Is it good to marry a doctor?
Is it good to marry a doctor? I believe everyone is familiar with the profession of doctor. Doctors are a profession that saves lives and heals the wounded. Many people are curious about whether it is good to marry a doctor. I have collected and compiled relevant information for you on whether it is good to marry a doctor. Let’s find out together. Is it good to marry a doctor? 1
From a practical point of view, it is good to marry a doctor. What you have to choose is a surgeon, who will definitely be very affordable.
(Financially) As a surgeon, it is natural to be called upon at any time. This is his bounden duty, to save lives and heal the wounded. If you want to become his family member, you must first think clearly. During the date, he will be called away; when he comes home to eat the meal you cooked, he may also be called; etc... Because at that moment, there is someone more important than you. Need him.
In fact, whether he is a doctor or not is not that important. The key is whether you love each other. If you really love him, you won't mind whether he is a doctor or whether he is very busy, but you will understand his work and his vocation. When true love comes, it is silent and unstoppable. So ask your heart, do you really love him... Is it good to marry a doctor 2
5 major benefits of marrying a male doctor
1. Male doctor Don’t quarrel, don’t hold grudges
Normally in the unit, you need to see how patients behave. Once there is a quarrel or rude words, you are used to being complained, reported, beaten, scolded, criticized, etc., and you are used to all kinds of torture. Therefore, male doctors are not good at quarreling, do not know how to quarrel, and do not dare to quarrel, which is suitable for all types of women. Even if you quarrel with a patient, you still have to treat the patient next time, which shows that a medical man does not hold grudges. Therefore, if you marry a male doctor, you don’t have to worry about quarreling. Even if you quarrel, you don’t have to worry about holding grudges. , go to bed at night and good morning" is a true portrayal of a male doctor.
2. Male doctors communicate well and do not procrastinate
Communication is the strength of every male doctor, from in-hospital communication when admission to during hospitalization. Communication, and then discharge communication; from pre-operative conversation to intra-operative communication, to post-operative explanation, have always been the strengths of male doctors. And he never procrastinates, everything is done today. Have you ever seen a male doctor who explains his condition when he is hospitalized today and the day after tomorrow? Therefore, "Communication is the most important thing when running a family. If you marry a male doctor, you will have a lot of communication." But remember, if you marry a male doctor, it is his habit to sign after communicating. Remember to ask your husband to change it!
3. Male doctors are kind-hearted and have good personalities.
Kindness is the characteristic of male doctors. Patients who have no money need to be seen, patients who are too urgent need to be seen, and patients who are noisy need to be seen. There is no room for sand in his eyes, and good service and easy-going person are the must-haves for a male doctor. Otherwise, you know! The kindheartedness and good character of the male doctor will make you experience the different feelings of a warm man. "Be like a medical man, be kind-hearted and broad-minded, be like a male doctor, and have a good character that is welcomed by others." This is also the best evaluation of a warm man.
4. Male doctors can make money and spend less
Male doctors can make money, regardless of how much they earn. After all, he has been working hard and is busy every day. Land area. As for the male doctors I know, more than 90% of them turned in their salary cards when they got married. Therefore, you can rest assured about the finances of male doctors. The most important thing is that male doctors spend less money. They wear white coats for work and surgical gowns for surgery. Wearing "official" clothes takes up half of the day, and the remaining little time can be spent in simple attire. The only thing left is to sleep without clothes. The male doctor saves clothes. It is normal to work overtime, and male doctors have no time to go shopping. Therefore, male doctors spend less money and are the main pillar of stable family income.
5. A male doctor can see patients and run a family
The ultimate advantage of a male doctor is that he can see patients. The number one friend you must make in life is a doctor, and your husband is directly a doctor. Do you need to make other doctor friends? It saves a lot of trouble to turn the friends you want to make in your life directly into your husband! The doctor will deal with your headaches and fever, your insomnia and depression, your family members’ colds and hemorrhoids, and your loved ones’ nausea and vomiting. With a doctor husband, your seven aunts and eight aunts will look at you differently and stay in good health. With family ties, what more could a woman ask for? Moreover, doctors know how to run a household. Doctors who are used to saving money in the hospital will turn over printing paper at home and type it. They will sterilize used things. They will go home and count the things they have enough. "Marry, you will be as happy as a god." ” Perhaps the ultimate portrayal of the ultimate benefit! A married woman tells you that marrying a doctor is the right choice
Linlin is 35 years old this year and has been married to her husband for three years, but they have no children. Although the two are very loving and whether they have children or not does not affect their relationship, their parents are extremely worried.
