In the first and second grades of primary school, I was very overbearing. No matter how small things are, I always haggle over every ounce.
Once, when I was studying by myself in the morning, I accidentally dropped my new pencil case when I was walking at the same table, and the patterns on it were dirty. I quickly shouted: "My pencil case, my pencil case, you stained my pencil case, you pay for it!" " You pay! "The deskmate said apologetically," I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'll pay, I'll accompany you. " I said anxiously, "What about this 20 yuan? Can you afford it? "The deskmate immediately retorted," Isn't it 20 yuan? How can you not afford it? You underestimate people too much. "So I quarreled with my deskmate.
Noisy, noisy, the teacher is coming. When I saw the teacher coming, I happily thought, "Great, the teacher can support me, and there will be more fun in the future." Unexpectedly, the teacher criticized me. I was full of resentment and thought, "It's wrong to sit at the same table, but why should the teacher criticize me?" I really don't understand. " I go home with questions.
As soon as I got home, I told my parents everything today.
Dad said seriously, "son, you did something wrong." Your deskmate accidentally dropped your pencil case, but you let him pay for it. Is it a bit dirty? " Dad will clean it for you later. "I listened to my father and bowed my head in shame.
On the way to school the next day, a little boy ran so fast that he accidentally knocked me to the ground. I quickly said, "Are you okay?" He replied apologetically, "I'm fine, I'm sorry." Say that finish and ran away. I suddenly have an indescribable affection.
When I came to school and walked into the classroom, I saw a brand-new pencil box on my desk. I quickly gave him the pencil case and said, "Don't pay for it. Yesterday was my fault. Please forgive me. This pencil box is a gift from your parents. "
I have learned tolerance and feel much more cheerful than before. The blue sky overhead seems bluer than before.
There will inevitably be bumps in the road of life, but there will always be a bright light to illuminate your heart and make your heart flow into a warm current.
Everyone is not perfect, but you can learn a lot because of your imperfection. Just like me, I learned to relax through a little thing.
My other half Lele and I have been good friends since childhood, and once she went to my house again. I invited her into my room. We discuss topics, read books and play games together. We all had a good time. Time flies, the whole morning has passed, and she still can't let go of the dazzling bracelet in her hand. Just as I reluctantly said goodbye to her, she said to me, "Your bracelet is really beautiful. Let me wear it for a few days! " I said yes indifferently.
However, a few days later, she came with some dirty beads. I see, isn't it my bracelet? My beads are not as conspicuous as before. "How did you break it? I brought this back from other places! You pay for my beads! " "Um ... I'm sorry, I ... I didn't mean to, it was bitten by a dog ..." "I don't care, you pay!" Then I pushed her away in anger and went back to the bedroom in disgust.
My mother came back after Lele left. After learning about today's events, mother said earnestly, "Don't be angry, son. She didn't mean to. You are all good friends. Don't hurt your feelings. Be tolerant! " Mother smiled and stroked my head.
Suddenly I feel that I was too impulsive just now, and Lele will be very sad. I came to Lele's house and found her sitting in her room crying. I apologized to her, and after she forgave me, I gave her a beautiful bracelet. Yes, there is no friendship in the bracelet!
Through this, I feel that I have grown up. I know that tolerance is free and easy, happy, happy and growing ... the light of tolerance will always grow with me!
Tolerance is a wonderful note, connected in series to form a beautiful and moving melody.
Please listen to my tolerant March:
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After getting up, when you were looking at the time, you accidentally broke your father's beloved watch. You apologize to your father sadly. Dad looked at it distressfully for a while and said, "It doesn't matter. It's old anyway. It's time to change." Your eyes are red. It turns out that tolerance can make people feel sour.
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On the way, you unconsciously kicked a stone, but it hit the sanitation worker's leg. You are embarrassed. The sanitation worker smiled at you and said, "naughty boy, walk steadily in the future." You smiled shyly. It turns out that tolerance can warm people's hearts.
The third note of the major scale.
At the corner, an aunt who was in a hurry to go to work accidentally bumped into your bike. She asked with concern, and you smiled and replied, "Never mind, never mind." Help aunt pick up the car and turn around and leave. Tolerance makes you a wise angel.
