Joy and pain in love appear alternately. —— Joe Byron

Love will eventually meet. As long as you have not entered the marriage hall, you will definitely encounter various problems during the relationship. The gentle and elegant Yongmei chose the unruly Luan Shu. Behind the happy love, there is full of bitterness and tears... Double happiness in career

Yongmei is an elegant and beautiful name, and her name is related to The feelings are very different, like big waves in the tranquility. Presumably, when it comes to Luan Shu, many people have the impression that he is Faye Wong's first boyfriend. The love between Luan Shu and Faye Wong was also very popular in the past. Now that they are in love, they might as well be young and frivolous. The past that cannot be returned has already disappeared with the wind and clouds, and everything has disappeared in the long river. The new journey has already begun, but the corners of the eyes are full of tears, full of bits and pieces of bitterness, no one can count them.

Perhaps, loving someone means that even if you only have 50 yuan left, you will give it to him with all your heart, because you are reluctant to let him suffer and get hurt, and you always want to give him the best. The same is true for Yongmei's treatment of Luan Shu. Two people with very different personalities experienced countless bitterness and tears before they happily held each other's hand. Last year, Yongmei had a double blessing. First, she won the Best Actress Award at the Berlin International Film Festival, becoming the first mainland actress to win this honor. Second, she won the Best Actress Award at the Chinese Film Golden Rooster Award.

With such an achievement, many people don't understand why she would choose a rebellious prodigal son when she is not only gentle and elegant, but also so good. From the outside, the two people seemed to be very incompatible, and many people felt sorry for Yongmei that such a good girl married such a man. But people who don't know their stories will definitely say this, just like when we talk about a relationship, we can only understand the feeling when we are in it, and others can't understand it. You know, the surface and the heart of a person are two different parts, and they also carry a lot.

A sudden calculation shows that Yongmei is already 50 years old and has passed half of her life. After having a partner, why not choose to be a mother? Yongmei's name means "fairy" in Mongolian. She wears a beautiful skirt and is a coveted beauty. Her temperament was not blown by the strong wind, but was cultivated since she was a child. Her parents were both intellectuals, so when she applied for college, she chose not an art college, but a university of foreign economics and trade. , worked as a clerk after graduation. Love is full of twists and turns

Like many people, she lived an ordinary and ordinary life until an opportunity completely changed her life. Initially, in 1991, Yongmei collaborated with Luan Shu because the Black Panthers released a new song and needed a gentle girl, so they found Yongmei because her temperament matched that song. That was the first collaboration between the two, and Yongmei was very happy to be the heroine of the MV. The two didn't have much interaction, because at that time Luan Shu was very upset about Dou Wei and Faye Wong.

Since then, Yongmei and Luan Shu have no contact. However, fate is destined by heaven, and everything seems to be destined. Two years later, the two met again, and Luan Shu was dressed like a cowboy in the American West. His unruly character and enthusiasm attracted Yongmei. At that time, after Luan Shu came on stage to perform, she couldn't help but shed tears. At that moment, she remembered this man in her heart. This kind of rock and roll young man was exactly what she liked. For him, I quit my job at the time and just wanted to follow him back to Beijing to develop.

It was precisely because of this opportunity that a person who had never been exposed to the entertainment industry began to gradually become an actor. After a friend's introduction, she was recommended to a director by Xu Gehui and began filming the heroine in "Mu Yun's Man". I entered the entertainment industry by mistake, and now I am in a situation that is out of control. I have to say that some people are born to eat this bowl of rice. She believes that her career can develop steadily, but her boyfriend is restless by nature. As long as he wants to do something, he will do it immediately, regardless of the consequences.

Luan Shu originally had a good time in the Black Panther band, but he decided to leave the band at all costs. He wanted to do what he liked, which was the knight's dream. So after that, he took out the money he had saved for many years and rented a horse farm in Shijingshan District, Beijing. In addition, he also formed a professional equestrian team. Develop in a good direction. The venue and personnel are complete, but there is still one thing missing, and that is a good horse. He bought more than a dozen horses from abroad and hired special coaches. Yongmei saw all of this. Life is back on track

She didn't say anything, but as long as her boyfriend liked it, she would support him. In order to support him, he not only lives with him on the horse farm, but also earns money to support his family. It is conceivable that the performance fees Luan Shu earned in those years were almost spent in those years. She had no choice but to choose filming. Fortunately, she didn't hate this career, otherwise she wouldn't have made it this far. At first, their lives were very difficult. Yongmei shed tears silently for this love, because life is very hard and there is no end in sight.

Nevertheless, she will take good care of Luan Shu, because in her heart, he is worth it.

Even if he doesn't eat well, buy new clothes, etc., he will use the money he earns to help him buy some horse gear. The magic of love is really too great. Many times, blindly giving will only make yourself shackles, and you should do everything you should. Luan Shu also participated in a horse race and finished in 8th place. However, there was no profit behind this. He spent all his savings and incurred debts.

When Yongmei saw this situation, she wanted him to stop the loss in time. After all, she likes to be quiet and doesn't like to make trouble. It's pretty good that he can persist for so long, because he is not a rich person, so after all, he wants to live a normal life. She advised her boyfriend, but Luan Shu disagreed, claiming that she would have to persist for a few more years. Faced with such an answer, her heart froze, and she reluctantly broke up with Luan Shu. However, Luan Shu couldn't let go of his girlfriend or the racecourse, so he calmed her down first and then made other plans, finally returning to reality.

In those years, because of his recklessness, his girlfriend suffered a lot. If it were a woman, she would have left him long ago. He hugged Yongmei and said, "I promise you, I will return to the right path and make some changes so that you will no longer suffer." From then on, Yongmei continued to film. Although she did not have a professional background, her acting skills were Recognized by the public, he is also known as the "golden supporting role". Luan Shu, on the other hand, disbanded the horse team and returned to the Black Panther Band. The two worked hard for the same direction and soon paid off their debts. It can be said that a life of hard work and joy is not easy. Conclusion

In 2006, 36-year-old Yongmei married Luan Shu, and they got married naked. Having endured all the hardships of life, she originally wanted to have a child, but with the one-bedroom rental house and Yongmei's career on the rise, she could only postpone the matter. Luan Shu is two years older than her, so of course she hopes to have a child, so that the family will be happier. The two also had a lot of conflicts because of this incident.

Originally, she was well prepared, but Yongmei's father and mother passed away one after another. This incident had a profound impact on her. During that time, she lived in a trance and even suffered from mild depression. Fortunately, Luan Shu was by her side, taking good care of and accompanying her. Seeing herself like this, she wanted Luan Shu to leave, and spent countless nights hiding in the corner crying.

Luan Shu never left. It took 4 years for Yongmei to gradually get over the most difficult time. From 2018 to 2020, it was the glorious period of her career. Luan Shu also understood that if she got pregnant at this time, it would be harmful to her wife's body, so she would no longer force it. Yongmei was willing to accompany him to travel around the world, but when she had enough fun, she had to return to life. When Luan Shu was at her saddest, she did not choose to leave, but took good care of her. I hope they will be happier and more contented in the days to come.