Hello, my friend, I'm Cao Engui from Ding Pei International.
In real life, each of us likes success, but we often feel powerless. I believe everyone feels the same way. I want to tell you here; Success, don't "try your best", but "borrow"!
( 1)
A little boy moved a stone in the yard. His father encouraged him: "Son, as long as you are everything."
Go all out and be sure to move! "But the stone is too heavy, and finally the child can't lift it. He told his father, "This stone is too heavy. I've done my best! ""Father said, "You didn't try your best." The little boy was puzzled. His father smiled and said, "Because I was beside you, you didn't ask me for help!" " "
Most of the time, we are little boys. Judging whether a thing can be done is often to have a look.
Your ability is enough. In fact, who stipulates that one thing can only be achieved by one's own ability? Many successful people don't have much ability, but they can integrate more resources. We also call it "borrowing".
(2)
Zhuge Liang in the Three Kingdoms period was one of the best users of "borrowing power".
One day, Zhou Yu said to Zhuge Liang, "You can build me 654.38 million arrows in three days."
This is an impossible task, but Zhuge Liang readily promised. Why? You can borrow it if you can't build it! He said to Cao Cao, "I will kill you. Can you lend me 65438+ ten thousand arrows? " You must say that Cao Cao won't agree unless he is crazy.
Cao Cao is crazy. He really lent Zhuge Liang 654.38 million arrows. On a foggy morning
In fact, Zhuge Liang sent thousands of wooden boats full of straw and pretended to attack Cao Ying. When Cao Cao saw Zhuge Liang, you really wanted to kill me. I'll shoot you with an arrow first and order all archers to send 10 thousand arrows at once. As a result, the arrows hit the straw of the ship one by one. In less than an hour, Zhuge Liang received more than 65,438+10,000 arrows from Cao Cao. This is the famous story of "the grass boat borrows an arrow" in history.
Who said that loans can only be given to "my colleagues, my friends, my relatives", and sometimes your competitors.
Competing for opponents is also a good borrowing object. Breaking through the limitations of "I", the world will be broader.
(3) Tell a foreign story.
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The British Library is a world-famous library with a rich collection of books. friendship
Third, the library will move, that is, from the old library to the new library. As a result, the moving expenses are several million, and there is no such money at all. What shall we do? Someone gave the curator an idea.
The library put an advertisement in the newspaper: from now on, every citizen can download the map of Britain for free.
The library borrowed 10 books. As a result, many citizens flocked to the library and borrowed all the books within a few days. The book is out, how can I return it? Everybody back to the new building. In this way, the library borrowed everyone's strength to move once.
I believe you want to be like the British Library. If you can find your own "four"
The power of two "(books), and dare to use the" power of four two "(free borrowing), everything is not a problem. Giving is sometimes a kind of borrowing.
Borrowing is not only a kind of ability, but also a kind of courage and wisdom.
Smith is only the most elementary way to borrow power. The real leverage is to use power to turn yourself into a tiger.
Let everyone borrow your strength. At that time, you will find that you can exert great power without borrowing. Lending is not to accomplish a certain goal, but to make yourself stronger, and so is the enterprise.
2. The meandering river on the 600-word narrative map with the theme of borrowing power; The master of art bends smooth lines; The winding waist of the majestic Great Wall shows that everything in life is not smooth sailing, and we all need to take detours. Taking a detour is a way of thinking to correctly look at difficulties and win by wisdom. There is no endless smooth road to life, and it is impossible to be smooth sailing.
A detour is a new consciousness that dares to find a new way and find another way, which enables us to open up a successful "new route" and walk out of our own "new continent".
Michael Jackson, the king of pop music, made records like other artists, so he didn't make a big splash that year. Faced with the crisis that he may be eliminated at any time, he did not passively release a record, but adopted the way of narrative film, adding his own personal MV to the single, which made him set off a frenzy in the pop music world. However, he invented spacewalk and pi in different ways.
In the face of insurmountable obstacles, detours reflect rational thinking and a clear mind, stand out from a narrow and single way of thinking and do not confront difficulties.
