Actually, whether it's a scam or not. For an ordinary person, tell me my opinion! First, for men, no one wears diamonds, whether married or unmarried. Maybe most men are applicable! So the main users of diamonds are mostly women! Second, I'm married. I'm not going to buy a diamond ring for my wife. I bought a platinum ring, but she secretly bought a small diamond ring. Later, I told her to change it. As a result, when she went to exchange it, she was told that she could only exchange money for other styles of diamond rings, not pure metal rings such as platinum or gold. So I let it go, and she knew she had been cheated (I told her the value of diamonds a long time ago, but she didn't believe it, and now she does). Now she only buys pure metal jewelry and has never seen the diamond ring she wears. Third, my relationship with my wife is still very good. Before we got married, she also had many small problems, like a normal girl, so vain, but all of them were corrected under my guidance. I married her without a bride price or a wedding ceremony, so let's have dinner together! At first, she didn't like it here or there, so I told her, whatever you do, how much money you want to spend, how much money we have now and how much money we can earn a year. If the money is not enough, we can borrow it, but we can borrow it in our own name. Anyway, we can't use our parents' money. This is the bottom line. Later, she felt that many things could be saved, even the honeymoon trip that had been arguing. I find my wife is also very stingy. ) So whether there are diamonds or not has nothing to do with feelings. Fourth, everyone has different consumption concepts. Some families are still rushing about for three meals a day, while others are worrying about what to eat for three meals. As the main consumers of diamonds, they don't really believe that diamonds represent love, and diamonds are just a means for them to choose a spouse with better economic strength.