The fourth note of the major scale
On the bus, the driver suddenly braked and a little girl stepped on you. She apologized in fear. You touch her head and say, "Never mind, you didn't mean it." She hugged her mother and said, "Mom, it's very kind of elder sister. She doesn't blame me. " Tolerance has turned you into a child's idol.
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On the platform, an old woman's footsteps stopped you from moving forward. She was anxious to leave. You go and hug her and say, "Don't worry, grandma, I'll help you." "Good boy, good boy ..." Tolerance makes you a kind spirit.
The sixth note of a diatonic scale.
In the corridor, a classmate rushed over and bumped into your schoolbag. As he ran, he turned to you and said, "Sorry, I'm in a hurry." You also answered loudly: "Never mind!" Tolerance gave you another friend.
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In the classroom, your deskmate accidentally knocked off your pencil box, and she panicked. You smiled and said to her, "It's not broken." She also smiled awkwardly. Tolerance makes you more harmonious.
There will always be a tolerant heart, and the wonderful melody will always echo in your ears.
Tolerance Composition 4 In life, we often encounter sudden injuries. There are many unintentional behaviors, just unintentional mistakes. If you take revenge every time, you have to say everything, which will bring unnecessary blows to others and unexpected harm to yourself.
So I always remind myself that when others are not careful, don't care too much. I found that we were born to be tolerant of others. Then there was one thing I finally put up with.
I remember when I was in the fourth grade, I went home by bus and bought a pack of snacks. Under the stop sign, there was a sea of people and everyone was waiting. I finally got on the bus and found a place near the window. I looked at the crowded people outside the window with interest. Next to me stood a little boy, at most 1 1 years old, with a round head, a clean gourd head, a pair of bright black eyes, like a clear lake, and two thick black eyebrows like the wings of a wild duck on the lake. It's just that I look like a foreigner in rags and a pair of cheap cloth shoes, just when I guess the origin of this little boy. Suddenly the driver came to an emergency stop, and the little boy next to him was obviously unprepared. He bumped into me at once, trampled on my new sneakers and spilled snacks all over the floor. I just wanted to frown, but when I saw the little boy, I kept apologizing to me, and Jin Doudou rolled around in his eyes. I thought on second thought: people have apologized, and they didn't mean to. If you have to forgive others, forgive them! He said, "Little friend, you didn't mean it. I have forgiven you." He looked up at me gratefully, whispered "thank you", then got out of the car and disappeared into the crowd.
After this little incident, I deeply felt that I had to pay for it. Caring about it is not good for our growth. We should be lenient with others and strict with ourselves. Use your own open-mindedness to tolerate the unintentional mistakes of others. Practice your broad mind.
Tolerance can dissolve the iceberg in the heart, make the family happier, make the family stronger and make the friendship last forever.
"Swallow, can you lend me a look! I'll pay you back next Monday, ok? " I spoiled through her "Yang series", but she didn't want to. After my repeated requests, it finally paid off. Reluctantly, she lent it to me and repeatedly told me, "Be sure to keep it safe! If you can't throw it away, don't get dirty, don't break it, or I won't stop with you. "
I went home happily with a book. These days, I always take books as my life and take them with me everywhere. I went to my grandmother's house today and put down my book and read it. Suddenly, the puppy jumped on the sofa and took a book. I finally got it back and found that the book was torn. I thought sadly that if she knew, she would never lend it to me again, thinking that I stuck it on. "It's 9 o'clock, we're going home." I am so forgetful that I just left. Put the book there. When I went back the next day, the book had been bitten into a ball of waste paper by the naughty dog. I was so sad that my mother said, "Let's go to the bookstore and buy a book to make it up to her!" " "That's the only way.
On Monday, I went back to school and said to her guiltily, "I'm sorry I broke your book." I bought a new one and returned it. " She said, "It doesn't matter. I have read that book several times. If it is broken, it will be broken! " ! Keep this book for yourself! "After this incident, our relationship with by going up one flight of stairs became inseparable.
Hugo said: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." It can make friendship last forever!
Tolerance is the nobleness of a person's soul; Tolerance is the spiritual communication between people; Tolerance is noble and pure!
