Love number 1040 stands for double love for you. 1040 is twice as much as 520 (I love you), so it means I love you twice. It can also be understood that "I love you" belongs to two people, and love is mutual. Other digital passwords starting with 1 are love numbers: 13 14. I love you all my life. What everyone wants is:

Love at first sight is the end of love, two of a kind is the beginning of love, mutual care is the process of love, soul mate is the sublimation of love, everlasting love is the promise of love, and growing old together is the end of love.

The sky changes, the earth changes, the sea changes, people change, and the world changes. The only thing that lasts forever is our feelings, our love and a heart that has long been intoxicated with each other. No matter how the world changes, we can meet for ten thousand years.

So, in this changeable world, how can we manage a good relationship?

1, keep in mind the balance point

Everything in the world has a balance point if it wants to survive. Without balance, buildings will collapse, mountains will collapse, the ground will crack, floods will flood ... and the world will be full of disasters.

Life is like this, so is love.

I remember when I was in graduate school, my friend Xiao Bin and her boyfriend of two years argued about where to live after graduation, when to buy a house and how much help parents would give.

Xiao Bin thinks her boyfriend's parents are obviously rich, but they don't want to fully support them. There is only one son in their family, and they want to rent a house for 3-5 years after graduation, and we will talk about buying a house later.

Boyfriends are distressed by their parents' hard work, unhappiness and silence. Xiao Bin thinks that her boyfriend just wants to obey his parents' wishes.

She was unhappy and went home to complain to her parents about it.

Xiao Bin's father told her: You can't measure a person by one thing. You should always remember at what point you decided to be with him. When there is a dispute, you should first think about whether the original "point" is still there.

Xiao Bin just walked out of the corner, thinking that when we first got together, we didn't know his family's situation, and my boyfriend was really good to himself at ordinary times. Instead of arguing about it, she began to talk about it.

Yes! In love, that point is very important. It may be a bright spot of the other party, or it may just be a momentary feeling, but it must be the most attractive trait of the other party. It is the premise of your heartache, the basis of your decision to be with someone, and the best weight to balance love and care in trivial life. Instinctive love is that people instinctively attract each other at the right age of youth. This is a pure natural law, without profound spiritual harmony and soul singing. It has the glitz of love in a short time, but it has no core of love. And utilitarian love, under the rendering of power and wealth, is a beautiful illusion.

We just need someone I really love and someone who really loves me. Together, our life will be complete, for reference only.