2. Determination of the meeting place: In order to keep quiet, you can actually choose one party's home directly, usually the woman's home. Because the two sides are going to form in-laws, it is warmer and easier to talk at home. By visiting at home or taking daily life as the topic, you can get familiar with and adjust the atmosphere as soon as possible.
If you want to chat while eating, you can choose a restaurant to meet. But be sure to choose a private room, which can be booked in advance. It is best to choose a restaurant with quiet, good environment and exquisite dishes. Newcomers can book in advance, don't order on the spot, waste time and embarrass everyone. The dishes should be based on the tastes of the elderly. Newcomers can ask about their eating habits at home, which is more polite and comprehensive.
3. Meeting etiquette: Dressing up is also very important on such a solemn occasion. Wear a solemn formal dress, neatly combed hair and appropriate jewelry. Parents need to shake hands when they meet, or take off their hats and nod to say hello.
Under normal circumstances, children should introduce themselves to their parents, and the introduction time should not be too long. Smiling is also very important, and we have become a family since then. A good start will also lay a good foundation for the future. Although parents meet, the protagonist is still a child. Children need to be taken care of from time to time to avoid embarrassment, whether it is to adjust the atmosphere, eat or even go to the toilet.
Be elegant and dignified when eating, because it is for children, not for eating. Pay attention to dining etiquette, chew slowly, and don't use your chopsticks to pick up food for each other.
Such occasions are generally round tables that can be rotated, and the tables in some high-end restaurants will automatically rotate without holding food with each other. What newcomers should pay attention to is that while taking care of the elderly, they should also pay attention to their other half and let the elders feel the love between their children.
4. Meeting gifts: gifts are for children, so gifts for each other don't need to be too expensive. Of course, if the economic conditions are good, you can also choose fine jewelry as a gift. But red wine, tea, ladies' cosmetics and so on are enough.
5. Communicate with your family in advance. Before parents meet, we need to introduce some basic information about our family, so that parents of both sides can have a preliminary contact and understanding. This is a small detail, the so-called basic situation, that is, the approximate age, work experience, retirement or employment, personal hobbies and so on. So that we can have a topic to talk about when we meet for the first time, and it won't be too embarrassing.