I remember it was a cold winter. I am walking on my way to school alone, and my heart is full of anxiety. What should I tell her? This is her favorite pen! I heard that her father sent it to her from abroad! She has been reluctant to use it. I begged and swore to her before she lent it to me. But I broke her, alas ...
Stepping into the classroom door, my heart hung up again. I walked up to her and stammered to her, "Shen Xue, I'm sorry, I ... I accidentally broke your ... pen." My voice is getting smaller and smaller. At this moment, I obviously saw her face suddenly changed. I waited for her words. But just then, I didn't expect another wave of smile to float on her cheek. She smiled and said to me, "Uncle Wang, never mind! It's just a pen. It doesn't matter much. You don't have to feel so guilty! " My heart was shocked. I didn't expect her to say that. I seem to have relaxed a lot, and a stone in my heart finally fell to the ground. But I still didn't want to believe it, so I asked her, "You really don't care?" "Really, you don't believe me!" She patted me on the shoulder and smiled. I feel soft-hearted and warm all over.
However, something unexpected happened. That day, I accidentally saw her crying gently with the pen that was broken in two because of my mistake. I suddenly froze. I don't know what this is. What happened to her? But later, I got the answer. From the mouth of my classmates, I knew the truth of the matter. It turns out that her father has decided to divorce her mother. This pen is the only gift given to her by her father. In order not to make me feel guilty, she insisted on not letting her classmates tell me the truth. After hearing the truth, I was shocked, I was deeply shocked, I was shocked by her sincere tolerance! I don't know how to face her at once.
Ah! Now, let's all learn to be tolerant and let the world love more!
What is tolerance? Tolerance is a lubricant to eliminate friction between people. Tolerance is a sedative to keep calm in chaos. Tolerance is also a bridge to communicate each other's hearts. If you want to ask me what tolerance is, you should start with this matter.
One afternoon, I was sitting on the bus, next to a girl. She was wearing a brand-name clothes, carrying a bag in her hand and looking down at her mobile phone. I think: she must not be a girl who focuses on her studies.
At the station, a woman came over. Her hair is messy and her face is black and red, not to mention her clothes. Her child is not a cute little angel, but a black-faced child with a runny nose. Somehow, the child began to cry, and the more women coaxed him, the more fierce the child cried. The people in the car shook their heads helplessly, and someone coldly said, "It's really noisy and annoying!" A woman's face is full of embarrassment and helplessness. At this moment, the girl stood up. "Aunt, you sit here with me." The woman thanked her and sat down.
Just sit down, the child threw up with a wow. The people in the car were afraid of splashing on them, running around and showing disgust on their faces. The girl closest to the woman was splashed all over, and the woman froze. The people in the car thought a war of words was about to begin. Instead of being angry, the girl took out the paper and wiped off the dirt on her body. Then she squatted down and wiped the dirty things off the women and children. I saw the tears moved by the woman overflow her eyes, and the people in the car cast a approving look at the girl.
The girl was about to get off the bus when the woman quickly stood up and said gratefully, "Thank you, girl." The girl turned around and smiled and said, "You're welcome. Goodbye, aunt. "
I realized the mistake I just understood. She is a good girl because she has a generous heart. It is her tolerance that makes the troubles of the car harmonious, and it is she who turns the helplessness on a woman's face into a knowing smile. Also let me know tolerance and learn tolerance.
Endurance Grade 6 Composition 8 One foot crushed the grass, but the fragrance of the grass remained on that foot. This is tolerance.
If the sky is intolerant and cannot tolerate the temporary abuse of wind, rain and lightning, how can there be vast beauty? If the sea is intolerant and can't tolerate the madness of stormy waves, how can it have its profound beauty? If the forest is intolerant and cannot tolerate the law of the jungle, how can it have its original beauty? ..... It is tolerance that makes them, and tolerance makes life better.
Tolerance is an unbeaten flower.
There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.
Tolerance is a noble spiritual beauty.
