But there are also many children who grew up in single-parent families. As their parents divorced, they had to live with one of them.
Compared with those children who follow their fathers, the mother-daughter combination in single-parent families often faces heavier economic pressure.
As we all know, single mothers are not dominant in the workplace. Because they have to take care of their children alone, they have no extra energy to share the work and work overtime with young people.
In addition, many treasure moms have been out of society for a long time and their skills are very limited. Therefore, it is difficult for them to reintegrate into the workplace and earn money to support their families.
This precious mother in the video is one of thousands of single mothers.
After divorcing her husband, Ma Bao raised her daughter alone. In order to alleviate the economic pressure, she came to a company to apply for a job, hoping to bring herself a better life through hard work.
However, it often backfires. Due to the large number of applicants, Ma Bao's academic qualifications are not high, and he is a little older. When she stands with a group of young people, she is not competitive. In the end, she was rejected.
But when Ma Bao walked out of the door in some frustration, the ending was reversed.
It turns out that Ma Bao took her daughter to apply for a job this time. While she was in the room for an interview, her daughter obediently waited outside. At this time, my daughter was very happy to see her mother coming to her.
The warmth of mother and daughter happened to be seen by the boss in the house.
Then he thought that the woman who had just been rejected was a single mother, and the boss felt a little uncomfortable. Although there are many competitors in this job, it must be this mother who needs it most.
After a short consideration, the boss immediately changed his mind and decided to hire Ma Bao as an employee of the company. The mother standing in the yard never imagined that she had just been rejected and was invited back by the personnel manager with a smile.
exquisite
Although from the signboard, the baby mother's conditions do not meet the requirements, but the boss's exception made me feel the care and tolerance of the society for single mothers.
I hope this mother can work hard and set a good example for her children to stand on their own feet.
@ Little Monster of the Year
I am also a divorce nanny, and I know that it is difficult to balance work and family. I divorced to give my children a good environment to grow up in, but I ran into a wall when I was looking for a job. I wish I could meet such a warm-hearted boss.
@ original area
It is really difficult for single mothers to find a job. Age is a problem, so is the limited energy to take care of children. I hope this society can be more tolerant of mothers.
In life, the influence of single-parent families on women and children is far beyond our imagination.
If no one is willing to lend a helping hand, then mothers are likely to be overwhelmed by the burden of life, and for children who have lost their parents' company, their growth path is bound to be full of bumps.
1. Set an example for children
Many children in single-parent families will feel inferior because of the negative family atmosphere, and their personality will become introverted and dull.
As parents, you should set a good example for your children to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and tell them with hard work and a positive and optimistic attitude that divorced families will not reduce your happiness index.
2. Warm the children
Many single mothers run for their lives and always ignore their children in time.
In fact, although parents are separated, their love for their children still exists, so if the mother has no time to take care of the children, let the father give them some warmth.
Don't slander your predecessor in front of your children.
There are many reasons why adults have to be separated, but parents should not uglify each other in front of their children. This will only make children question their affection and even hate their biological parents.
In fact, as long as both parents do their duty to their children, it is better to face them with dignity than to "die of old age."
Being a parent, life is not easy, and the life of a single mother is even more difficult, but the examples in this paper make us glad to see that this society is tolerant and warm to mothers.
In fact, ending a relationship that is not suitable for women is the right choice.
Facing children, we should also set a positive example for children and let them grow up healthily in a loving family environment.