So the old people advised the two of them to go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination. Linlin's husband didn't care. He was an obstetrician and gynecologist himself, but Linlin always resisted going to the hospital.
Despite this, they could not overpower her parents and husband. In the end, they went to the hospital where Linlin’s husband worked for a physical examination.
The examination results showed that there was nothing wrong with Linlin’s husband, but there was something wrong with Linlin. Although her husband’s female colleague was wearing a mask, her serious expression could be seen. She asked Linlin what she was doing before. Have you ever had some abortion operations? Linlin was startled subconsciously, and then answered no. The doctor asked again, and Linlin still said no, but there was a subtle change in the female doctor's expression.
The two of them drove home without finding out anything. On the way home, the two of them did not talk, and the temperature in the car suddenly dropped to freezing point.
When they got home, the two closed the door, and Linlin’s husband asked her what was going on. However, Linlin hesitated and couldn't say anything. She just kept emphasizing that the doctor was wrong. Linlin's husband did not take it lightly. He said: "I am also a doctor myself. Although I don't know much about this aspect, can't I see it in the expressions of my colleagues? Even if you don't want to say it in front of outsiders, you can still do it at home. If you don’t want to say it, I am your husband!”
Speaking of this, Hee Hee couldn’t help but want to say that there is really nothing wrong with finding a partner who is a doctor. He can treat any minor ailments at home. Not to mention convenience, the most important thing is It saves money!
Under repeated questioning by her husband, Linlin had no choice but to reveal that period of history that she did not want to mention.
Linlin was born in a family of intellectuals. Her parents had been strict with her education since she was a child. When Linlin went to college and finally escaped from her parents' "devil's clutches", she was extremely happy. By chance, she fell in love with a senior. Her roommates tried their best to get the senior's WeChat account and asked Linlin to chase him, and the two started chatting.
The senior realized Linlin’s intention a long time ago, so she took the initiative to confess her love. Linlin didn’t expect that the senior also liked her, so she happily agreed.
I would like to add something here, getting to know a person through the Internet is really the most unreliable way. You can't meet him in person, and you don't know his expression or tone, but you understand him simply through words? You also take the relationship too lightly!
After the two established a relationship, Linlin discovered that her senior was actually a playboy. Despite this, Linlin still liked him very much. Later, Linlin found out that she was pregnant, and her senior gave her money to abort the child. Faced with such shameless parents, Linlin had no choice. No one expected that after she aborted the child, the scumbag disappeared without a trace.
Linlin suddenly felt that she had no spiritual support. After getting drunk, she cried herself to sleep and woke up crying. She was decadent for three months and did not take care of her body at all. This is the reason why she has never been pregnant. Linlin never said it because she was afraid that her husband would dislike her. After all, she did not want to lose this love.
After listening to Linlin’s explanation, her husband not only did not blame her, but also comforted her that it was a mistake made by a frivolous young person and was not worth mentioning. Fortunately, she met him and he could give her happiness. . Linlin felt relieved and filled with sweetness.
Later, Linlin’s husband used his professional skills to carefully nurse Linlin’s body. Soon, Linlin became pregnant and gave birth to a healthy little boy soon after. The couple and her parents The wishes finally came true.
Through this story, Hee Hee wants to say, never feel sad for a scumbag. He has hurt you to begin with, and if you hurt yourself, isn’t it going to further his wishes? What's more, only you know whether you are good or not. Scumbags never know how to look back, so don't be sad for them, let alone shed tears for them.
The world is so big, you will always find someone who loves you, you have to wait. Like Linlin, although she met a scumbag when she was young, luckily she met her current husband later and she became so happy.