It may be because married women are more likely to accept such extramarital affairs. According to the survey, many women are relatively fresh in the first few years after marriage, so the marriage is relatively stable in the first few years. But after the ordinary life of daily necessities, I slowly lost my passion, and the loneliness that followed was unacceptable to many women. What's more, there are still many problems in my life, which makes them extremely annoyed. If a third party comes in at this time, many women can't resist the temptation. Usually it is rejected at first, but I can't stand the man's soft grinding and hard foam, and finally I cheated. Of course, apart from this main reason, it may also be caused by the following reasons: 1. Married women have more marital problems. I believe everyone may know that the divorce rate is rising, so it also shows that married women have more marital problems. Nowadays, many people are not going to settle down, and they will quarrel if they are slightly dissatisfied. Married women who stay in this state for a long time may be more likely to cheat. 2. Married women are more feminine. Mature men are more willing to find mature women, so most of the goals that some men who like to cheat want to achieve are also married women. It can also be said that this type of women is relatively more attractive. In contrast, those slightly green girls have no taste. 3. Know more about men. In addition, married women may know men better in some ways. This understanding may include many aspects, such as tenderness, understanding, gentle attitude and so on. These are some characteristics that attract mature men. Interestingly, for married women, these characteristics are not displayed to their husbands. If there are emotional problems, it can be said that it is caused by many reasons, and it is impossible for individual reasons to cause emotional crisis. Therefore, if you want to maintain a good relationship, you should at least understand each other, especially for married people. When appropriate, you should maintain your feelings as you did when you first fell in love.

Bi Shumin said: "An affair is a mental illness, which is related to personality; It is a genetic disease, which is related to the family; It's an infectious disease, and it's related to society. Extramarital affairs linger outside the house like a plague, and too many people's marriages are attracted by it. " They think that marriage is unhappy and use it as an excuse to seek comfort outside marriage. It seems that marriage is not satisfied internally, but it is actually a selfish psychology. This disease is easy to recur, and they can't control their desires. In fact, they have no fear of marriage and don't consider their partner's feelings. In recent years, extramarital affairs have become more and more rampant. Almost 50% of the emotional private messages received backstage are extramarital affairs consultation, and most of them are two married men and women, with more women consulting than men. Then why do men find married women whenever they have an affair? Nothing more than these three reasons, when you know the truth, I hope you will return to your family as soon as possible. 0 1. Everyone has a family, and their weaknesses are in each other's hands. The safety factor is high, but this is just a fluke. What men and women who have extramarital affairs are most afraid of is the exposure of things. The way to reduce the risk factor is to grasp each other's weaknesses in their own hands. Two people with families dare not act rashly, and the safety factor is high. Actually, it was a fluke. None of the extramarital affairs is ended safely in the end, unless you give up halfway and never touch it again. Unfortunately, they rarely let go before things are exposed. Mr. Liu is 42 years old and has been having an affair for five years. The previous affair was with an unmarried woman. After more than two years together, the other party wants to marry him. Mr. Liu was frightened, comforted and said good things, and finally solved it with money. I thought that after this blow, I really went back to my family and never had an affair again. However, his friend's extramarital affair went smoothly and was not discovered by his wife. He can stay with his lover for a long time, and his heart begins to stir again. He aimed at the married woman. Both of them have families and will not be threatened. As long as they pay attention, their wives will not find out. His wishful thinking is wrong. His lover's family has been torn apart and is getting a divorce. They came together without his knowledge. Three years later, his lover forced him to divorce and married himself. How much did he ask each other? People laughed and said, "I have more money than you." Do you think I still want your money? " No matter how much he begged, it was of no help. In the end, the matter was revealed, and the wife directly filed for divorce without giving any chance. For men and women who have extramarital affairs, luck is the driving force of repeated derailment, which is greater than the pressure brought by anxiety, and finally becomes dependence, which has a great impact on work and life. Luck is a shortcoming of human nature. Everyone has it, but keep your feet on the ground. Loyal people will not be manipulated by this kind of psychology. They refuse improper communication and understand the importance of proper restrictions. Extramarital affairs are an act of moral corruption. How can it be truly safe if it is not recognized by society? 02. Men cut spending, women increase investment, and eventually both lose. Many men who have extramarital affairs never think that their feelings for their lovers are false, and even insist that they have paid their hearts. When the lover wants to be with him forever, they immediately expose the prototype. We are both parents, so we can't ignore the consequences. We can't be so impulsive in order to have a complete family for our children. Can we hurt our partners without scruple? Most surveys show that the probability of extramarital affairs between men and women is about 3: 1, 40% of men who have extramarital affairs have no emotional commitment, and 1 1% of women who have extramarital affairs are just for one-night stand. Men are rational, will weigh the pros and cons, and will not divorce easily. Women are emotional, and most of them will give their true feelings, and then choose to divorce and be with their lover. So men have extramarital affairs because of sex, and women have extramarital affairs because of love. When two married men and women come together, it can be said that they have their own plans. The man thinks that his lover has a family and can be assured of maintenance without spending money on her. Naturally, there is no need to increase expenditure, but it will reduce expenditure. A woman thinks that her lover is her ideal object, much