For an intimate relationship, women's appreciation and worship of men is the core cornerstone.
When a woman no longer admires that man from the bottom of her heart, no amount of touching will affect her boredom with him. In the final analysis, the form that is good for a person is not important at all. What matters is who uses this form, who is good to whom and who is valuable, and the contribution will be valued.
Therefore, when emotional problems arise, the source problem is often value, including attraction and charm.
Of course, the possibility of changing your mind is not ruled out. After all, every relationship will inevitably encounter such problems.
What was said and promised, the degree of feelings only happened according to the needs, hopes and understanding at that time. Later, with the change of environment, situation and conditions, considering the cost of completion, it is possible to change the original wishes and intentions.
There is no eternity, such as immediate love and lifelong love. In feelings, what happens when a woman is tired?
When a woman begins to get tired of a man, there are four manifestations that are direct and obvious!
1, everything is wrong.
It is wrong for a man to be good or bad to her. It is wrong to speak softly or loudly. Whatever he does is wrong in her opinion.
Even breathing the same air as her is wrong.
At this time, women have questioned their original decision countless times, so belittling, mocking and criticizing him has become the norm in life. The most important thing is that she can't see his change and recognition of his efforts and success.
Generally speaking, the whole person has been denied, and it is meaningless to do anything to retain and work hard.
Including not wanting to communicate with him again, his face is full of perfunctory words, and he is too lazy to answer a word or fight once.
But for everyone outside, I was able to talk to Kan Kan in a pleasant way and changed a person immediately.
It's not that no matter how hard he tries, he still can't meet her standards. It's just that she no longer has any standards for him and just wants to stay away.
2. There is no patience anymore.
Mao Mu said: "A woman can be more cruel to a man who still loves her than anyone else, but she doesn't love her anymore;" Not only was she unkind to him, but she couldn't stand it at all. She became irrational and angry. "
In front of him, women always pull a face and vent their inner boredom with him through many small things.
Keep an impatient attitude, whether you care about her or love her is wrong, and you will eventually be questioned angrily. Are you bored? Are you tired?
Of course, even if a woman makes a little mistake to him, she can't tolerate it any longer and will soon be bossed around.
Impatient attitude is often manifested in not being able to speak well, not being able to speak well, and always poking where it hurts to vent their boredom.
At the same time, he also knows that the best way to attack a man is to compare him with others and degrade him to nothing in this comparison.
It is no longer needed anywhere.
When a woman begins to get tired of a man, the most direct manifestation is to deny his value and ignore his existence. When there is no longer any dependence, her "independence" is somewhat indifferent.
Yes, that is, she no longer has any need for him.
No matter what happens, I want to solve it myself. Even if you ask an outsider for help, you are too lazy to talk to him more. This performance also means drawing a clear line.
Maybe he is also preparing for his departure. When the time is right, he will retreat immediately, decisively and resolutely.
Of course, she didn't care about men's needs, didn't care, didn't feel bad at all, and began to put personal interests first.
The feeling for a man is that she is getting away from herself step by step, and the two people are becoming more and more strange, but they are helpless. They can't find a better way to get close, just like hedgehogs.
4, there is no longer any real sharing.
You can't hide your love for someone, and there's nothing you can do. That is, when you still like someone, no matter what you have seen or experienced, you always want to share it with them for the first time.
I hope that the things that make me happy can also bring happiness to the people I like.
This is like a person's hidden feelings, but also a real sharing based on trust, sharing their own experiences and feelings.
When unwilling or unwilling to have any communication with a person, it is not only dislike, but also a heartfelt disgust.
I just don't want the other person to know too much about myself, and I don't want to know too much about the other person. Anyway, it has nothing to do with yourself, just a lack of trust and belonging.
In fact, everyone can realize what the outcome of this continuation is, but it doesn't matter anyway, no matter what the outcome is.
These are the four points summarized. Women are tired of men's obvious performance.
If you don't want to go on like this, you must first find the source problem, and blindly cater to and please, but it will make the other party look down. Finding yourself first is the first task at present.
Create and embody your own value with your own personality, and first show your uniqueness.
Let a person who doesn't love you fall in love with you again. The key point is whether you can let her see an unexpected you and suddenly gain some charm and ability that she didn't know before.
If you have let the other person down again and again before, it is necessary to prove your change with practical actions.
It's not easy to give up along the way, but whether you like it or not is not up to one person. Think more about where the source problem is.