Because of this, the mother regretted her way of "having money to raise children" all the time.
It is said that the poor raise children and the rich raise daughters.
I raised my daughter as a princess, but instead of cultivating a princess, I spoiled a "princess" disease.
How many parents in China have eaten a poisoned chicken soup with a rich adopted daughter?
0 1 Material abundance will ruin children.
In the entertainment circle, Li Xiang's strong support for his daughter Wang Shiling is well known.
Li Xiang himself has revealed that her daughter's monthly living expenses are around 700,000, which is enough for ordinary people to buy a school district house a year.
On one occasion, because of Li Xiang's "strong support" for Wang Shiling, it caused an uproar. Wang Shiling's clothes and all kinds of designer bags are very valuable when he was young. Some netizens shouted: I can't afford a bag for three months!
These are just the tip of the iceberg, and netizens have lamented that this richness is not affordable for ordinary people.
Li Xiang's refrigerator has been filled with bird's nest, all kinds of precious ingredients and so on. She once said that her idea is to raise her daughter rich, and there is nothing wrong with it, that is, to make the best use of her daughter.
Nowadays, in every family, children are well-deserved protagonists, such as "raising children well", "not letting children lose at the starting line" and "giving children the best". Almost every family regards these words as a treasure book of parenting, for fear of wronged children.
However, is it really just for the material satisfaction of children to have money to raise?
Enriching children is not measured by the amount of material.
For children, being truly rich and valued is being with their parents and being truly loved, not "love" piled up with material things.
The richness of knowledge is better than the gift of wealth.
In those days, the crying Bao Sen disc in Where's Dad Going has quietly turned into a big girl.
In the video, 12-year-old Mori Yoshiro wears a sports suit and does exercises with a refreshing ponytail. The slender figure and tight calf muscles have made many netizens envious.
After the program of that year, under the intentional protection of mom and dad, Mori disc reduced a lot of exposure and life returned to peace. But every time I happened to show up later, I could see her obvious change. Not only looks taller and bigger, but also looks better. In recent years, Mori Disc has gradually unlocked countless new skills and become more and more versatile. Some time ago, Tian Liang took photos of Mori Yoshiro practicing tennis on the Internet.
Mori Yoshiro's arm muscles are tight on the court, and his posture is very standard. Not only is he good at tennis, but Mori Yoshiro is also an expert in track and field. As early as a few years ago, she participated in world-class competitions and won two bronze medals in javelin and running.
Mori disc is not only talented in sports, but also cultivates many other hobbies in his spare time. She also studies musical instruments and plays the violin very well.
Not only passed the professional music grade exam.
He also appeared on CCTV and performed.
In her spare time, she also takes her brother to cook.
In the years after Where's Dad Going, Sen not only grew up healthily, but also became an all-round "other people's child".
Wang Xinyi, a poor girl who was admitted to Peking University with a score of 707 this year, wrote: The lack of material brings nothing more than two results, one is the extreme poverty of spirit, and the other is the extreme enrichment of spirit.
And she chose the latter, because her mother always told her: to firmly believe in the power of knowledge and education, this is a road to a wider world.
Maybe she doesn't have the excellent material conditions of her peers, but she is equal in the right to learn knowledge. She has made proud achievements because she works harder than others.
Wang Xinyi's success also gives us reason to believe that knowledge can change fate, and it is also an important passport for people to move from cold to Longmen.
Knowledge is noble, so is poverty. If you love it, it belongs to you.
If you have it, you have a wealth of knowledge.
What is real enrichment?
In the latest issue, Ma Yili, a reader with the theme of "thank you", made a guest show and talked about his parents.
Born in an ordinary family, she didn't enjoy good material treatment since she was a child and couldn't afford beautiful clothes, so she wore sweaters knitted by her mother until she was twelve or thirteen.
Although their educational level is not high, their parents have very clear educational principles. From an early age, they told her that children should not look back at others, be greedy, reach for things, and give things without taking them.
After going to college, her father kept reminding her: Go out to eat with male classmates, don't let them pay the bill, bring your own money.
Therefore, Ma Yili has been particularly independent since childhood. He/Kloc-left his parents at the age of 0/5 to earn his own living. Ma Yili said: "I have received enough care and trust from my parents since I was a child, which makes me feel particularly safe, confident and self-respecting."
Since her debut, we have seen Ma Yili as a hardworking, confident, loving and warm woman.
Admittedly, this is related to her parents' principle and bottom line education.
Abundance is never an endless material supplement, nor is it an endless indulgence.
Enrichment is to give a child a correct mold of three views and make her grateful, independent and confident. These are the treasures that accompany her all her life.
A netizen in Weibo said this: If I have a daughter, I want to be so rich and love her with all my strength, so that she can study in thousands of books, visit Wan Li Road and taste countless delicious foods.
I hope that every girl in the world can be cultivated by rich people: know how to love, know how to love, have open-minded knowledge and rich experience, and know how to refuse temptation after tasting beauty.