She is a tacit understanding of meeting each other after a brief encounter and having nothing to say; Be happy today and never forget each other's memories in the future; This is concentric and consistent support with the * * * economy; It is the sharing of knowing each other in an emergency, and one person can't do it. Lu Xun also said: It is enough to have a bosom friend in life.
However, the friendship around us is really the same as the sun and the moon. Can heaven and earth learn from each other?
1.
The first time I met her, it was only because her eyes were clean and uncontroversial that I took the initiative to strike up a conversation with her and became friends. Speaking of this process, Ah Mui's eyes are still shining with happiness. Her name is Su Xiang, and she is a newly recruited employee of the company. As a veteran, A-mei always believes in her own vision: Su Xiang is a kind and simple person who can be a heart-to-heart friend.
Really, look at people. Just look at your eyes.
Yes, even eyes can deceive people sometimes.
She takes Su Xiang as her sister and takes special care of her. Knowing that she is just a college graduate, she still lives in a damp basement with three people, and her salary is not enough to pay the rent. She resolutely offered to let her move to her own residence, the rent was half of the previous one, but she lived more comfortably and had a sense of belonging. She really only thinks of Sue sincerely, and Sue seems to be very grateful to her.
Just like a friend in need is a friend indeed, a friend is a friend. If Amei didn't break up with her boyfriend, she would never have imagined how terrible it was to think like a sister.
Ah Mui and her boyfriend have reached the stage of talking about marriage, but her boyfriend suddenly broke up and never looked back. Ah Mui can't forget how cold love was in that hot summer. She is desperate and decadent, and even needs great efforts to breathe. When she saw Su Xiang, she seemed to see her relatives, but she held out her hands, but she didn't get a hug. Su Xiang pushed her away without hesitation and said awkwardly, It's too hot.
Her hands froze in mid-air, and her tears froze instantly. God knows how warm and comforting this hug should be for her. Facing the familiar and strange girl in front of her, Ah Mui swallowed her words.
Later, Sue wanted to jump ship and quietly moved out of their apartment. When I saw her again, it was A-mei who was buying a cup of coffee. Turning around, I saw Sue holding her ex-boyfriend into the jewelry store, talking and laughing. For a time, she felt that the flower of friendship that she deeply rooted in her heart and watered herself quietly turned into a cannibal flower and was swallowed up carelessly.
She suddenly thanked Sue for not saying goodbye when she left, because this woman didn't deserve it, which would only make her feel more sick.
2.
Phillips and Xiao Chang have become the closest friends in everyone's eyes and Xiao Chang's heart because of their common hobbies and optimistic and cheerful personality. Phillips was lovelorn and drunk, accompanied by Phillips; Phillips's relatives passed away, crying almost fainted, accompanied by Xiao Chang; Phillips has a boyfriend again, full of longing for love, and often stays with Xiao Chang; Phillips got together with friends, accompanied Xiao Chang, and introduced them one by one ... It can be said that all Phillips' unhappiness and happiness have the same memories as Xiao Chang's * * *. They whispered to each other, maintaining each other's little pride. In Chang's mind, this is probably a rare confidant in life.
I don't know when this firm friendship has quietly changed.
When we chat together, Fei will laugh with others, but she will never talk to her again. It seems that this person has never appeared, and he is very confused and wants to talk to Fei. Every time I was prevaricated and refused by various excuses, inexplicably, I was often left aside, like garbage that was despised by everyone, which was simply worse than garbage.
At the same time, Fei and others began to describe sisterhood, everything, so familiar, but so dazzling.
These are not random fabrications. Look back at your side. Is someone using your kindness and trampling on your feelings? When they are kind to you, they make you think that you have met the most precious friend in the world, but in a blink of an eye, they will forget you and continue to describe the deeper "sisterhood" with others. It is precisely because of this that repeated injuries, repeated deception, and repeated alienation are even more difficult to let go.
The most hateful thing is that I treat you as a confidant and you treat me as garbage.
The most exasperating thing is that I can't help being sincere to you when I know that you are just a hypocritical greeting.
Friendship turns out to be more selfless than love, just because "if it weren't for you, I wouldn't be sure." Friends know how to listen better than lovers. What I didn't say, what I didn't mean to say, I can't live without my dear, and I can't live without you. "
May we stay away from the "garbage people" around us, pay for it, and all the gains are worthwhile.