Director Cameron was tired of the form of ordinary movies in China, and made his own movie Avatar with 3D shocking effect, which won the crown at the box office of over 100 million yuan and became famous in one fell swoop. Edison knew nothing about theology, but he didn't catch up with theology, but studied his favorite mathematics and physics and eventually became a great scientist.
Circuitous is not the retreat of the weak and cowards, but the wise move of the wise to curve forward. We should not blindly fight against difficulties or hang ourselves on a tree, because that will only sink our "boat of life".
Nowadays, we lack a flexible thinking. Young college students committed suicide by jumping off a building because of frustration, children wanted to rob and steal in Internet cafes, and adults were separated because of quarrels. These people don't know how to take detours, and only by solving the problem in another way will they have such consequences.
Only by making a detour and being flexible can we embark on the right path when we are confused, see hope when we are desperate, become broad-minded when we are paranoid, become strong when we cry, be brave in finding another way on unreasonable goals, and intend to give up decisively. This is also an insistence on the great goal of life.
As anonymous said, "people who know how to beat around the bush and take fewer detours are often the first to climb the mountain."
3. The meandering river on the 600-word narrative map with the theme of borrowing power; The master of art bends smooth lines; The winding waist of the majestic Great Wall shows that everything in life is not smooth sailing, and we all need to take detours. Taking a detour is a way of thinking to correctly look at difficulties and win by wisdom. There is no endless smooth road to life, and it is impossible to be smooth sailing.
A detour is a new consciousness that dares to find a new way and find another way, which enables us to open up a successful "new route" and walk out of our own "new continent".
Michael Jackson, the king of pop music, made records like other artists, so he didn't make a big splash that year. Faced with the crisis that he may be eliminated at any time, he did not passively release a record, but adopted the way of narrative film, adding his own personal MV to the single, which made him set off a frenzy in the pop music world. However, he invented spacewalk and pi in different ways.
In the face of insurmountable obstacles, detours reflect rational thinking and a clear mind, stand out from a narrow and single way of thinking and do not confront difficulties.
Director Cameron was tired of the form of ordinary movies in China, and made his own movie Avatar with 3D shocking effect, which won the crown at the box office of over 100 million yuan and became famous in one fell swoop. Edison knew nothing about theology, but he didn't catch up with theology, but studied his favorite mathematics and physics and eventually became a great scientist.
Circuitous is not the retreat of the weak and cowards, but the wise move of the wise to curve forward. We should not blindly fight against difficulties or hang ourselves on a tree, because that will only sink our "boat of life".
Nowadays, we lack a flexible thinking. Young college students committed suicide by jumping off a building because of frustration, children wanted to rob and steal in Internet cafes, and adults were separated because of quarrels. These people don't know how to take detours, and only by solving the problem in another way will they have such consequences.
Only by making a detour and being flexible can we embark on the right path when we are confused, see hope when we are desperate, become broad-minded when we are paranoid, become strong when we cry, be brave in finding another way on unreasonable goals, and intend to give up decisively. This is also an insistence on the great goal of life.
As anonymous said, "people who know how to beat around the bush and take fewer detours are often the first to climb the mountain."
4. I hope that the composition of borrowing money will help you, remember to adopt it.
Wisteria and morning glory show their beauty with dead trees and fences, and fences and dead trees create their own scenery with morning glory and morning glory. "Gentleman's nature is the same, and goodness lies in personal leave."
The ancients knew how to use it thousands of years ago, and now we should know more. Of course, borrowing power is by no means a unilateral requirement, but a common achievement of both sides.
Learn, and smart people use it. As students, we should naturally know how to learn with help to get twice the result with half the effort.
With the help of teachers and counseling books, we can study more efficiently, acquire knowledge, improve ourselves and pave the way for the future. In the process of teaching us, the teacher also gained career, joy and peaches and plums all over the world.
Counseling books not only provide us with convenience, but also create a brand and create benefits. So win-win, why not? Career, wise men borrow money.
