First of all, I'm sorry, I want to despise the original poster.
Since you really love her, why care about her appearance? !
Are you a super handsome guy again? !
If you really love someone, you won’t care about appearance. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your love for her can cover up her ugliness.
I think changing your heart is the best way. Otherwise, just leave her and don't cause harm to her.