More than 30 people, including the Commander-in-Chief of the Third Army Corps of the Red Army, inspected the terrain at the forefront, and the leaders shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Seeing someone in the way, I shouted a few words. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng bypassed him and hurried on. Later, the messenger sent soldiers to see General Peng. General Peng immediately asked him to go back. The soldier knew that he was in trouble and was afraid. He was deeply moved to see that General Peng was indifferent. Later, everyone said, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"
"People are not sages, to err is human." The road of life will be wider and wider because of generosity and tolerance. We should be more tolerant, tolerant and generous. As the saying goes, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon; Let three points, calm down "so that life will be better.
Tolerance is an extraordinary tolerance, broad mind and tolerance for people and things.
Tolerance is a noble quality, a lofty realm, a spiritual maturity and a spiritual abundance.
Tolerance is a kind of light of love, a blessing from heaven, a release to others, and a kindness to oneself.
Tolerance is a kind of survival wisdom and an art of life. It is calm, confident and detached after seeing through social life.
"When you smile at the ridiculous people in the world, you can tolerate the intolerable things in the world." What tolerance and mind! The value of tolerance lies not only in the recognition of the same kind, but also in the respect for the different kinds.
Smart people can tolerate it. The smarter a person is, the broader and more tolerant he is. Because he knows the way of the world, he sees deeply, sees too much and lets go; It is also because he cunningly discovered: "It is a blessing to be able to be by going up one flight of stairs and be tolerant of others."
The benevolent can bear it. People who are full of love must be tolerant. He is tolerant, saying, "I'm old, I'm young, I'm young, I'm young." He doesn't demand himself or others. Therefore, tolerant people will be more popular, happier and naturally live longer than those who are mean and jealous.
If you can tolerate, you can get people. In addition to love and trust, there must be tolerance between husband and wife. Friends can't have friendship without tolerance, because tolerance is the meaning of friendship.
Only by being tolerant can we grow and develop. The reason why Cao Cao supported millions of troops and unified the north is inseparable from his mind that the mountains are not too high and the sea is not deep. The enemy can still use it. What else can't be used?
Ah Q heard that he was scarred and bald, just fighting with others. Later, you were not even allowed to say it to your face when you lit the lamp. How taboo the patient is. A narrow-minded and selfish person will get sick, and a society with too many taboos will also decline. A dynasty that can't even say "the breeze can't read, why bother to turn over the books" is bound to decline.
Tolerance is a realm of individuals. Without a tolerant mind and character, it is difficult to cast a great personality.
Tolerance is the style of a country. Without tolerant thoughts and spirit, it is difficult to create a great nation.
Tolerate the sixth grade composition 10 I angrily grabbed the Chinese paper and went downstairs to the Chinese office. "How did you change your Chinese midterm paper!" I opened the office door while complaining.
"Report!"
"Come on in."
"Miss Liu, correct your mistake here!" I pointed to a question on the test paper and said. I feel extremely wronged.
Teacher Liu took the paper and said, "Yes, I changed it."
After a pause, Teacher Liu said kindly, "Look, all the mistakes here have been corrected. However, if you add one point to the class, it can't be added to your grade, so don't care about that one or two points, just forgive and correct the teacher's mistakes with a broad mind, okay? "
"all right! Thank you, teacher! " I took the newspaper and slipped out of the office.
A good friend who has been hiding outside the door when he is not careful! 1, scared me, I smiled, we all laughed. At this moment, my mood is so comfortable! Tolerance, how beautiful!
Tolerance of others is indeed a rare accomplishment and a virtue.
If the sky is not tolerant, can not tolerate temporary changes, can not reflect all kinds of light, how can there be colorful beauty? If the earth is intolerant, it can't tolerate the vigorous growth of all kinds of vegetation on her, and can't tolerate the dryness, drought, flood and pollution of the air from time to time, how can it be her vast beauty? If the sea is intolerant, it can't accommodate the gathering of hundreds of rivers, storms, evaporation and rain, how can it be beautiful? If time is not tolerant, we can't tolerate some people's waste, trampling and trampling on her, nor can we tolerate a temporary cycle of life and death. How can she have continuous beauty? How can it be beautiful if fate is not tolerant and can't tolerate all kinds of people putting all their eggs in one basket, turning points and valleys? ...
Let's say goodbye to narrowness and learn tolerance from today!
