My husband doesn't like my makeup. [Cover your face] [Cover your face]
First, my husband always said that cosmetics contain a lot of chemical components, even the most expensive cosmetics will contain chemical components. It's still young, and makeup will look good. When you get old, you will have a chemical reaction and look even worse.
Second, every time I go out, my husband always says it's a waste of time. When I make up, it takes a long time. People who are impatient like my husband are impatient.
Third, my husband said that wasting money always means spending it better on children or family expenses.
Do you have the same husband [laugh and cry] [laugh and cry]
Men who are afraid of passing by have a high rate of turning back, and they are afraid of being too beautiful and insecure. After all, a man who is afraid of his wife's makeup lacks confidence in front of his wife.
Why doesn't my husband like his hair makeup? This question is a bit interesting: everyone loves beauty. Is her husband a little heretical? Obviously, this is unlikely. My husband should also know that women are tolerant of themselves.
What's going on here? It should be that the husband has no confidence in himself or his wife, and he is afraid that his makeup will be beautiful and someone will seduce him, and he is even more afraid that his wife will leave him. That's true in real life. If a woman never likes to dress herself up and suddenly loves to dress up one day, then this woman is either in love or having an affair.
Married women, please remember: it's not that the husband doesn't like his wife's dress, but that he doesn't like it very much, lest you hold your head too high on the road.
Everyone has a love of beauty. Does your husband really dislike your makeup? I don't think so! It can only be said that you didn't understand your husband's inner world at all, and you didn't convince him of the makeup artist and method. As a man, I will talk about the question you asked from a man's point of view.
Before the 1980s, for most ordinary women, the concept of make-up was hardly as strong as it is now. Because of the social environment, living conditions, concepts and other factors at that time, makeup became the only luxury that women could have when they got married! With the further development of reform and opening up, women began to pay attention to makeup. "Bells, trousers and high heels, with a head as white as fennel" became the fashion trend of women's pursuit of beauty at that time, and also became a symbol of men's pleasing to the eye.
Although on the surface, they don't like their wives' makeup, in fact, they are always eager to meet beautiful women in fashion in the street, hoping that their wives can dress up beautifully. How many men in the world don't want their women to be beautiful? I'm afraid not. Husband doesn't like his wife's makeup, because he is worried that her wife will have an affair one day, or she will run away with another man. This is a typical subconscious exposure of distrust and anxiety about his wife.
Heroes are sad about beauty, and there has been love and hate since ancient times. Husband doesn't like his wife's makeup, mostly because he has no confidence in himself. Most of this self-confidence comes from his earning ability and personality charm. Faced with all kinds of successful men in society, they often show inferiority and negativity. They hope that they can be as capable and powerful as other successful men, so that their wives can persevere and have no regrets about their love. However, due to various reasons, their career has been frustrated again and again, and even failed. Therefore, they lack firm belief.
As the saying goes: three points of appearance, seven points of dress. Husband doesn't like his wife's makeup. Does he like his wife to be unkempt every day? Husband just thinks that if his wife dresses up too beautifully, it will make neighbors, relatives and friends gossip, make other men envious and jealous, and one day it will lead the wolf into the room. On the other hand, such a husband concept is very old-fashioned, but when appreciating the external beauty of women, it is difficult to understand that their women should also have the right to pursue beauty.
To sum up, I think my husband should correct his bad mentality, never be too petty, and generously give his wife a right and space to pursue beauty. In this way, he can not only make himself feel comfortable without affecting his career, but also enjoy the aesthetic happiness brought by his wife's beautiful dress! Wife, if you want your husband to like your makeup, you must find out why he doesn't like your makeup, and then untie this knot in his heart, so that your makeup can stop your husband from secretly loving other women who like makeup, and let your beauty make your husband feel at arm's length.
Why doesn't a husband like his wife's makeup?
I think there are three situations where I don't like my wife's makeup. First, your husband is worried about money, and women's makeup costs are high. Your husband is a very nice man. Second, your makeup is beautiful, and it is not safe to be seen by others. Third, it is not suitable according to your type of work. Therefore, the husband doesn't like his wife's makeup.
1. First of all, my husband doesn't like makeup because he cares about you and is afraid that you are too beautiful to be abducted by others.
2. Women are born to love beauty. Everyone wants to dress up beautifully. I want to make up, too, but I can't make up or wear makeup. I think the natural beauty is really beautiful!
My husband doesn't like my makeup either. He said that if you put on makeup every day, it would be terrible to see it without makeup one day. Be yourself. Just keep it simple!
Everyone has a love of beauty.
Why can't some boys accept makeup? As a boy, let me analyze it for you for the following reasons.
First, the makeup technology is not good.
It is everyone's nature to like beautiful things. Boys like to look at beautiful women, while girls like to look at handsome men. Make-up is actually dissatisfied with the way you are now. You want to make your face value of only five or six points into seven or eight points through makeup, so that no boy will like his girlfriend to become more beautiful, and going out together will have more face. Who doesn't want his girlfriend to look like a fairy?
