In the development of gender roles, the role of father has a greater influence on children. Boys communicate with their fathers through parent-child activities, and build up independent, strong, brave, leading, independent, decisive, optimistic and confident personality characteristics.
2. Improve children's social skills.
Social skills, especially understanding other people's emotional thoughts and attitudes, and learning to make accurate analysis and judgment will help children make friends, judge situations and behavioral reactions, and thus influence other people's behaviors. Have a profound impact on a child's life.
3. Promote children's cognitive development
Be good at inducement and set a good example for children's language civilization; When you and your child hear someone quarreling and saying something uncivilized, you can take this opportunity to ask your child deliberately: "Do you think what they said is appropriate and pleasant?" Why? Let children analyze each other's language, enhance their ability to accept and adapt to civilized language, and improve their language civilization level and quality.
How does a father educate his son? 1. Parent-child relationship should be handled well.
Children believe that their parents love them unconditionally, and all their criticisms and praises are for their own good. If the child subconsciously believes this completely, then this relationship is benign, and it is a stable relationship of mutual concern, mutual support and mutual understanding. In this case, the easiest way to educate children is to "grow up with children" in the words of the great Soviet educator Suhomlinski. But in real life, most people's parent-child relationship is unstable or distorted, and children can't really trust their parents.
2. Praise is a good lubricant
Accurate, timely and appropriate praise will inspire children, stimulate children's self-esteem, autonomy, self-reliance and self-motivation, and also make children clear the direction of progress. If a father only regards educating his children as a responsibility, or lacks the ability to love and communicate with children in order to cope with the responsibility, such education will not have any good educational effect. As a father, when educating his children, he should constantly have heart-to-heart communication with them, so that they can become a responsible and good boy.
Step 3 be a good person
First, have a good man's good character and good behavior habits, and set a good example for children. Second, enjoy family happiness with children and establish close parent-child relationship with them. Third, in the process of playing, consciously stimulate children's curiosity, broaden their knowledge and cultivate their abilities in all aspects. For example, life ability and autonomy, cultivate children's good personality qualities, such as self-esteem, self-confidence, enterprising, humorous temperament and so on.
4. Be a good partner for children.
It is not difficult to be a child's playmate, as long as you squeeze out a little time, put down your parents' airs and actively participate in children's activities. Fathers often participate in children's activities, and listening to children's voices is the best training for children. In order to make children grow up healthily, fathers must provide good psychological development conditions for their children.
In addition to buying some books suitable for children's psychological development, so that children can grow up in a rich and comfortable environment, the most important thing is that fathers should pay attention to their children with great love, spend more time and mind playing with their children, and satisfy their emotional and intellectual desires.
How does a father educate his daughter 1 and train her to learn to stand on her own feet?
For daughters, we should cultivate children's practical ability and self-care ability from an early age, help parents do housework, help children establish more independent self-values, money and outlook on life, and realize the importance of self-value and self-independence. Only in this way can children be more competitive and have the right to speak in their future lives.
2. Cultivate daughters to learn to stand on their own feet.
The natural law of social development is survival of the fittest. Only those who constantly strive for self-improvement will be more likely to be invincible in social competition. Everyone understands this truth and needs education to cultivate children's self-reliance. As a father, you can tell your children more about many historical figures who have been striving for self-improvement in history, and use the stories of historical figures to inspire your children and inspire their belief in self-improvement.
3. Cultivate your daughter to learn self-discipline.
As a father, we should help children develop enough self-discipline awareness, refrain from eating snacks, refrain from watching TV programs, strictly abide by the study plan and schedule, and adhere to the physical exercise plan. These habits and abilities need to be done by the father himself, set a good example for the children, encourage and encourage them when they want to give up, and help them stick to it.
Train and educate her daughter about setbacks.
There will be many failures and setbacks in life. For many children nowadays, they are surrounded by the doting and praise of their parents and the elderly for a long time. Once they encounter big setbacks, they are prone to big problems and become negative and pessimistic. This kind of ups and downs is something we must avoid.
5. Cultivate your daughter's love
Love, tolerance and gratitude are the basis of all virtues, and they are also the basis for building trust and affection with relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and colleagues around us. Both mother and father should show such characteristics from their words and deeds in their daily life and communication with their children. Educating children to be grateful for the upbringing of their parents, the education of teachers, the courtesy of pedestrians and vehicles, the help of friends, the care and care of relatives, the tolerance of unintentional mistakes of others, and the love of nature and life all require parents to calm down, slow down, experience the beauty of life and pass these positive energies on to their children.
How to be a good father 1 and communicate with your children with your heart.
On the road of children's growth, as fathers, we should become very good friends with our children. They'd better talk about everything, and often do family activities such as heart-to-heart, whether in life or emotionally. This requires us to communicate with our children with our hearts. First of all, you should master the real thoughts of children of every age, and don't guess their thoughts without knowing their situation. If you guess your child's thoughts like this, it is difficult for you to gain his trust, let alone become his friend, so it is difficult to manage your child well. Give your child the best advice, and be sure to communicate with your child with your heart.
2. Don't use domestic violence against children.
No matter what mistakes your child makes, please remember not to treat your child with domestic violence, because hitting your child is not a wise choice. Nowadays, every child has a stronger self-esteem. If you insist on him, you will not only fail to teach your child a lesson, but even have an indelible impact on his young mind. If your child can't have a good attitude, then as a parent, you will suffer.
3. Attend the parents' meeting of children on time.
Children need their fathers to attend parent-teacher conferences or school sports meetings, so no matter how busy you are and how important your affairs are, you should arrange time to accompany your children in advance, which not only increases your position in children's minds, but also encourages their self-confidence. If dad wins the final game with his children in the parent-child sports meeting, it will be a wonderful process, and you can get to know your son better in this process, no matter what.
Warmly welcome the children to play at home.
When children grow up, junior high school, primary school and high school will definitely make friends. Sometimes he brings his friends to his home. At this time, you should receive them well, don't communicate with them in a harsh tone, but behave perfectly and handsomely. This will not only enhance your charm in the hearts of classmates, but also increase your personal charm. So you must be warm to your children's friends and less involved in the conversation between them, because your old ideas have long been adopted.
You don't have to consider the growth of children.
Some things, some ideas, we are always helping children make decisions, but children in the new era should choose to make their own decisions. At this time, you can give your child some advice, but don't take your thoughts to master his inner world. Children's inner state always changes at different stages. You can't use your thoughts to influence their growth and let them be their own masters.
6. Be nice to your mother and don't quarrel with her.
Don't quarrel with your mother, because family harmony and warmth are of great help to your child's growth. Only a harmonious family can better cultivate children with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, and cannot leave a shadow on their psychology. This is what a father should do.
7. Leave more time for children and play with them.
As a father, he must take his children to play some games he likes. You can take him to travel, swim, climb mountains, have a picnic, and even take his classmates to play basketball, badminton and other sports. In short, no matter how busy you are, you should spare all your time to accompany your children. In the process of playing and exercising together, it is easier to strengthen the affection between father and son, spend more time with children and get a happy life.