Why do you need a man?
? Shang xianqin

? Why do you need a man? I am rushing to get rid of poverty! Dusen, a strange girl, as a woman, sticks to her original heart. Even in the face of the storm, she remained firm and brave.

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Summer nights are always intoxicating. A bright moon hung high in the air, and the faint moonlight reflected on the apple tree like gauze. The ground is covered with mottled pictures. The breeze is blowing gently, bringing a little coolness. Leaves rustle, unknown insects in the grass are singing, and the sound of running water comes one after another, which constitutes harmonious music.

Dusen stood up with a sore waist and took out his mobile phone and looked at it. It's already two o'clock at night. I thought I had finished watering the fruit trees after twelve o'clock, but I didn't expect the water to flow into the fields at two o'clock.

Alas! Dusen sighed gently. It's really dry these days. Now the fruit trees are in the fruit expansion period, with high temperature and large water demand. However, the weather is bad and it hasn't rained for a long time. When the weather is dry, there will be more people watering, so we should queue up in order. Not easy to get close to themselves. Although the evening is inconvenient, Dusen dare not miss it. If he misses it, he doesn't know when it's his turn. Fortunately, my son's summer vacation is over, and he is watering the fruit trees for himself tonight, greeting himself at one end and his son at the other. On weekdays, Dusen waters the fruit trees alone in the field.

Dusen, wearing a miner's lamp on his head, a shovel in his hand and rain boots on his feet, patrolled the ground to see if there was any water leakage. Dusen was busy watering the fruit trees until three o'clock in the evening, three hours longer than expected. It was almost four o'clock in the morning when he got home.

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Who's Dusen?

Du Sen, who lives in Nanwu Village, Huangfu Township, Wanrong County, is nicknamed Sensen. Maybe everyone will think it's a man when they hear this name? In fact, she is a beautiful and virtuous woman, 43 years old this year. Sensen's parents work far away in Lanzhou. When she was three months old, she lived with four grandparents, and her parents couldn't control her at all. Lover Du is also a bad karma born and bred. His father is a son-in-law. After he married Wu Jun's mother, he gave birth to Wu Jun, his elder sister and younger sister. However, when they were very young, their parents divorced, and grandma and mom struggled to bring up their third brother, so life at home has been relatively tight. In Sensen's words, when she married Wu Jun, two bitter melons were tied to a vine.

Although the days are bitter, the husband and wife know each other and cherish each other, and Sensen feels very happy. Now Du, my love, is working in Ann. Both children are excellent. Last year, they were admitted to the university, their daughter was admitted to Shanxi Medical University and their son was admitted to Taiyuan University of Science and Technology. Everything at home is taken care of by Sensen alone.

Some people say that it is difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a good woman. In fact, it is more difficult to be a better woman than a man, because she has to work harder than a man. Sensen is such a woman. ?

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The villagers say Sensen is a great woman, and she doesn't want a man.

Dusen raised pigs and chickens a few years ago. Although she lost some money, she never backed down. Especially after receiving the care and help of the party and the government for accurate poverty alleviation, she is even more energetic. Now she manages four acres of fruit trees and five acres of peach trees alone, doing manual work as heavy as men.

Sensen is a good hand at managing fruit trees. Orchard management is a technical activity including soil management, tree management and disaster prevention. Soil management includes deep ploughing, fertilization and irrigation. Tree management is to carry out fruit tree shaping, fruit tree pruning and fruit yield adjustment. If nothing else, it is not easy to pull out the branches of a fruit tree. Pay attention not only to the time and object of branch pulling, but also to the angle, direction and position of branch pulling. The disaster prevention of fruit trees is also a key link. In the process of fruit tree production and management, in addition to pests and diseases, it may also suffer from natural disasters such as freezing injury, bolting, sunburn, wind disaster and hail disaster, which will bring huge economic losses to fruit tree production. My wife Wu Jun is not at home. Sensen is busy pruning, pulling out branches, fertilizing, watering, weeding, spraying and bagging fruit trees.

Weeding is a heavy physical activity. If there is enough rain in summer, the grass on fruit trees will grow wildly, competing with fruit trees for water, fertilizer and glory, which is extremely unfavorable to the growth of fruit trees and may bring more diseases, pests and germs, so weeds must be removed in time. At present, mowing is usually done with a lawn mower. A backpack mower weighs about 15 kg, and her waist can't straighten up in the fruit field. At the end of the day, Sensen's shoulders were red and swollen, and her waist was too painful to move, but she never complained that she was tired.