better than her husband. In order to win each other's hearts, some women constantly invest their feelings, even money. Unfortunately, their mentality is different and their starting point is different. After reaching a certain level, men can't satisfy women's sense of belonging, and women realize that giving is not proportional to getting, which leads to differences and dissatisfaction. Women constantly put pressure and threats on men, and men constantly perfunctory, contemplating how to quit the game, the final outcome is lose-lose. Extramarital affairs have no true love, and they don't exist at all. When a woman touches a man's cheese, true love disappears immediately. When a man's promise cannot be fulfilled, the so-called true love will be exposed, and everything is a lie. 03. After the extramarital affair was exposed, most men were safe and sound, while women lost all their female partners who were hurt by the extramarital affair. My husband kept saying "I was just joking", "I didn't give my true feelings", "I just lost control of myself for a while" and "I still put my family first, and it won't happen again" to alleviate their guilt. Men know that their partners value the family, take advantage of the greatness of a woman's maternal love, seize her pain points, get forgiveness and return to the family. They always believe that this is a mistake that men all over the world will make, and their wives will definitely give themselves a chance. Facts show that most women will forgive their husbands who have extramarital affairs. First, they have no financial resources and have to forgive them. Second, I don't want to affect my child's growth, but I would rather make do with it. Only a few women will choose divorce. However, women who have extramarital affairs are not so lucky. Whether in ancient times or in today's society, it is a shame for men that women are not obedient and will not be tolerated and understood. Even if you are really excusable, you can't use this as an excuse to betray your marriage. In the end, she was swept out of the house, lost her precious reputation, and her relatives and friends cast contemptuous eyes. The children hated such a mother even more. Men who have extramarital affairs know this well, so when women find danger and want to quit, some men will not let go easily, but stick to it and threaten to tell their lover's husband. Extramarital affairs are easy to take off, and none of them are stable when they land, accompanied by danger and even death. How many extramarital affairs ended in family breakdown? Don't think it's safe to find a marriage partner alone. In fact, as long as you are involved in extramarital affairs and don't stop and return to your family in time, the ending will not be good. Conclusion: "Psychology of Happy Marriage" says: "If a person is abandoned because his parents cheated on him in childhood, then most of his marriage mode will have an affair in adulthood." Don't think that just because children don't know anything about what adults do, they can hide it. Some children don't want their parents' marriage to break up, and they have secrets in their hearts and have influence. Their views on marriage and love are vague, they have no fear of marriage, and naturally they have no loyalty to their partners. As parents, we should lead by example, and don't cause compulsive repetition in children's subconscious, which will ruin their lives. If you are unmarried, please refuse the pursuit of married men and women. If you are married, please tell each other seriously that I have a family, and please clarify my identity and behavior. Knowing how to refuse can bring growth, loyalty, happiness and responsibility, and a stable life.

There must be a purpose in this, and there are 100 thousand why, because married women know everything. She has experienced many things and knows what men really need. An important married woman doesn't need to spend too much money. How many economic conditions do men have now? Married women are relatively independent, so many men like to pursue married women and lovely questioners. You got it? Men like to pursue married women in two ways: 1. This man is married. If a married man pursues a married woman, on the one hand, he may really like this woman, and on the other hand, he can talk to this married woman because he can't get the favor of his wife. On the one hand, he thinks that married women are easy to pursue. He believes that married women have the desire to pursue love after their life tends to be dull. If a man is married, even if he has many contradictions with his wife, he should not pursue other women during his marriage. Once the other party finds out, it will hurt two families. Married women have experienced a lot and considered a lot. Some men think that even if they have sex with married women, the other party will not be too entangled and will not cause too much harm to themselves. People who think like this are shameless. It never occurred to him that once two people fall in love, it will affect his family more or less. If things get out, he doesn't want a divorce, which will do great harm to women. Therefore, when a woman meets a married man to pursue herself, she needs to think carefully, and don't ruin herself because of temporary greed. This man is unmarried. If an unmarried man pursues a married woman, there are two situations: on the one hand, the man really likes this woman, on the other hand, he just wants to get some benefits from her. If married women are emotionally empty, they are likely to be confused by external feelings. When a married woman's feelings are not appeased, it is easy for a man to pursue her. When a woman feels the passion she doesn't have in marriage, she will have fantasies about this man, thinking that the other person really loves herself, but it is not. Indeed, some unmarried men in life know that a woman is married and are still pursuing each other. There are two kinds of people, two kinds of mentality. One is to fall in love with a married woman and not think that diet can't control your feelings, which is what people often say. The second one is a playboy who is good at picking flowers and planting grass. The pursuit of married women is not out of emotion, but a game mentality of free food and no responsibility. When an idiot falls in love with and pursues a married woman, his motivation is nothing special, but he doesn't think too much about the actual situation and feelings of married women. This idiot belongs to a one-track temperament. Seed of love is the stubbornness of "not a true man until he reaches the Great Wall", the madness of love and the confusion of love. However, if this idiot is really rejected by a married man, or torn off, he can only give up his pursuit, and some may persist, but this is rare. Basically, if you hit a wall, you will give up and will not cause substantial harm to married women and their families.