In the vast sea of people, there are countless talented people who have not been discovered and eventually drowned. It should be noted that Maxima can show his ambition through Bole's eyes, and Bole can also gain a good reputation through Maxima's ability.
Piano master Liszt was brilliant when he was young, but nobody appreciated him. After discovering his amazing talent, Chopin was invited to play a solo in his concert. Liszt lived up to expectations and became famous. From then on, he entered the music scene and eventually became a master. Chopin also cultivated Liszt, making him famous for his insight into pearls.
Hua was just a shop assistant in his early years, but he was found to be a genius in mathematics by Tsinghua, and he was admitted to the school without exception. Since then, China has stepped onto the altar of mathematics from Tsinghua and become a generation of giants; Tsinghua is famous for his China in seismology. Science helps the wise.
In this era of information globalization, scholars learn from each other and promote the rapid development of science. Have you noticed that many of today's Nobel Prizes are the result of the cooperation of scientists from many countries?
Hundreds of years ago, Kepler studied the world-famous "Kepler's three laws" with the help of the information recorded by his teacher Tycho who observed the planetary motion with the naked eye for forty years. Tycho is also famous in the history of science with the help of Kepler's great discovery. Edison invented the telephone with the help of Bell model, Ford invented the automobile with the help of Ben Ci internal combustion engine, Einstein proposed the electron of light with the help of Maxwell theory ... Newton once said, "I am tall because I stand on the shoulders of giants."
One scientific invention after another reminds us that smart people should make good use of it. Is a kind of wisdom, not laziness; Taking advantage is a kind of mutual assistance, not stealing; Winning by borrowing money is a kind of * * * rather than picking up cheap or losing money ... A wise man realizes himself and achieves others by borrowing money.
5. Smart people borrow money to write compositions. Wisteria and morning glory show their beauty with dead trees and fences, while fences and dead trees create their own scenery with morning glory and morning glory.
"Gentleman's nature is the same, and goodness lies in personal leave." The ancients knew how to use it thousands of years ago, and now we should know more. Of course, borrowing power is by no means a unilateral requirement, but a common achievement of both sides.
Learn, and smart people use it. As students, we should naturally know how to learn with help to get twice the result with half the effort. With the help of teachers and counseling books, we can study more efficiently, acquire knowledge, improve ourselves and pave the way for the future. In the process of teaching us, the teacher also gained career, joy and peaches and plums all over the world. Counseling books not only provide us with convenience, but also create a brand and create benefits. So win-win, why not?
Career, wise men borrow money. In the vast sea of people, there are countless talented people who have not been discovered and eventually drowned. It should be noted that Maxima can show his ambition through Bole's eyes, and Bole can also gain a good reputation through Maxima's ability. Piano master Liszt was brilliant when he was young, but nobody appreciated him. After discovering his amazing talent, Chopin was invited to play a solo in his concert. Liszt lived up to expectations and became famous. From then on, he entered the music scene and eventually became a master. Chopin also cultivated Liszt, making him famous for his insight into pearls. Hua was just a shop assistant in his early years, but he was found to be a genius in mathematics by Tsinghua, and he was admitted to the school without exception. Since then, China has stepped onto the altar of mathematics from Tsinghua and become a generation of giants; Tsinghua is famous for his China in seismology.
Science helps the wise. In this era of information globalization, scholars learn from each other and promote the rapid development of science. Have you noticed that many of today's Nobel Prizes are the result of the cooperation of scientists from many countries? Hundreds of years ago, Kepler studied the world-famous "Kepler's three laws" with the help of the information recorded by his teacher Tycho who observed the planetary motion with the naked eye for forty years. Tycho is also famous in the history of science with the help of Kepler's great discovery. Edison invented the telephone with the help of Bell model, Ford invented the automobile with the help of Ben Ci internal combustion engine, Einstein proposed the electron of light with the help of Maxwell theory ... Newton once said, "I am tall because I stand on the shoulders of giants." One scientific invention after another reminds us that smart people should make good use of it.
Is a kind of wisdom, not laziness; Taking advantage is a kind of mutual assistance, not stealing; Using it is a win, not a bargain or a loss. ...
