I saw a news the other day:
Xiaowen's children always cry after weaning. Both parents tried many methods but failed to solve the crying problem. They can't always stop weaning their children. At this moment, I heard a colleague say: A pacifier can stop a child from crying. ? Xiaowen immediately went to the store to buy one for the child, and gave it a try with the psychology of giving it a try. Unexpectedly, it really succeeded. The baby stopped crying after putting on the pacifier. Both parents thought that the problem was solved and they were very happy.
After a while, although the problem of weaning has been solved, he seems to be inseparable from the nipple and always pouts every day? Goldfish mouth? At first, they didn't think anything was wrong, didn't take it to heart, and even thought the child was pouting? Goldfish mouth? It's cute, but one day dad thought it was a bit unsightly for children to pout all the time and decided to let them take it back. I didn't expect there was something wrong with the child's mouth. When my father opened his mouth, he was shocked in an instant.
The child's gums have become abnormal. Seeing that something was wrong, mom and dad quickly took their children to the hospital. After the doctor's examination, things don't seem very optimistic. The doctor accused: Are you the only parents who do this? This should have been a long time ago, and you just found out? ? Parents realized the seriousness of the problem and felt very sorry. At this moment, the doctor sighed and said:? Once the gums are deformed, it is difficult to recover, so we should make good preparations for the future. ? Don't say nothing, the mother who heard this sentence instantly shed tears.
Pacifier has advantages and disadvantages.
Proper use of pacifiers also has many benefits. For example, children at this stage will eat their fingers, often put their hands in their mouths, and there are many bacteria on their hands, which can easily make children sick. At this time, giving the child a pacifier can avoid this problem very well. There is also training children's chewing ability.
In addition, the use of pacifiers can also reduce children's eating what they can't eat by mistake, which greatly ensures the safety of children.
There are both advantages and disadvantages to talking about so much. As mentioned above, it is likely to deform the child's gums and cause serious consequences. Letting a child wear a pacifier for a long time will also make him dependent. Although the child's crying has been successfully avoided, it is a very difficult problem to get the child to quit pacifiers.
How to get children to quit pacifiers?
At first, he would cry when he gave up his pacifier. At this time we can distract him from crying. Parents can make him quit during the day, which is the worst. We can do some interaction with him to distract him. If you use this method for a long time, you can let him quit slowly.
He doesn't have a nipple during the day, so we can stop crying at night. It is easier at night than during the day. After dinner in the evening, we can take him to a nearby park and maybe meet other children and let them play together. In the process, slowly take off his pacifier. Maybe he didn't notice. This is also a good idea. In this process, parents must be patient, give their children a transition period, and slowly guide them to quit pacifiers faster.
In the process of educating their children, parents must adopt scientific methods to avoid the above things and let their children grow up healthily.