For example, Huang Lei's daughter, although young, has been able to translate English novels by herself since she was eight years old.
/kloc-at the age of 0/0, he became the voice actor of several Hollywood blockbusters. 1 1 year-old, participated in major fashion shows as a model. 12 years old, began to try to design their own clothes when interested. ...
Not to mention Huang Lei's daughter's experiences in participating in drama performances and piano competitions and winning prizes.
Every time I see these children, many parents can't help feeling: under such training, children will really become excellent in all aspects.
However, my family does not have the conditions of a star family. When my baby grows up, how can I compete with these' rich second generation' and' star second generation' in society?
If you want your child to be excellent, you must cultivate him, construct good life and study habits for him, and let him acquire excellent and healthy personality and three views-these are not coming out of thin air, but need to be honed in life.
Many parents worry that because they don't have that much money, they can't spend huge sums of money to' make up' extracurricular training courses for their children.
The fundamental reason is that these parents feel that only spending money on training is the' right way' to cultivate their children. But this is not the case. The cultivation of a person is multi-faceted. In order to make children have more possibilities in the future, we can start from four aspects to cultivate excellent children's freedom.
1, love is the cornerstone of everything
When raising a child, if the child shows cowardice and retreat, parents must not complain that the child is "stupid", "timid" and "impossible", but should appease the child and give him enough energy for love. If necessary, you can try with your children and face success and failure, laughter and tears together.
2. Respect brings healthy development of personality.
Some parents may find that some babies are courageous and dare to try at an early age. However, having children is boring and unwilling to explore strange environments.
Some of these differences are acquired, and some are actually determined by innate temperament. Therefore, as parents, we need to respect children's natural temperament, and we can't think that children's lively or introverted personality is' not good enough' just because their performance is' not as good as I want'.
Instead, on the basis of respect, cultivate him to learn more interpersonal communication skills and encourage him to try what he is interested in.
Reading will become the ladder of his life progress.
Slowly, the child has not only improved his writing skills such as choosing words, making sentences and modifying paragraphs, but more importantly, he has accumulated a lot of predecessors' understanding and feelings about people, life and the world, which has played a very good role in the progress and development of his personal life.
4. Walking on Wan Li Road is enough to broaden his horizons.
There is a saying that thousands of books is not as good as Wan Li Road. Many people simply think of it as' as long as you travel with your children, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery'.
But in fact, if we, as parents, just stroll around buy buy on Wan Li Road to buy and pat, our children will just be "caged birds" in different places.
If you want to broaden your horizons, you must interact with strange environments, understand the geography, history and humanities where you go, and experience a world completely different from your own life. In this way, children can gain a multi-angle understanding of the world and broaden their horizons.
Other people's children are excellent, not born this way. Instead of admiring the comparison, it is better to cultivate children slowly from now on.
As long as you give your child more companionship and patience, encourage him to try all kinds of new things and let him grow up in a loving family, your child will become the pride of his parents.