A wise man, with the help of others, realizes himself and achieves others.
What about you?
6. Dare to innovate and boldly try to write a composition of 800 to 900 words for the purpose of writing a topic. Many people will think that a comfortable and rich life is the ultimate goal of life, and who will be willing to run around for life every day and be exhausted?
Similar phenomena can be seen in nature. When the cold winter comes, some animals will reserve food early, hide in caves, and spend this cold season comfortably without worrying about the cold outside; Some animals migrate from the north to the far south in droves, looking for a warm place to spend the winter, although the journey is difficult.
The former is conservative and unwilling to take any risks. They believe that the advice of their predecessors may be their future path. The latter travel more bravely, hoping to explore the true meaning of life, and they believe that their own strength can determine the direction of life. In my opinion, these are actually two different philosophies of existence, and I prefer the latter.
Tao Yuanming's Peach Blossom Garden in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, far away from the secular world, has given the world more yearning. People are eager to have a comfortable and rich world, stay away from dirty officialdom and repair tired hearts. However, the writer Zhang Xiaofeng created such a play. After enjoying all the tranquility, Wu Lingren, who accidentally entered the Peach Blossom Garden, chose to resolutely walk out and return to the secular and complicated Wuling. He thought, "Wuling is not heaven, but I can think of heaven here." The happiness of Taoyuan deprived me of the right to think. "Wu Lingren is afraid to tie his life to the comfortable life in Taoyuan, and his heart imprisoned in so-called happiness no longer knows the courage to fight against hardship and darkness, and there is no longer the experience of" not falling into the blue sky "in adversity. So he decided to leave there, and escaped from the surplus with a bear-like philosophy of existence, which has the spirit of Wan Li's migration and fearless struggle.
Nowadays, the openness of modern society makes everyone face more opportunities and choices. If you haven't tried, you won't know your own ability, let alone your own potential, and whether there is a better future. If a person can stick to an industry all his life, I believe he will achieve something and become a respected person in a certain field. But if he keeps going, there may be more opportunities and more scenery in life. Migration makes life more challenging and colorful.
For those who migrated, although they paid the price of turmoil, they gained many opportunities for development and more hopes for success. And most of us often miss many opportunities for development because of our deep fear of the turbulent lifestyle.
Animals are always flying, so live a good and meaningful life. For human beings, in the face of the challenges of life, why don't we keep fighting, making progress and courageously moving towards the goal of life, just like migration?
7. Write an 800-word parallel short composition, the purpose is to know how to respect others. I am not a good student. Often ridicule others and embarrass them. It is common to make others cry.
Eccentric and mean, he can't make good friends and hangs out with friends all day. I later learned from an honest man that I don't respect others, so others don't want to make friends with me. The primary school teacher gave up on me.
But from one thing that day, I learned to respect others. It was Sunday, and I made an appointment with my friends to play. I saw an old man picking up junk. He is about sixty years old, his face is covered with walnuts, his hair is white, he is wearing a blue hat, his clothes are tattered and patched, and his eyes are blurred. I opened the skylight of my car, and a "friend" immediately stood up and asked loudly, "dead old man, how many days have you been eating garbage?" Is it delicious? " The old man's face twitched, but then he picked up the rag and walked down alone. After spitting on his face, the old man turned around and picked up the rag again. A car full of people laughed, and I laughed with them. At this moment, I saw the old man, and he cried! I stopped laughing and looked at him. The old man looked at me with charming eyes, pitiful but with a kind of perseverance. I saw tears as big as pearls rolling down, and I felt tears stabbing my conscience like sharp arrows.
The old man's eyes were fixed on me, pitiful. I told others to stop at that time, and one person was still laughing, saying that the old man looked like a dog and laughed.
I put myself in the shoes and imagine how uncomfortable the old man is at the moment. I heard his laughter stab my conscience like a knife. I held back my fire and said, no, I growled, "Shut up!" He still smiles, and others know what I mean, but he still smiles. I gave him a mouth and then I slapped him. I was so energetic that I beat the man with a nosebleed. Conscience, bow and apologize, and go.