But if you don't add points to makeup, you will lose points. Boys will definitely be unhappy. So the subject can reflect on whether he doesn't look better after makeup, or whether he doesn't conform to his boyfriend's aesthetics after makeup, such as thick makeup and foundation like a monkey's ass.
Second, ideological tradition.
It is inevitable that some boys are more traditional, so they don't like girls' makeup. They think there is a big difference between girls' makeup and plain makeup. They feel cheated and like girls' cleanliness. For example, your father can wear light makeup at this time.
Third, I feel distressed.
"distressed" many people may wonder, what is the reason for distressed? This boy likes you very much. He may know that makeup will do harm to girls' skin, so he doesn't want you to wear makeup. There is also a male compatriot who is distressed by his wallet and expensive cosmetics. For him, his girlfriend's makeup is also for others to see. He is also afraid that his wife's makeup is too beautiful, she will be jealous and threatened.
A wife is not for showing off to others, but for living a good life with you. When I used to talk to my husband about boyfriends and girlfriends, I used to wear a lot of makeup, even if it was heavy, my husband wouldn't mind too much; When getting married, there is no need to dress up to attract others' attention; Every time my husband attends a friend's party, he will take me when I have time; I will ask her if she wants to wear makeup, and she will say no, just dress neatly and cleanly. At most, you can simply draw an eye shadow and trim your eyebrows. Every time my husband and I get together among friends; Everyone is not showing off anything to each other, but simply talking about the situation and recent situation at home. After marriage, many things will return to the family; You don't have to wear that kind of work makeup when you go to work, but you can also understand your husband's psychological state of hiding in the golden house.
I don't think there is any doubt about this. First of all, the time spent on makeup every day will really be a lot; If you want to paint a more delicate makeup, it is normal to spend more than an hour. When you go out, you often need makeup because of the weather, environment and other reasons. And removing makeup after coming back is also very cumbersome. It takes a lot of time to stack up like this; Also, married, every family has its own children, and the time you spend on makeup will affect the cultivation of children more or less; On the other hand, cosmetics and cosmetic tools spent on makeup are also a big expense, and the more people wear makeup regularly. The more expensive the cosmetics she uses, the less harm good cosmetics will do to her skin.
I was surprised to hear this from my husband, but I didn't expect it. Before the age of 30, a woman must make up every day to attract her husband's attention, so this woman is a failure; When a man marries this woman, he promises to protect her for life. The external beauty of women is only a small part that men like, and a larger part is because of the internal beauty of women. Beauty is everywhere; When a man chooses to spend his life with you, it is because what is inside you deeply attracts her. I think this is a truth that all female friends should understand. Make-up is harmful to face and skin. Long-term makeup causes poor contact between facial skin and air, leading to pore blockage and incomplete metabolism of facial skin; Cosmetic residue after makeup removal will damage facial skin, leading to premature aging of facial skin.
Around us, we can clearly see women wearing all kinds of makeup flowing around us; Maybe we are one of them ourselves. Middle-aged women account for the majority of makeup women. What is even more unexpected is that contemporary college students have begun to make up. It is common to see all kinds of female college students with heavy makeup near the campus. The more developed the city, the more serious this phenomenon is.
What I can't understand is that about 20 years old is the best time for a person's skin in his life. Why do you have to put makeup on your face and add such a thick film? What is even more ridiculous is that there are still many people who go for plastic surgery at the age of 20; Do you want to be the same online red face? This phenomenon is really a typical gild the lily! Cosmetic or cosmetic surgery; "The body is skin-rich, depending on parents." This is all harm to the body, and if it is serious, it is also self-harm!
Contemporary young people should not spend all their time on appearance, and should not dream unrealistic dreams of online celebrities all day. We should keep our feet on the ground, study hard and enrich ourselves. This is the spirit that contemporary young people should have and the positive energy that should be transmitted.
Men like to admire other people's women, but they don't agree with their own women's dress. This is very selfish. Why not have confidence? Although your woman is your private property, she is not all you have. Who doesn't love beauty? Please don't obliterate women's nature, old ideas should be changed! As long as a woman's makeup is not so colorful and slightly embellished, what you see is also very eye-catching and gives others a good impression.
Everyone has the love of beauty, and beauty is also the death of women. Even men should dress up when traveling, which is the image that every man should pay attention to. Of course, women should also freshen up, which is also a reason for women to maintain their image. Women should dress up beautifully to bring beauty to people and their husbands.
As a husband, you shouldn't interfere with your wife's love of beauty because you don't like it. A big man should not be so petty. The love of beauty is a woman's nature and also a woman's own freedom. Just because you don't like it, your wife will disregard her image. Dressing up as a beggar will not only have a bad influence on the wife's own image. Even in the husband's face, it will bring bad negative effects.
So, I think as a husband, I just don't like my wife's makeup. You shouldn't rudely interfere with your wife's freedom and right to maintain her image, which should be her due right. I also know that most men want their wives to be neatly dressed. When standing in front of people, there is light on my husband's face.
This is my answer to this question, which is purely personal. Please comment on the shortcomings.
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