There is such a fable in Li Ao's Li Wengong Collection in the Tang Dynasty. The two men rode the national horse and the fine horse side by side. The good horse bit the neck of the Chinese horse's temple and made it bleed, but the Chinese horse continued to drive forward. The steed came home shivering, without touching grass or water. After the horse was comforted, he approached with his nose and ate with him, and the horse recovered as before.
At the beginning of reading this article, I was angry at the cruelty and bullying of horses, and even more angry at their incompetence and cowardice. However, when I saw the final change of Jingma, I couldn't help secretly cheering for Guoma, singing and drinking for the tolerant spirit of Guoma, and cheering for the harmony brought by tolerance.
Speaking of the word "tolerance", it reminds me of the thing that I "don't tolerate" others;
It's a sunny morning. I got up early, and so did my sister.
Somehow, my sister accidentally spilled a full glass of water on me. I was so angry that I didn't know what I was thinking, so I borrowed a glass of water and poured it on my sister, leaving water all over the floor.
After seeing the water all over the floor, I regretted what I had just done to my sister.
I think it is necessary for me to learn the practice of "national horse"; Its tolerance shames the horse, then comforts the horse with tolerance and makes it a friend. So in a sense, tolerating others is also forgiving yourself. Give others some space and you will get a blue sky. Let's have this blue sky and be tolerant.
There is an old saying: "Tolerance is great, but tolerance is high." Let's have a tolerant attitude. After many years, you will find that on the road of life, you have left an intoxicating magnificent scenery!
Now, I really want to raise my arms and shout: I want to have a tolerant heart!
When you have a conflict with your good friend, will you take the initiative to apologize or continue to ignore each other? I believe you will make a choice after hearing this story.
Chen Ming and I are good friends. One day, we took out the small wooden boat made by the handicraft group to play, and Chen Ming accidentally broke mine. In the argument, Chen Ming trampled on it again. I was very angry. I grabbed his little wooden boat and threw it on the ground, kicking and trampling. Chen Ming was angry, too. We changed from the initial quarrel to punching and kicking. Later, we were finally dragged away by our classmates. Chen Ming didn't calm down, with tears in his eyes, and said angrily to me, "We broke up!" " I said in my heart: break up and break up. I don't want you as a friend!
After that, none of us talked to anyone. It turned out that we were "comedians" in our class, but after this incident, we were unhappy all day and there was no sound at all. This situation lasted for a whole month. This month, I also seriously reflected and found that I was wrong, so I wanted to apologize privately.
One day, at an activity in physical education class, I slowly approached Chen Ming. "Chen Ming, I'm really ... sorry about last time." I'm embarrassed to say. "It doesn't matter, in fact, I am also wrong." Chen Ming replied without hesitation: "In fact, I have forgiven you for a long time!" At that moment, I froze: I didn't expect Chen Ming to be so frank! "Really?" I said excitedly. "Of course!" "That's great! Can we play together? " "Yes, come on!"
In this way, we finally got back together!
After listening to this story, I believe you will definitely choose to "take the initiative to apologize". Indeed, if the "I" in the story could have said "I'm sorry" to Chen Ming earlier, it wouldn't have caused so much trouble.
Tolerance composition 13 the sky contains every cloud, regardless of beauty and ugliness, so the sky is wide and far away. The earth embraces every inch of land, rich or poor, so it belongs to vast expanse. The ocean accepts every river, big or small, so the ocean is boundless. Tolerance is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and also a virtue of human beings. Tolerance is a kind of cultivation, a kind of tolerance and an open mind. Tolerance makes people feel warm and kind, embodies the charm of personality and condenses into infinite power.
Tolerance shows an elegant demeanor. Lin Xiangru, a famous figure of Zhao, laughed off Lian Po's arrogance. Lian Po was deeply ashamed of Lin Xiangru's generosity, so he offered a humble apology, leaving a beautiful talk for peace through the ages. If there is no righteousness in Lin Xiangru, how can Zhao be peaceful and prosperous? So forgive others' mistakes, don't suffer, and be a tolerant person. In the face of contradictions, tolerance is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, which can erase mutual hostility and increase friendship between people.
