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What is an effective way to save your predecessor after breaking up?
1, many photos of playing with friends.

In order to avoid suspicion when falling in love, I never take part in activities with the opposite sex. After breaking up, I generously admitted that I was single in my circle of friends, and I had many photos of the opposite sex. Let your ex see that your life is still colorful and there are still many people who like you. This move really made my predecessor uncomfortable. I will even call you. At this time, you just need to blacken the other party's mobile phone number.

2. Keep a good attitude.

Some people show their special depravity after breaking up, but this will only make you look humble, thinking that this will arouse the sympathy of your predecessor and save your feelings. In fact, this practice will only make the predecessor more complacent. The really good way is to keep a good attitude, manage yourself more attentively, and take it lightly.

Step 3 cut off contact

Generally speaking, you should contact him 2-4 weeks after breaking up. Early active contact will only make him feel that you miss him very much, and will not achieve the purpose of making him miss you. Contacting him immediately after breaking up will only show that you are desperate and regret ending your relationship. If you want him to miss you, you should first avoid thinking of him. When you first broke up, he might be sure that you would compromise before contacting him. If you still don't move after a week or two, he will start to feel strange and even angry. In a week or two, he will often think of you and he will start to miss you.

4. Don't return phone calls or text messages.

Don't call him back a few weeks after the breakup, even if he calls you first. Within 2-4 weeks after breaking up, don't respond even if he takes the initiative to contact. He may want to use this quick and short way to calm the pain caused by the breakup. If you want him to miss you from the bottom of his heart, let him wait a little longer, so that the feeling of missing is even more inflated.

5. Improve self-worth.

Do the first few steps, and you can start to change yourself. The process of saving one's predecessor is also a process of improving one's self-worth. Strengthening self-improvement and making yourself better in the process of freezing is the biggest role of emotional freezing. The incumbent saw your change and frozen the previous emotional foundation. By this time, he no longer hates you, and maybe he will have some affection for you. At this time, he can't help but contact you and even want to get back together with you.