I see. Respect others. The beautiful scenery in the sunset is infinite, and I have no intention of enjoying it. I have been thinking about the old man's tears, which reflect my sin.
I broke up with my friend. Say to a good student, "Do you want to make friends?" Because I'm starting to respect others.
I heard a story. A father asked his son to scold a man for nailing a nail in the wood, pulling it out one by one, and finally pulling it out, but it was full of holes and could not be repaired. Stick a band-aid on the holes of these stakes, and this band-aid means respect.
8. Write an article on the topic of "Learning to Depend". "The mountain is not high, the fairy is famous. The water is not deep, and the dragon is the spirit. I am a humble room, but I am virtuous. "
The flow of water adds a little spirituality to the level of mountains, and the appearance of mountains brings a little romance to water supply.
The stars are the eyes of the night, and the sun is the hope of everything.
Fish realizes freedom by virtue of rivers and seas, and clouds return to leisure by virtue of blue sky.
Flowers light up green leaves, birds sing spring, dreams light up life, and art lasts forever.
Language spreads ideas, and ideas enrich language.
Depending on the time to set off, sometimes to reflect, and sometimes to contrast the harmony, no matter which kind, conforming to nature often brings joy and beauty.
"Climb high and recruit, the arm is not lengthened, and the viewer is far away; Call with the wind, the sound does not add disease, but the listener is obvious. Those who cheat horses are not good enough, but cause thousands of miles; A man who pretends to be a boat can't swim, but he can't swim. The life of a gentleman is different, and goodness is illusory. " The discovery of natural laws and the creation and invention of wisdom can bring convenience and civilized enjoyment to mankind, but without humanistic care, it will inevitably bring war and destruction.
Garage and jewelry garage, which can interpret life taste and flaunt luxury style; Books can nourish the tired soul and entertain the extra time; Art can show the charm of civilization and the superficiality of decorative materials.
Thought can make people perfect or degenerate.
Self-confidence and courage can bring youthful vitality to people, and the proliferation of ambition will burn us and destroy the world it controls. Moderate inferiority and jealousy make people work hard, while excessive pessimism and jealousy make people desperate and crazy.
Equal respect and appreciation can arouse self-confidence and gratitude, purify and enhance people's spirit, and also cause arrogance, indifference and arrogance.
Sincerity can make people feel like a spring, although it is difficult to nourish a hypocritical heart; Enthusiasm as a child's curiosity can be called popularity, although it is difficult to ignite the core of indifference.
The beauty of music can be pleasing to the eye, pleasing to the eye, or encouraging vanity, glitz and egoism. Power can satisfy the desire for control, and the sense of dominance makes people picky about the world.
A wise monarch makes a good minister, while a treacherous court official makes a bad minister. As a minister, his contribution has been promoted, but if he makes great contributions, he will cover the Lord with great achievements. If his contribution has expired, there will be "birds are exhausted and good bows are hidden;" A sly rabbit dies, and a running dog cooks; If the enemy country is broken, the adviser will die. "
Doctors rely on medical skills to save people, but also rely on the study of terrible viruses to improve the level of saving the world; Mothers rely on love to create a warm growing environment for their children. Children rely on their mothers' full love to grow better and faster, but sometimes they turn into dependence, such as hardworking mothers and lazy children.
Therefore, the motivation of dependence comes from itself and requires rational judgment and choice; The purpose of relying on is to perfect and beautify the world, which requires the creation of wisdom.
If a toddler can walk but is afraid to give him a candy, a toy or a small bench, he will forget the fear of falling and stagger to his destination. Instead of caring about the joys and sorrows of gains and losses, it is better to learn to rely on and concentrate on what you do, and be indifferent and relaxed. For example, in the face of criticism and contempt, some people will lose confidence because of it, and some people will rely on it to find their own shortcomings and a new starting point.
It turns out that relying on a philosophical attitude and a wise choice is to keep you in the dark all the time, not to let the darkness drown you, but to look for hope and courage from distant stars.