I don't know since when we always judge a book by its cover. Men like beautiful young wives, while women always try their best to keep their young looks. In fact, the more a person cares about his appearance, the more he will ruin his appearance. For example, some women's cosmetic failure not only destroys the beauty of appearance, but also may lead to the failure of marriage.
Really smart people are trying to improve their temperament and make their hearts better. Even when they are old, they still stand out from the crowd and are the most special people wherever they go.
The best temperament of a woman: clean, gentle and elegant. A woman with temperament, like a book that never tires of reading, can make people who really love her read it for a lifetime.
1. A clean woman is the most attractive. "If you don't sweep a house, why sweep the world?" A woman who doesn't like cleanliness is actually "lazy". She comes home every day and doesn't want to cook, sweep the floor or wash clothes, or just rely on the washing machine, just wash it, press the switch and forget it. Clothes taken out of the washing machine are wrinkled and ugly no matter who they are worn on.
Once, I went to my cousin Mei Lin's house to open the door. I saw many dirty socks and a pair of shoe pads on the sofa. When I walked to the table, I found oil stains on the stool and dared not sit down. Meilin warmly told me to sit down and leave after dinner, but I made an excuse and left soon. I escaped from Meilin's home, walked to the door of the community and took a deep breath. Because of the smell of home, I feel a little unbearable and suffocated. I really don't know how such a family can live a good life. In fact, Mei Lin and her husband don't have a good relationship and their family is poor, but they are both lazy and really "fit each other".
A woman who loves cleanliness, polishes her home, pushes open the door and makes the windows bright and clean. Look at the table and stool. Everything is clean, so you can sit anywhere. A meal, though simple, is clean. There is absolutely no sand in the dish, and the bowl is not very greasy.
When the children go out, others will definitely think, "This hostess is really capable and worth socializing with." It is also the wife's credit that her husband's clothes are clean or not.
A woman with real temperament has a clean appearance and a clean heart. To be a clean person, never calculate who is behind his back, have no words and deeds of good face and black heart, and be reliable in whatever you do. When dealing with such a woman, you can rest assured that everyone can "speak frankly" and don't need to worry about who "hides evil and practices evil".
Smell women's clothes, there is a faint smell of soap. Hear what she says, clean and tidy, and keep your word. Look at her circle of friends, full of positive energy, and you will definitely give her sincere praise.
2. A gentle woman is her husband's soul mate. In a happy family, everyone is "pleasant". Men look like men, hard-working and manly; Women are like women. She is diligent and thrifty, and knows how to combine rigidity with softness.
In a family, women are gentle, so they seldom quarrel, and there will be no quarrel at home. The man was just about to lose his temper when the woman said, "I know you are very tired recently and your work is very hard." See how I can help you if you can. If you want to lose your temper, just say it out loud, I don't blame you; If you are really tired, have a rest and I will cook for you. "Some women take the initiative to pour wine for their husbands after a hard day, occasionally making the family atmosphere more romantic. Such a family can't be harmonious.
When people reach middle age, they really want to meet a self, a self that can be accompanied by a soul, a self that can tell everything, and a self that can be intentional. If husband and wife are soul mates, then such love must be the most beautiful love.
A gentle woman can understand that life is not easy and her husband is hard. When the husband is down and out, it's not that he doesn't make much money or that he is too poor, but that the husband and wife work together to get through the difficult time.
There is an old saying: "A woman is weak and her mother is strong." A woman, after getting married and having children, gradually becomes half of the family, but her strength is hidden in gentle words and encouragement to her children and husband. A woman sets off her husband's greatness with gentleness.
The more harmonious the family, the better the woman's face, the more peaceful her mind and the more hopeful her life is. This kind of temperament can be seen by anyone with a discerning eye.
3. An elegant woman with outstanding temperament. Bacon said: "The beauty of form is better than the beauty of color, and the beauty of elegant manners is better than the beauty of form."
A woman with temperament is very elegant, and she is never in a hurry to do things and talk. This temperament is actually because she likes reading. The more she reads, the quieter her mind will be. If she is not angry, she will be calm and impetuous. When the hardships of life come, I always have the confidence to change myself.
Once the unit held a trade union activity and organized more than 20 people to go to a farmhouse to experience life. Everyone plays the game of delivering packages on the big lawn. Suddenly, my colleague Xiao Liao walked too fast, went awry and tripped over a stone. Colleague ah mui suddenly flew into a rage: "boss, boss, what happened to your lawn?" You didn't pick up all the stones. You must give us an explanation. " Otherwise we won't pay the bill. "
Ah Mui's words are really lacking in quality, yelling and yelling, which makes us all disappointed. When carrying out activities, an unexpected "episode" is actually a good thing and harmless. If you care too much, it will lead to unhappiness, which is definitely not a good thing.
A truly elegant woman is very calm under any circumstances. This calmness stems from her wisdom. The ups and downs of life and the detours of life are all under control. There is nothing to complain about, and there is no need to worry too much.
Whether a woman looks good or not depends on "natural beauty" and the temperament of a woman. "Three points depend on looks, and seven points depend on dressing up." Of course, dressing up is not just about wearing a lot of rouge powder and lipstick, nor going for plastic surgery, nor wearing expensive clothes, but studying hard to be an educated person and a person with a beautiful heart. It is much better to dress up your heart and cultivate your morality than to wear expensive clothes.
A woman, the more elegant she is, the nobler she lives, just like a lotus flower, which emerges from the mud without being stained, clear without being demon.
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