is the best in the world to get together, and they also have the same ideas of love and charity.
Good love is even more evenly matched, not only materially but also spiritually. Only completely equal souls can love each other.
/ 03 /
I love you willingly because of my worship.
Colleague Z and his lover have been having a low-key and happy life.
One is frank and humorous, the other is gentle and kind, and they feel just right when they meet.
She listened to his jokes and laughed so hard that she became the king who supported him. And her paintings, he is as careful as his favorite game.
They worship, respect and cherish each other.
Even after seven years of long-distance love, their eyes still sparkle with hope and worship when they look at each other after marriage.
Z said: I really think she is the best lover, the best wife and the best mother in the world. No one can match her.
Many people say that the biggest secret of keeping marriage and love is to keep it fresh. I don't agree with them. On the contrary, I think mutual worship will make each other willing to become each other's gods, and mutual consent is the most real commitment.
/ 04 /
You and the people you love are the best people.
What do you like about me?
I love you, not because you are the best to me, but because you are good and omnipotent; You are not a hero for a second, but a hero in a million!
I love you, not because you can make me better, but because you make me feel good and precious.
I strive to pursue you because I see the admiration and treasure in the eyes of the other party, and I am convinced that I will be invincible by your side!
The best love doesn't have to be tolerated or accommodated. We are evenly matched and appreciate each other. We are all the best people. What could be happier than this?
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