Paul Meyer, a famous psychological counselor, said that 90% of the losers were not defeated, but had given up the hope of success.
The most critical factor that determines a person's success is how he views failure. Anyone who wants to succeed must find a magic weapon to overcome failure and move on. Otherwise, failure will inevitably lead to disappointment, and disappointment will lead to ruin.
Henry Ford said, "Failure is just an opportunity to start again more wisely." Ford himself certainly had a direct experience of failure. He went bankrupt the first time he set foot in the automobile industry twice. He succeeded for the third time. Ford Motor Company is still full of vitality and remains one of the largest automobile manufacturers in the world.
The hero of another famous failure story is a young man. His dream is to enter the United States Military Academy at West Point and serve the country after graduation. I didn't get into the exam twice, and finally got my wish when I entered the exam for the third time. This young man is douglas macarthur. Later, he became one of the most senior generals in the United States and served as commander-in-chief of the allied forces in the southwest Pacific during World War II. Just like Henry Ford, in the first few stops of his dream journey, he failed not once, but twice. Like Ford, he didn't give up.
There is no one who does not fail in life, which sounds too simple, but it is a wise saying. Don't be unwilling to stand up and forget to hurry just because we fell. In fact, in the end, it will only make hopeful flower of life wither and wither; Don't be carried away by the glory of the past, and you can't get rid of it. In the end, it will only quietly extinguish the passion like fire. Therefore, in the journey of life, no matter what difficulties and obstacles we encounter, no matter what we have or lose, we must always remember one thing: "Don't forget to start, don't forget to hurry."
Only when we set out will we not waste precious time every day and let the tree of life bear more fruitful fruits; Only when we set out will we get close to our ideal goal. So as to have a chance to shake hands with success; Only when we set out will we create a brand-new ourselves and pursue a clean life. Flowers and applause are never given to those who wait for rabbits, but only to those who come rain or shine; Empty talk and rhetoric will never make your dreams come true, and in the end, you will only leave a sigh of "white youth, empty sorrow"; Only by starting and moving forward is the only way to reach the other side of success. It is not a good soldier who only shouts not to charge, and it is not a good hunter who only aims not to shoot. A baby lying in a cradle will never stand and walk, and shut himself in a dark room will never see the brightness and excitement of the outside world!
You need to know the direction when you set out. Starting without knowing the direction is tantamount to a blind man riding a blind horse, which will not only fail to reach the goal ahead, but also make you farther and farther away from the goal. What is more serious is that you will lose your way, go in the opposite direction and go astray.
What you need to establish is your strong self-confidence. Without a strong and confident start, you will encounter rapids and rapids on the way forward, either flinching or giving up halfway. Just as a steep mountain can't stop the surging waves, the surging waves can't stop your boat; Just as the vast clear sky can't stop the sudden storm, the sudden storm can't stop your long journey. Even if the secular wall blocks your pride in Wan Wen, it will never stop your sonorous pace; Even if the heavy night blocks the stars all over the sky, it will never stop a lamp lit in your heart; Even if the years block your strong body, what you can't stop is the faith you long for.
Perhaps, you have been sailing all your life, but you have not reached the other side of success; Maybe you climbed all your life, but you didn't reach the top; Perhaps, all efforts have failed; Perhaps, all the sweat was wasted. ......................................................................................................................................................................, those who dare to face failure are not necessarily heroes. Life is actually a process, don't care too much about the result of struggle. If you struggle, you should have a clear conscience. In fact, life is a sowing. Sowing may not have a result, but it will never have a result without sowing. All flinching is an excuse to escape, and all wandering is a sign of cowardice. In fact, the real departure is a powerful proof and explanation. "If you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing." As long as you can take a step, the road will extend under your feet; As long as you can get on the road, you will find attractive scenery; As long as you can start, you will definitely feel the joy of hiking.
On the road, you can create your colorful years! Set out and play the music of your life!
A famous person once said: "A person's greatest wealth is hope; The biggest bankruptcy is despair; The biggest trap is to satisfy the status quo; You missed your flight because you started too late. You lost your business opportunity because of hesitation; God is fair to everyone when he throws opportunities; Some people beat us to it, some followed Liu, and others came late, still sleepy: "Is this an opportunity? Why can't I see it? "Therefore, the first person to board, heaven rewards hard work and gains money; Accompany, surprise, and get unexpected satisfaction; Only those who are late, complaining and at a loss sometimes ask, "why can't I get a fortune?" "
The following is a story told by an outstanding plastic surgeon in St. Louis, Missouri, USA.
One of his patients is a boy, and his right hand is wrist fracture. When the doctor asked the boy about the disabled part, the boy said, "I don't have a disability, but my right hand is gone."
Later, the doctor learned that the boy scored the most points on the middle school American football team. The boy didn't give up his efforts because of his obvious defects. He just made some necessary adjustments in order to achieve the success he wanted in the future.
Although failure is painful, success is extremely sweet. At the moment of success, you will feel that failure is not terrible, just passing by.
In ancient times, there was a Tang priest's metaphysical lesson, "Don't look back until you learn from the scriptures", and now a "female soldier in red" has come down with a blackbird. Twenty years, ten years to sharpen a sword, five consecutive championships (women's volleyball) to reproduce the glory. In the danger of falling behind the Russian team 0-2, China's "red female soldier", led by Chen Zhonghe, never gave up and staged a Jedi counterattack, which was a magical reversal. If the women's volleyball team is willing to give up, it is impossible to turn defeat into victory. Because he has lost psychologically, he has won. As long as there is a glimmer of hope, we must fight for it.
"Failure is the mother of success", "Admitting failure is also the beginning of success". After failure, there must be success! Success is hidden behind failure. When you overcome failure, you get success.
Summary:
We should face failure with a smile and don't complain that life has given you too many hardships; Don't complain that learning has given you too many twists and turns. The sea has lost its grandeur without the rolling of huge waves; The desert has lost its beauty without the wild dance of flying sand; If life only wants two points and one line of smooth sailing, life will lose its charm of existence.