Tolerance shows peace of mind. As the ancients said, gold is not enough, and no one is perfect. In this world, although people have different lifestyles, it is inevitable that there will be collisions in the noise. In life, we always have conflicts with people, so we must learn to understand others with a tolerant heart, write a smile on our face sincerely and say sorry more. In fact, this is a kind of cultivation. When we treat each other with a sincere and peaceful mind, the other party will be grateful, so that we can build a bridge of communication between our hearts, so that we can be respected and happy.
Andrew matheus said, "One foot squashed the violet, but it left the fragrance on your feet. This is tolerance. " Tolerance does not mean incompetence, but it is the embodiment of a person's knowledge, mind and personality strength, which is the so-called "tolerance greatness". Whether a person can treat everything around him with a tolerant heart can also show his quality and accomplishment.
Please be more tolerant, tolerance is a kind of cultivation, because tolerance, complicated life becomes pure, monotonous life appears fresh!
Sixth grade composition 14 tolerance can make you happy; Tolerance can make the sky wider; Tolerance allows you to tolerate all rivers and seas.
I still remember when I was in the sixth grade last year, I always took us to the multimedia classroom. When I returned to the classroom, I saw my good friend Zhou Zhou's book was still on the seat, but her people were not there. I tried to help her get it back to the classroom, but as soon as I picked it up, someone ran over and bumped my arm, only to hear a hiss. I tore up a picture that Zhou Zhou drew on the draft paper that she liked very much.
Sitting in my seat, I was in a hurry and thought, what should I do? What should I do? Will Zhou Zhou blame me? Just then, Zhou Zhou walked by and asked, "Zhang Xinrui, have you seen my math book and draft?" "I ... that ..." I stammered and didn't speak. "Zhang Xinrui, do you see the next class or math class? If you don't see it, it's over. " Zhou Zhou said. "Zhou Zhou, that, I'm sorry, I accidentally broke your painting when I helped you draw the draft paper." I said and took out my books and paintings. I dare not look at Zhou Zhou because I'm afraid she will be angry.
After a long time, nothing happened. I looked up at Zhou Zhou and said, "Zhou Zhou, are you okay? Don't be angry. I will definitely help you stick it on. " "Who said I was angry? If you are nervous, it's just a painting. If you break it, I'll eat you. " Zhou Zhou said with a smile. "Thank you Zhou Zhouken for forgiving me!" I also said with a smile. "Very well, have a tape? Let's stick it together. " Zhou Zhou said. "yes." After that, we began to work.
Tolerance is a virtue, and everyone should have this virtue, so that not only they will feel happy, but also those who are tolerated will feel happy!
Tolerance 15 Tolerance is a virtue. I once read a poem, in which the tolerance is a blue sea and the river is clear. Tolerance is broad, regardless of hatred and resentment; Tolerance is brilliant sunshine, bringing you showers and winds; Tolerance is ...
I remember once, at noon one day, I was doing my homework in the classroom. A classmate walked past me and accidentally met me. My exercise book immediately drew a "perfect" arc. My homework is so disfigured. You know, my homework is always neat.
I get angry at the thought of it. I said angrily to that classmate, "Look, it's all your fault. Why touch it if you have nothing to do? " I wonder if others are doing their homework. "
I only heard the classmate say apologetically, "I'm sorry, did I do it on purpose?"
"You didn't mean it, then you did!" I said angrily.
"I really didn't mean it. I apologize to you. Please forgive me. "
Thought of here, since she apologized, I have to forgive her, after all, she didn't mean it.
I said to that classmate, "I forgive your sincerity." She said thank you and left, so I had to do my homework again.
At noon the next day, I went to hand in my homework. I don't know who pushed me I just bumped into my classmate yesterday, and her notebook was disfigured.
Ah, ah, how can I be so unlucky! When I think of yesterday, I feel scared. After all, I treated her like that.
I was ready to be scolded and said nervously, "I'm sorry, I caught you." I just heard her say, "Never mind, you didn't mean it. Besides, I didn't get you yesterday, so I'm even. "
I was shocked. If I were you, I'm afraid I don't know how to embarrass others.
Now I know how important tolerance is. Tolerance is what everyone needs. Tolerance is mutual understanding. Before blaming others, put yourself in others' shoes.