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How can we ignore our disfigurement, grow old and live a normal life?
It shouldn't be serious Perhaps in your heart, this is unbearable pain, but there are more skin and bones disfigured people in society, so the adjustment of mentality is the most important. Of course, in the face of various social changes and pressures, psychological grooming is an indispensable lesson for normal people, but our emphasis is different.

At present, you feel that other people's attitude towards you scares you, but it can be summed up in several ways: doubt and strangeness. In the face of those who hold this attitude, I hope the subject will understand that this is the attitude of most people, but it is actually the least lethal. No one will ever see your scar, so chase it to expose you and attack you. Most adults will try to be normal and do whatever they want after seeing you clearly. No, there is no love and hate for no reason in the world. Treating people who need to communicate with each other with this attitude can only be described as childish. Never mind, please hate him politely, too. Pity, let yourself live well, talk and laugh, and don't let irrelevant people have pity. Love you dearly, which is what you and your parents will do. In this world, no matter whether you are disfigured or beautiful, only you and your parents can truly be happy and sad for you unconditionally. It is suggested that the subjects should first ensure their own source of life. You can narrow your life circle and let people around you accept your face first, because every time you have a fixed partner, you have to face the question "What's wrong with your face?". Of course, the other person may take care of your emotions and won't ask. Then cultivate hobbies, sing, draw, write novels, embroider flowers by hand, and do it yourself. Read more, read more, read more! ! ! It's too important not to read chicken soup prose, but to read literary classics and historians' swan songs, to exercise your thinking and broaden your horizons. I have always believed that people should not enjoy entertainment after eating and wearing warm clothes, but must read and think. All the disfigured people I have ever met have excellent thinking and many friends. Usually pay attention to the technique of light scar. I don't know what the doctor told you, but I have to go to a good hospital to ask if I can, so as not to make the mistake of a quack. This is my immediate pain. Then get married and have children. Well, as an unmarried dog, I don't seem to have any say in getting married, but I can tell you that children, at least one or two years old, will not resent you when they see your scars grow up. As for her ability to speak, she began to learn Chinese characters, which is your upbringing. Speaking of education, this is half my major, and I have been paying attention to children's education for ×× years ... So since the fate has been fixed, please change the mentality of "accidents are in the face" to "girls with stories in the face".