If the wife often yells at herself, it can only be said that it is a wife's personality problem, which can often be seen.
There is a couple in my village who are like this. The husband is honest, but the wife is a little strict. She has no manners at all, and often says that her husband has no face.
Even when there were many people, this wife didn't give her husband a step, which made us resent this man.
Life always goes on, and no one can stand it if it goes on like this. Because his wife is always like this, he also had a big fight with her several times (clay figurines are still angry, let alone people).
Later, the two men got into a fight, and it was the old father-in-law who came here personally to solve the problem.
I think what my father-in-law said is quite reasonable. He consulted with his son-in-law and came up with two ways.
Tell your wife how you feel.
The father-in-law and son-in-law said that they must explain to their daughter her usual attitude of speaking and let her know how they feel about yelling.
In addition, to explain to her what others think of her, it is best to let the neighbors in the village say something to her. Only when she realizes that it is wrong to yell at her husband can she move on to the next step.
Let her feel the same way
With my father-in-law present, this second step went smoothly. Originally, it was said that my father-in-law was more or less influenced by his wife's yelling. So my father-in-law stayed with my son-in-law for a few days. My father-in-law is always yelling at her daughter these days, which makes her face red with anger (but she can't refute it clearly).
At the same time, the husband kept telling his wife that he usually felt the same way, letting her know how he usually spent it.
In this way, after a while, the old father-in-law called the son-in-law and daughter together and said this again. Although my daughter was angry for so many days, she also knew that she was wrong, so she decided to change her temper at the suggestion of her father-in-law.
First of all, don't speak too loudly, let alone swear.
Secondly, before you get angry, think about whose problem it is. Two people can't stick to the problem, and they can't make trouble without reason.
If two people can't do this, the old father-in-law will live in their home again and let them suffer.
But don't say that this method is quite effective. Now, the wife's attitude towards her husband is obviously much better than before, and we are happy for them.
Therefore, if you want to get rid of your wife's yelling, you must communicate with her first and then get the support of her family. The problem cannot be solved in a day or two. As long as you stick to it, I believe your wife will change a lot.