But for the present society, our present society is very different from the previous society. Now that society has developed, women have become more open, and many women have a clearer understanding of themselves.
Some women have personalities. They think that as a woman, she should not only be a fertility machine, but also have her own pursuits.
If women can meet the people they love, then they choose to get married; If they can't find someone they love, they would rather be single forever.
After all, today's women are also very powerful, and now women can hold up half the sky. We often find that there are many female white-collar workers in the workplace, who work hard in the workplace. When they are over 30 years old, they can also lay a world in the workplace.
Of course, our lives have to go on anyway. What kind of life do women over 30 generally live?
First, many people are married and have children, and they are working hard for their work and life.
For most women, after the age of 30, they already have their own children, their families and their husbands, and they have already completed the process of getting married and having children, so after the age of 30, they will put all their thoughts on work and life.
When a woman has children, we will see that this woman has great vitality.
They will give their children meticulous maternal love, and they will work harder.
At the same time, many women also know how to share the pressure of life for men, especially couples working in big cities. We will find that every expenditure in big cities needs money, except mortgage and car loan. We have to eat, pay property fees, pay utilities, and spend money on children's schooling. At the same time, going out to eat with friends and relatives also costs money. If children go to various training classes again, they need money. Therefore, many women are considerate of their husbands and are willing to share the pressure of life for them.
Second, they pursue an independent life. They don't want others to dominate their own lives.
Nowadays, many women are very open-minded. Many women know what they want and what they don't want. They don't want to make do, and they don't want to get married for the sake of getting married. In today's society, many people get divorced after a few years of marriage. Many couples find that their personalities are incompatible, they have no common hobbies, and there are various family reasons. Therefore, in this high divorce rate, many women have a new understanding of marriage and feel that it is good to exaggerate alone.
When a person lives, they work hard and make money to spend; Usually on weekends or holidays, they will go out to travel, and they will relax themselves well; In terms of quality of life, they know how to buy what they like and give them a life they like. Therefore, through their unremitting efforts, many women can become strong white-collar women or strong women who understand life after the age of 30, and can also achieve the same results as men.
Third, from the pursuit of flexibility beauty to the pursuit of temperament beauty.
As we all know, everyone has a love of beauty, and as a woman, this love of beauty is even worse. When I was a child, many girls loved to pursue the dress of some little girls. They dress up beautifully every day, just to attract those boys or make themselves beautiful, so that their mood will be more beautiful.
But when a woman reaches the age of 30, she has experienced many things. Some people have talked with a few friends, and some people have experienced many years of workplace experience, so they will have a clearer understanding of life. In this case, many women no longer pursue the beauty of a little girl, but begin to pursue the intellectual beauty and temperament beauty of a mature woman.