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What is the daughter of a rich family like?
Recently, a group of interns came to the unit. Because the work is related to art, some of these interns come from the best universities in fine arts, and some are the daughters of artists from major auction houses and galleries. After spending a long time with this group of interns, I found that this group of "rich girls" is a group of very * * * people. Talking about a few small things about getting along with this group of "rich girls" may help us understand this group and inspire the "rich girls".

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Let's talk about these girls' first impressions. Judging from their absolute appearance, these girls are not necessarily beautiful, but they are well dressed, stress their own style and speak politely.

As long as you come to work, it must be temperament makeup and perfume. There are many styles of suits, and Monday to Friday will never be the same. This is really a beautiful scenic line.

We've been together for more than a year, and I've never seen anyone suddenly gain weight, with greasy hair and acne all over his face. At first, I thought they must have used some high-tech, such as face-lifting needles and hyaluronic acid, because they never talked about the hard work of losing weight and sun protection. I think this is the expression that beauty comes too easily.

Until one overtime, everyone was as busy as a bee, and the company prepared a rich overtime meal. It was already ten o'clock at night. At this time, eating a big meal is really the best way to reward and decompress. But a girl came up and whispered to me that I never eat dinner. Go ahead. I was shocked at that time and asked: So tired, are you sure you don't want to eat? She smiled and nodded to me. That cold and tired night, she passed on an empty stomach. The next day, at the opening ceremony, she appeared in high heels again. I said my feet were too swollen to wear high heels after working overtime yesterday. She said, I slept on the quilt all night yesterday, so you don't think my feet will swell. ...

A sentence popped up in my mind: the terrible thing in this world is not that someone is better than you, but that excellent people work harder than you, but working hard is more terrible than not working hard. The terrible thing is that they never complain about the hard work of losing weight and not eating dinner. They never shout in the circle of friends every day to lose weight and wait for praise and then fail a hundred times. They never shout that beauty is a woman's resource. Maintaining love begins with maintaining beauty ... girls who can do this usually live in a family surrounded by beauty, surrounded by beauty. For a long time, they regard keeping a good figure and beautiful face as part of enjoying beauty. Their beauty is not for competition, nor for pleasure, but for life. How can they live without beautiful women?

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Let's talk about work ability. Of all the interns, these girls are the most satisfactory. There is only one fundamental reason. They are fully qualified for their work.

This ability is not only professional, but also emotional intelligence. They are particularly aware of what they are here for, to solve problems for the company, rather than really being "students".

For a 20-year-old girl, they are comparable to those of us who have several years of work experience.

This group of girls all graduated from famous universities in China and studied in Europe. Excellent educational resources give them a head start.

More importantly, their circle of friends shows without exception that after they graduated from studying in Europe, their families did not seem to urge them to find a job, but let them find and experience the job they like! You can see that they will spend a year or two traveling around the world and internship in their favorite institutions or studios to have an overall evaluation of their future work. Their resumes are almost the practice of the whole industry.

When we are still silly and don't know what our major is like after entering the society, they have experienced the research direction, working mode and industry prospect of the whole industry at home and abroad; When we still regard work as a necessity of life, they are already choosing a career that can devote their lives; While we are still thinking about how to get a hard promotion and a raise, they have begun to think about how to manage employees like us. In fact, we heard that several girls started to run their own companies after a period of internship, and they did quite well ... perhaps this is the biggest difference between the rich and the poor in their work concepts.

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Finally, talk about personality, which is my favorite reason to be with them.

Their personality can be summarized as-not surprised by humiliation, relaxing nature. I just don't cater, please, fear or complain on any occasion, and I feel a little dull, unlike some girls who are frightened.

Whether they are asked to bind documents or make plans, welcome guests at the opening ceremony or receive senior leaders, they have never seen them complaining, stage fright, publicity and perfunctory ... almost always in a state of natural relaxation. I remember once working overtime in a hurry, a "daughter" picked up an electric drill and began to drill holes in the wall to hang pictures. It was like a calm female general, and all the girls who graduated from famous universities stood behind her yelling ... At that moment, it suddenly occurred to me that these rich girls, who are considered as "greenhouse flowers", might last longer if there was a storm. ...

After work, I often discuss with my colleagues what makes these girls so excellent.

Some time ago, an article about Li's education for his daughter Li Yan was very popular on the Internet, in which Li's views on the nature of education and many methods of teaching by example were very admirable. However, the most praised comment under the article turned out to be "you have money, so I won't say it." If you are poor, I will wait on you. " I think this conclusion is really ridiculous: it seems that only the poor can cultivate excellent children, so shouldn't the excellent educational methods of the rich be publicized and studied? I would like to ask a great parent who is excellent everywhere, why should he make himself and his children poor? Or should we sacrifice our own interests to fulfill our children? The answer is really a face of embarrassment and lack of ability.

The fact of life is that the rich become rich only because they have correct attitudes and behavior patterns, which are subtly passed on to their children, and their "reference standards" have been improved, so they are more likely to become excellent.

I wanted to add a "but" here, but I found that there seems to be nothing to say. The rich can only pay more attention to their children's growth rather than success, to the process rather than the result of doing something, to whether their children are free rather than making more money, and to whether they are happy rather than honoring their ancestors. ...

Therefore, when enviing the daughters of rich people, we should try to become rich first.