Article | Ruotang Emotional Radio

Recently, Liu Shishi rarely talked about her son "Bu Bu" in an interview. She revealed that her son has a very enthusiastic personality and is very expressive. She also talked about her son's ability to I yelled for my mom in the mall, but I didn’t know how to respond.

As soon as this interview came out, it triggered discussions among many fans and netizens. As a fan, of course, they did not forget to take advantage of the popularity to promote her new drama. Most netizens think that Liu Shishi is beautiful now and her life is very sweet. They also joked that the name "Bu Bu" was taken from her and Wu Qilong's old drama "Bu Bu". "Bu Jingxin", and I hope she will always be happy.

Speaking of Liu Shishi, we all label her with warm labels such as her temperament is like a orchid, good figure, famous for her works, and good family conditions.

On the other hand, Wu Qilong has been labeled with cold labels such as having paid off his father's debt for 12 years, divorced, old, outdated, and a "victim" of his original family.

In 2013, their union surprised many people. Public opinion once swung to the side of "Wu Qilong is not worthy of Liu Shishi", and even speculated when they would divorce.

With such disparity in background and own conditions, Liu Shishi still chose Wu Qilong. I have to say that Liu Shishi really lives a transparent life. She understands family conditions, reputation, status, age, appearance and love.

Looking at Wu Qilong in detail, even if he is divorced, the seemingly negative words about his native family are still turned into positive comments about his responsibility for leaving home and repaying his father's debt for 12 years. This also reflects from the side that he is a man who values ??emotions, is not afraid of hardship, and is responsible.

More importantly, he understands her, protects her, and supports her. After getting married, with Wu Qilong's support, Liu Shishi left her original company and re-planned her career. She still acts casually and without restraint, works at her own pace and never accepts variety shows.

In the eyes of the outside world, this man is not worthy of her compared with many other high-quality options. But now it seems that this man pampering her into a princess is her best choice.

Not as willful as a child, but as free as a child. Even if you get married, you can still control your life and even have more choices.

It can be seen how important it is for women to have a clear mind, know what they want, and strive to seize invisible happiness.

My classmate Dan is also such a woman.

She went out to work before graduating from junior high school, working hard to save money to build a house for her brother and find a wife.

Later, after being introduced by her family, she married an honest man from the next village.

Later, her mother-in-law died of illness and she also got divorced. Her mother married her former father-in-law shortly after the divorce.

Suddenly, their family became the laughing stock of the entire village, the village next door and even the entire town. They probably said some vulgar words such as "My mother-in-law was killed because of her hard life" and "It's a shame that my family is unlucky".

It sounded like filming an indecent TV series, but no one thought that such a thing would actually happen to her.

When she complained with snot and tears about how her ex-husband ignored the child who had a fever of 39 degrees, when she was critically ill and needed surgery, and her ex-husband was nowhere to be found, I felt so distressed that I hugged her so tightly that she was as thin as her shoulder blades. She poked my arm.

Even though he was so miserable, Dan did not give up on himself. She decisively drew a clear line with her ex-husband, and was forced to give up custody of her son under various obstructions from her ex-husband.

On the other hand, she used the money she saved from working three jobs a day to buy her own house in the county town, far away from the villages and towns where right and wrong were.

Later, the flowers bloomed. With her efforts, she transformed from an assistant at a roadside beauty salon to a doctor at a plastic surgery hospital.

She also met the right man who was 10 years older than her and divorced. He supports her beauty career, supports her fitness, and supports her using her spare time to learn foreign languages ??and improve her academic qualifications. They also have the fruit of their own love.

Of course, she forgave her mother for her choice, and often took her to live in Shenzhen, taking her to travel and relive the happiness of her family.

It was precisely because of her reason and sobriety that she was able to deal with a bad hand of cards.

There is no doubt that Shining Shishi is such a person. My classmate Dan is also such a person.

Whether they are dealing with work or love, they are always objective and calm, knowing what is suitable for them and what should be abandoned.

They never follow the crowd or please others. Therefore, at every fork in the road in life, you can make the most correct choice and move forward safely on the most suitable road.

I think everyone should, like them, choose the most suitable one and take control of their own life, so that they can reduce consumption and have a smooth journey.

I hope we can all follow our hearts, make conscious choices, not please others, and live in the present.

Even if it’s very difficult now and you can’t help but want to give up, then please continue to persevere and ask yourself at the same time, “Did I choose my current choice or someone else’s?” The product of the tongue."

I am Ruotang, a woman driven out by reason and dominated by emotion.

I am also looking forward to your few words, I am willing to listen.

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