This afternoon, I made an appointment with my classmates to go to the People's Cinema to see a movie. A few days ago, we have locked in the target, which is "Happy Adventure". It must be exciting and interesting to see the name, right? I watched carefully with excitement. After coming out of the cinema, I couldn't be calm for a long time. It brings me happiness, but it also makes me realize the hardship of my parents.
This film tells a series of stories between the hero Luo and his father Lohan. Like thousands of primary school students in China, Luo doesn't want to get up in the morning. He has a headache when he sees the exam. He always feels that his father doesn't care about himself. Father Lohan is the sales manager of a toy company. He is always smiling, and he is passive to his boss, Nuo Nuo, Nuo Nuo. Father and son lived in their own circles, their thoughts didn't intersect, and they didn't know each other until an earthquake made them exchange identities and experience each other's lives, thus deepening their understanding.
There is such a wonderful episode in the story that I still remember it vividly: one day, Luo lost his temper with Lohan and locked himself in the house. After a while, a terrible earthquake came, and furniture such as lamps and cabinets kept shaking. The father desperately opened the door and rushed in to save his son. As soon as the cupboard fell down, the father immediately threw his son to the ground, fearing that his son would be hurt a little. It turns out that the father's love for his son has always been hidden in his heart, and it is only at the critical moment that the father shows it. What a great father!
Looking back at us living in the 2 1 century, some students never help adults share some housework, complaining all day that their parents are too strict with us and don't give us private space. I remember once, my mother asked me to mop the floor of my bedroom, and I dragged it reluctantly. Just dragging a small area, I feel sore, tired and sweaty on my head. I think: I only dragged my own family, so tired. That adult washed clothes and cooked for us all day, and worked hard day and night to raise us. How tired that should be!
Everything mom and dad do for us is an expression of love, although sometimes in different ways. But we should be more considerate of adults and communicate more when there are differences, so that there will be no contradiction between children and parents. "Crows have filial piety to feed back, and sheep know how to be grateful." As children, we should understand our parents more.
Review of Happy Adventure
The world of adults and the world of children are like two parallel spaces. Although parents and children live under the same roof, they have their own ideas and different ways of thinking and dealing with things.
Luohan is the sales manager of a toy company. He goes to work every day, and the boss is running. The boss will blame Lohan for farting in the elevator. Lohan is always smiling, and like Nuo Nuo, he is passive to his boss, Nuo Nuo. At home, he is Luo's full-time nanny, coaxing the children to get up, eat and go to school, and taking care of Luo as both a father and a mother. Like thousands of primary school students in China, Luo doesn't want to get up in the morning. He has a headache as soon as he sees the exam. He likes to play remote-controlled racing. He was bullied by big boys at school, but he never told his teachers or parents.
Lohan and Luo, the father and son, live in their own circles. They didn't have the intersection of thoughts and didn't know each other until an earthquake made them exchange bodies. They go to experience each other's life, get to know each other gradually, and go into each other's hearts to understand each other's world. Integrate into each other's lives, handle things in different ways, and achieve unexpected results. They met the jewel thief, defeated the jewel thief with * * *, and finally became their own bodies. Lohan found her beauty, and Luo became sensible.
We often say that parents and children should communicate more, know each other better and be considerate of each other. This is easier said than done. If you don't see each other's situation in person, how can you understand them deeply? Parents and children's hobbies and thinking directions are often diametrically opposed. Parents are experienced and often want to guide their children with their own experiences and experiences, while children often pay more attention to their own needs and psychological satisfaction, and often don't buy their parents' imperative words and deeds. The generation gap is formed not only because of age, but also because of different ways of thinking. The world of children is really hard to understand. They will be inexplicably keen on one thing, which may be a boring thing in our view. They are usually stubborn, thinking that one is one and two is two. They are rigid, unwilling to give in, and do not know how to look at problems from other angles.
A little girl walked with me before. She said she was worried to death, so I asked her, what are you worried about? All you have to do is study and take the exam. You are so happy. She gave me a cold look and said, I have to make up lessons at two o'clock every day and on weekends. I don't even have a chance to go out to play. I really want to go out to play. Then BLA BLA said a lot, and then she cried. I cried, because I was kept indoors and couldn't go out to play. I quickly comforted her and told her not to cry. At the same time, I not only sigh in my heart that the child's way of thinking is really strange!
Parents and children are sometimes like "enemies" of the two camps. To communicate and understand each other's world, "soul communication" is indeed a shortcut, but it is only an illusion after all. In the final analysis, it depends on mutual understanding and efforts to find the best way to exchange ideas and understand each other's world, so as to create a harmonious family relationship. First, it should be listening; Secondly, express your thoughts without reservation; Third, both parents and children should learn to put themselves in others' shoes. Of course, due to the limitation of experience and knowledge, it is naturally impossible for both sides to be completely consistent on the same issue. At least through communication, mutual respect and understanding can be achieved. Parents can listen to their children's voices to guide them better, and children can be more considerate of their parents, correct their misconceptions and grow into better people.
Not only parents and children, but also different groups don't understand each other. We should communicate more and understand each other.
Review of Happy Adventure
Class 4 (5) of Jessie Primary School in Danfeng County: Lu Fan
The school organized everyone to watch a movie called Happy Adventure. This film is both
Stimulating and beautiful, it brings us happiness, but also makes me realize that it is not easy to be a parent. This film tells a series of stories between the hero Luo and his father Lohan. Like thousands of primary school students in China, Luo doesn't want to get up in the morning. He had a headache when he saw the examination paper. When he handed out papers, he asked for blessings, always feeling that his father didn't care about himself. My father Lohan is the general manager of a toy company. The manager runs around every day at work, but he always smiles and looks like a coward. At home, he is Luo's full-time nanny, entertaining, eating and going to school.
There is a fragment in the story that I remember vividly. One day, Luo quarreled with his father and locked himself in the house. After a while, the room shook. Lohan slammed the door desperately and rushed in to save his son. Seeing this, the cabinet immediately fell down, and my father immediately threw himself on the ground. As a result, the earthquake made them exchange souls. The 38-year-old father has to go to school and worry about the fifth grade paper. /kloc-the 0/0-year-old son has to change into a suit, which has changed a lot. Dad realized the pain of going to school, and his son realized the trouble of going to work.
What is even more unexpected is that the father and son met the jewel thief by chance. Seeing that their son will be arrested, the father can't stand by and watch. It can be "10-year-old head", which is hard to resist, so I started a battle with two good friends and the thief Wang Yang. Finally, justice defeated evil forces, the oolong thief was caught, and the father and son lived happily.
After watching this movie, I benefited a lot, because it tells us a truth-to be a man, you must put yourself in the other's shoes. Should parents' feelings be considered? As Zhuangzi said, "those who care for their loved ones should be treated with care and treated with filial piety." Serving relatives can make them feel secure no matter where they are, which is the highest state of filial piety.