Now it is a society with diversified information, and people's minds are also open. It is this change that makes many people no longer so single-minded in the face of marriage and feelings. They think that what they can't get is the best and what they want most. It is commonly known that eating in a pot and watching in a bowl will never be satisfied. Between men and women, in marriage, many people betray marriage with this idea. Let's take a look together. Why do women choose married men because of extramarital affairs? Listen to their honesty. Ms. Xia is 43 years old (she will be more considerate to women) and has been married to her husband for so many years. I have long been tired of my present life. I worry about some trivial things in my life every day. My husband can't see my efforts and won't help me. He will only blame me for not being satisfied. Actually, my request is very simple. As long as he is more considerate and understanding of me, he can't make such a small request. I see other people's husbands so considerate every day. At this age, I am mature mentally and psychologically. Knowing that married men will know how to care and understand women, I have an extramarital affair. With him, he is very kind to me, and he understands and cares about me. There is no age difference between us and we get along well. That's why I choose a married man. Ms. Mo is 3 1 year old (the stability of economic strength makes me feel satisfied both mentally and materially). Although extramarital affair is a disgraceful thing, the stability of a married man's economic strength makes me feel satisfied both mentally and materially. Unlike a little boy, I care more about equality of interests, so I am also very tired. With married men, you don't have to think too much, and you are mentally relaxed. Don't think too much. The success of a married man's career makes him exude the charm of a successful man and attract women's attention. Even if he is more than ten years older than me, I am willing. Ms. Zheng, a 36-year-old married man (who knows more about women's hearts and needs), knows how to keep a certain distance from women outside marriage, don't be too clingy, contact when necessary, and there will be no psychological burden. Mutual freedom also gave her some space. Just like falling in love, this novelty will last forever, not so dull and boring, because he knows when a woman needs care and when she needs it. Conclusion: As the saying goes, how can you walk by the river often without wetting your shoes? No matter how good a married man is outside marriage, he is also someone else's husband. Now that you have a family, don't worry about things that don't belong to you. If you go on like this, it won't end well. Why don't you manage your marriage with your husband, and you will be happy? If you are stubborn, you will only regret it for the rest of your life.

In the process of heterosexual communication, if a woman doesn't love you and is not interested in you, then when you are kind to her, she will definitely not accept it, even if you have never said to her: I love you, I want to chase you, and women will not accept your kindness for no reason. And women are often very sensitive to feelings, even if you don't say it, she can feel that you are good to her. Therefore, if she doesn't like you and is not interested in you, then she will naturally not accept your kindness. Therefore, if you accidentally fall in love with a woman who doesn't love you, then even if you love her again, you should stop chasing her, and there will be no result. Even if you give everything for her, she won't be moved by you. Of course, love cannot be moved. So, in this case, don't give up wishful thinking. In heterosexual communication, women will "repel" you in these things, and nine times out of ten they are "bored" with you, so men should stop chasing you. 1. When you often give her small gifts, she will refuse you. In the process of heterosexual communication, some men will fall in love with a woman. Although they don't express themselves directly, men will tell women with their own practical actions that they love you and want to be with you. At this time, men usually send you some small gifts you like to express their love for you. If a woman is not interested in you, then when you give her small gifts frequently, she is naturally unwilling to accept them. She will take your kindness as a burden, because she doesn't love you and can't give you the love you want. Therefore, at this time, she will decisively reject you and don't want to give you fearless hope. So, at this time, you should stop being stubborn and give up as soon as possible. If you ask her out, she will find various reasons to refuse you. When men are chasing women, there are often many means and routines. It is the most direct and simple to invite women to eat and watch movies. Of course, if a woman is interested in you, then this way is naturally the best and can promote the relationship between you. And if a woman has no feelings for you and never wants to be with you, then at this time, she will naturally not promise you. So every time you take the initiative to ask her out, she will find various excuses to refuse you. If you love a woman, she will do this to you. Then, in fact, her meaning is very clear, that is, she doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you. So, don't deceive yourself at this time. She said that the reason why she was busy was that she didn't want to go to your date. Actually, she is not busy at all. When you take the initiative to care about her, she will refuse you decisively. When a man chases a woman, he will attack in the gentlest way. For example, they will take the initiative to care about women and show up at their side when they need it most. Although this method is very good, if the woman you love is not interested in you, being so kind to her unconditionally will only bring her psychological burden, because she doesn't love you, so if you care about her so much, it will make her want to run away from you. When you really like a woman, but she doesn't like you, and she has no feelings for you in many ways, you need to calm down and study hard. As long as you are willing to pay and learn, some methods can still help you realize your dreams!