It is probably the dream of all men to have a virtuous and beautiful wife, but whether you can marry such a wife depends not only on your height and appearance, but also on your strength and financial resources. As a woman, I believe in this standard of mate selection.
My friend Hui graduated for three years and worked hard in Guangzhou for three years. Now he can't even afford a toilet. What everyone admires most is that he has a good girlfriend. How good is his girlfriend? The simple summary is: you can be beautiful and earn money to support your family. His girlfriend's name is Xiao Ni, and she works as an assistant to the general manager in a big company. Her monthly income kills her income. Tall, good figure, typical temperament beauty, not only that, but also the cooking level is first-class. It's so beautiful. A girl doesn't want to sing K or go to the movies after work. Instead, she goes to the market to buy food, comes back to cook and make soup, and then they have a nice meal together.
Every time we get together, we sigh that Hui doesn't know what virtue she has accumulated in her last life, and she can still find such a girlfriend in this life.
Hui also regrets his good luck and early start. When the goddess knew nothing about love, Hui had already pocketed love with her face. Then she stayed with him after graduation, no matter how hard or tired. After three rounds of drinking, what Hui said most was "Wife, I love you so much. It is my greatest blessing to have you in this life!" We usually record it and send it to Xiao Ni, and then Xiao Ni replies, "Don't let Hui drink too much, send him back early." Every time at this time, male compatriots will sigh: the same person, different lives!
Just as we were wondering when Hui and Xiao Ni would get married, Hui's relationship was in crisis.
One night six months ago, he called me very late and said, "You are at least a teacher who knows a little about psychology. Can you help me now? " I asked what was going on, and Hui said, "I guess Xiao Ni is going to break up with me." I was as surprised as if I had seen a volcano erupt with my own eyes. So how did Xiao Ni, who loves Hui, break up with Hui? After my repeated questioning, I realized that Ah Hui had been losing money in doing business for the past two years and didn't make any money. Xiao Ni's family wants Hui to buy a suite in the city for two people to get married, but Hui can't even get a down payment. Xiao Ni's mother said in Xiao Ni's ear every day that such a poor person had no way out, and Xiao Ni began to waver after being said too much.
"But I don't think Jenny is that kind of greedy person. Otherwise, if you are poor for two or three years, you won't see what is not good enough from your own point of view? " After listening, Hui sighed and said, "I resigned from the company a year ago and started a business, just thinking about making money. I hope I can marry Xiao Ni one day and let her live a carefree life." However, in this city, I have no connections and no funds. It's really hard to succeed. "I know that Hui has not been easy in the past two years. In order to save costs, he put down his handsome face, started from setting up stalls and bowed to people every day in order to sell more products. If the business is not good, he will sum up his reflection, find other ways out and try one by one, but I don't know why the improvement is still not great.
I thought about it and said, "Why don't I ask Xiao Ni out to talk? Anyway, everyone is familiar with her, and she should not refuse. " Hui said yes.
The next night, I asked Xiao Ni to meet me in the coffee shop near her company. Look at Xiao Ni and her dark circles. It seems that she didn't sleep well last night. Before I could speak, Xiao Ni's eyes were red. She said, "In fact, I didn't really want to break up, but I gradually felt that this life was not what I wanted. I work hard every day, but I can't save much money in a month. Three years after graduation, I don't know how to buy a house in Guangzhou, even if I go back to my hometown, I may not be able to afford it. Looking at friends who have studied together, they are better than themselves. I can't tell what it feels like. "
I advised, "In fact, it's all about money. But you and Hui both came to this city with bare hands. If you don't rely on your parents or your mother, it will definitely be harder to start from scratch and it will take more time. As you can see, Hui actually works hard. If you give him more time, maybe he can really succeed. "
Xiao Ni smiled and said, "Did it work? How can it be so easy? I saw him fail again and again. He cried in the middle of the night and I cried with him. In the past two years, his income has been very small, and he relies on me to make money to support his family. " Xiao Ni paused, looked up at me and continued, "Do you know why sometimes you ask me out on weekends, and I said I don't have time? Because I am a part-time translator and graphic model on weekends, I want to earn more money to improve our life, but I find that no matter how hard I work, life is still the same. My mother said that he dragged me down and delayed my youth. I sometimes think it is true. If I don't have to pay rent and water and electricity every month, and I don't have to buy food and cook by myself to avoid wasting money on going out to eat, I can do a beauty treatment today, go to a spa tomorrow and travel on weekends like everyone else. But I can't achieve all this, I can only envy others. When do you think this day will end? Wait for Hui to start a successful business? Wait another year, two years, three years or more? "
I don't know how to answer Xiao Ni, and I didn't expect Xiao Ni, who usually looks soft in Jiao Jiao, to say such a thing. It turns out that reality is a pig-killing knife, which can make girls who have been desperate for love care, and let beautiful men with dignity above all else set up stalls to do business and fight with urban management every day.
The chat can only end hastily at this point. Later, for a long time, our phone call to Hui was either busy or turned off. We were worried that he was depressed and decadent because he was separated from Xiao Ni. But I didn't expect that the boy paid the down payment for the house six months later and invited some of our friends out for dinner.
Everyone complains that he hasn't contacted his old friends for half a year. He said, "Six months ago, I knelt on the ground and begged Xiao Ni to give me another chance. She agreed with tears in her eyes. I know she still loves me and won't leave me. If I don't show her some actions, I'm doomed to never get married. I have some clients in the past two years. In the past six months, I have been chasing them every day to introduce products and provide services. All kinds of services are accompanied by eating and drinking, but I am not sleepy. Gradually, they began to believe in me and were willing to make friends with me, buy my goods and place orders for me. The day after I received the reservation money, I took Xiao Ni to pay the down payment for the house she had been interested in for a long time. Isn't this the third day to invite everyone out for dinner, hahaha! " We are relieved to see Hui now. Time won't let you down.
Hui didn't say those disgusting words after getting drunk this time, but said, "It's the most important thing to raise a good wife anyway!" " When I saw the sentence "Hard work can lead to a good wife" on his mobile phone screen saver, I finally understood that hard work has many meanings. For people with ambitions and dreams, the meaning of hard work is to realize their own value, but for us mortals, the meaning of hard work is nothing more than to marry a lover and a good wife, and then live and work in peace and contentment. Do you think so?
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