The "obsession" with music made an irreparable mistake. 20 1 1 year, Bella was diagnosed with early breast cancer in routine physical examination. It stands to reason that early and middle stages of cancer, especially early and timely treatment, are very effective, and it is difficult to recur with proper methods.
After discovering cancer, Bella immediately underwent total mastectomy and plastic surgery. After chemotherapy, his body recovered. However, Bella loves music so much that he returned to work directly after the operation. She feels that she can't leave the stage for too long, and only in music can she find the meaning of life. ?
High-intensity work and irregular work and rest, but the most terrible thing about cancer is its suddenness and repetitiveness. Even in the early stage of cancer, after treatment, follow-up health care and rehabilitation may be a lifetime thing. In particular, it is easy to relapse, and once it recurs, it is the most dangerous sign. However, Bella just finished chemotherapy and started the workaholic mode. Every day, all kinds of notices are busy, and his diet is extremely irregular.
In 20 13, when Bella participated in The Voice of China, although she sang well, she finally missed the championship. During this period, her body appeared some discomfort, but she didn't care. High-intensity work combined with irregular work and rest finally crushed her body.
From 20 14, Bella realized that her physical condition was getting worse and worse. After going to the hospital, he found that cancer cells had begun to spread. At this time, there is basically no possibility of a complete cure, but if he can be hospitalized immediately, at least his life can last for several years. However, Bella did not stop. This year, she still forgot to work, even coughing up blood when recording the program at the end of the year, but she still insisted on singing the last song-and the song "Fish" became her swan song!
20 15 65438+ 10/6, Bella "left" with endless regrets. She was only 33 years old.
The conclusion is actually cancer, and the most terrible thing is uncontrollable. You never know when it will sneak back. Once it recurs and infects other organs, it is really hopeless.
Even early surgery is the same, the body needs to be nursed back to health and protected, and it needs careful observation. There are many things to pay attention to, such as a healthy attitude, keeping a healthy weight, regular physical exercise, paying attention to nutrition collocation and so on.
All these require the close cooperation and efforts of yourself and your family, and you must recuperate. How to get a good adjustment under high-intensity working conditions?
Bella's tragedy has given us many warnings. Many people don't quite understand the relationship between body and career and can't find this balance point. They always think that they can fight and work hard now, and we can talk after a break, but no one can say when it will be in the future.
As Aunt Xu said in "Settle Down", "Anything beyond your ability is bought with your life. Do you know why you are sick? That's God reminding you that you are a human being, not an octopus, and you can't hold everything in your hand. "