Tang Bohu said: "People laugh at me for being crazy, and I laugh at others for not being able to see through it." It was an era of extremely strict ethics and ethics, and it was also an era in which Yangming's mind was widely supported. What did Tang Bohu see through under the opposition of these two thoughts? He has seen through the ridicule and ridicule of the world and can't hurt himself at all. Only he can hurt himself. So no matter what other people think, the world in Tang Bohu is much more spacious.

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Laozi said in the Tao Te Ching: "A person who is humble to her husband is faithful first." He believes that the so-called benevolence, righteousness, propriety and righteousness are the source of evil that leads to the collapse of the world, because human beings act by instinct before opening their spiritual wisdom. At that time, people's behavior conformed to the Tao, and after spiritual wisdom was opened, desires followed, and at this time there was a "moral" constraint. Some people have mastered the Force, while others have mastered power. In order to prevent superiors from doing whatever they want, "benevolence" was born, and "righteousness" was born with the birth of empathy and became a code of conduct. However, as soon as "Li" was born, all the benevolence, righteousness and morality were abandoned by the world, so "Li" also marked the emergence of human social disasters.

▲ "Shemale Queen" Nisha (middle)

Therefore, although "ceremony" is an important part of Chinese civilization, it should not be static, but should change with the change of human values. Perhaps at some point in the future, human beings can abandon "courtesy", "righteousness", "benevolence" and "virtue" and act according to "Tao" again, which is called returning to nature. Perhaps today's level of civilization, we are still far from returning to the realm of nature, but at least we can change our views on some "rituals" from the concept.

▲ Scenery of Chiang Mai in Thailand

For example, we will no longer look at same-sex marriage and transgender people strangely, because these are only personal choices, and ordinary people are hard to accept because of the inertia of traditional ideas, but in fact, these people's practices have not caused substantial harm to society, so as outsiders, they should not interfere and blame.

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When it comes to practices that are difficult for ordinary people to understand, the most eye-catching thing is sex-change surgery. When it comes to Thailand, people will immediately think of the famous shemale. Many people who have occasionally heard about it can't understand why there is such a "freak" as a shemale, but the reason is not complicated. Most of them are family poverty, and some of them are personal pursuits.

▲ "Shemale Queen" Nisha photo

There is a transsexual man in Thailand who is popular all over the country. He is so popular that he even overtakes the A-list stars. He is called "the shemale queen". As far as common sense is concerned, when transvestites are famous enough, they often choose to be models, enter the entertainment circle or engage in some special occupations. The legend of this "transvestite queen" is that she was finally pursued by a wealthy businessman in China, married the rich man and came to China. This transsexual person's name is Nisha.

▲ Nisha and her husband took a group photo.

Like all shemale, Nisha enjoys the scenery in front of the stage, but the suffering behind it is unimaginable for ordinary people. They need to take a lot of estrogen for a long time from childhood, so that they can be closer to femininity when they grow up. For example, an excellent shemale like Nisha is often difficult to distinguish between men and women. Nisha became famous by participating in the 20 14 Tiffany global beauty contest. In that contest, Nisha won the championship with her amazing beauty, and became popular in public from then on, and was also called the "shemale queen" from then on.

▲ Nisha photos

Originally, Nisha would choose to enter the entertainment circle like other popular shemale, but at this time, a China man appeared in his life, and finally this man changed his life. This man is a wealthy businessman in China, and his name is Brother Bao. He was deeply attracted by Nisha from the first moment he saw her, regardless of the strange eyes that might be caused in the future, so he began to pursue Nisha.

▲ Nisha and her husband took a group photo.

At first, Nisha thought that Bao Ge, a rich man, was just a playboy who took a fancy to his appearance and had no long-term plan to live with him, so she always showed a lukewarm attitude towards him and showed obvious rejection. But all these failed to dissuade the rich man. He kept brushing his presence in front of Nisha in the wind and rain, attracting her attention, and finally really moved Nisha, making him want to believe that the rich man is sincere. Then, the rich man Bao Ge directly asked Nisha to get a marriage certificate to further prove his sincerity.

Now, Nisha is 28 years old and their married life is very happy. This rich Bowman Ge always loves Nisha as he did when he first met her, and never cares about her gender. As for fertility, he doesn't have to consider it. He often accompanied Nisha personally to get estrogen and go to the hospital for physical examination, which can be described as meticulous care. In the face of true feelings, all obstacles are not obstacles.

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Actually, neither transsexuality nor homosexuality is a scourge. As long as we can treat them with a normal heart, we will find that these people are no different from ordinary people, and their existence will not affect the normal development of human civilization. If you can't accept it in your heart, just ignore it, but if you insult and abuse these people, it is a sign of low quality.