That day, Sensen drove a tricycle and pulled a micro-tiller to plow the fields. Micro-tiller is a small agricultural machine, which can carry out agricultural operations such as rotary tillage, soil preparation and fertilization. Unexpectedly, just for a moment, the micro-tiller suddenly stopped moving. What happened? Sensen looked carefully and found that the cable was broken. She wants to pull the micro-tiller to the ground and put it on the tricycle for repair. Who knows, it took a lot of effort, but the micro-tiller did not move. She pushed too hard, tripped and twisted her right foot, and suddenly there was a terrible pain. Helpless, she had to limp to the field and sit on the ground to see if anyone came to help her put the micro-tiller on the tricycle. Fortunately, without waiting for a while, a big brother from the same village came over and put the micro-tiller on the car with her. After the micro-tiller was repaired, Sensen didn't go home to rest, but went to the field to continue working.

When I got home that night, Sensen's ankle swelled up. Although it hurts, Sensen feels that this pain is nothing. Life is bitter and sweet, but today, no matter how bitter it is, we should recite it into a leisurely memory with a smile.

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Du said that Sensen is the backbone of our family, and I am at ease with her at home.

One of the most meaningful words in China is "An". The word "An", with a hijab on it, means "home". It tells men that women are home, and there are women at home, so men can have peace and warmth in their hearts. The old saying "a wife is virtuous and her husband is safe" is the most profound explanation of this word. Whether a family is happy and safe, and whether children can become talents, has a great relationship with women's behavior at home. This statement is not false at all.

? Du will never forget the day when he was in a car accident. At that time, when the children were still young, Wu Jun went out to work. Unfortunately, his car overturned and Wu Jun was seriously injured. He was taken to Yuncheng Central Hospital. After a period of treatment, he not only spent all the money in his family, but also borrowed a lot of debts. Helpless, although Wu Jun can't take care of herself, they still go home and recuperate slowly.

At this time, Wu took out the medicine, and there was really no way. Sensen took the gold ring from her hand, which was a wedding gift from Wu Jun, and asked acquaintances to take it to Yuncheng to sell. However, the result was unexpected. An acquaintance called and said Sensen's gold ring was said to be fake by the gold shop. In this way, the ring is gone and the money is gone. Sensen wanted to cry, and when the family was desperate, Fourth Grandma sent her only pension money to help Sensen tide over the difficulties.

In those two years, Wu Jun couldn't move easily. Sensen has to take care of Wu Jun and two young children, but Sensen never sighs and is cheerful all day. God bless the good. Perhaps Sensen's persistence touched God. Two years later, Wu Jun was able to walk by himself. Although he couldn't do any work, it made Sensen cry with joy.

Watching Wu Jun get better day by day, both children went to primary school. In order to pay off the debt as soon as possible, Sensen decided to borrow money to raise pigs. That year, the pork market was ok, but the money was earned and the loan interest was paid, which was just enough for the family.

Sensen is an insatiable person. 20 10, she saw that the benefits of raising chickens were not bad, and decided to sell all the pigs and start raising chickens.

In Wu Jun's mind, his wife Sensen is the best woman. She supports this family with strong arms. It is she who has created a warm harbor for herself and her children with her broad mind. Busy wives are everywhere in the fields, fields, homes and chicken coops, but their wives never talk about bitterness and tiredness. How can such a woman not be loved and respected?

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The daughter said that my mother can do anything, and nothing can beat her.

20 12, may 12, this day is mother's day. My daughter wrote in her diary: Today is Mother's Day, and my mother is working in the fields again. In my mother's heart, there is only this family, just me and my brother, and there has never been a holiday of my own. It really hurts my heart to watch my mother work at home with her back to the loess all day, farming and raising chickens. My mother is an omnipotent mother, and nothing can beat her. My mother gave everything to her children without stint. Facing us, she will always be a warm and happy smile, and my mother is the most beautiful flower in my heart. Mom, happy holidays, I love you!

? What worries my daughter most about her mother is that her mother vaccinates her chickens every time. Chickens are most afraid of cold when they first come back. The temperature in the henhouse should reach 38 degrees, or the chickens will freeze to death. Chickens are vaccinated, once every five days at first, and once every ten days slowly. Especially in winter, wear cotton-padded clothes when going out, and wear short sleeves in chicken coops. In the henhouse, wearing such short sleeves and the temperature of 38 degrees will make you sweat in a few minutes. It takes four or five hours for 2000 chickens to be vaccinated. Sweat will flow into their eyes from time to time, and their hands can't break free. Sensen wiped her face and forehead with sleeves and continued to be busy. ...

? It is often said that the children of poor families are in charge early. Mother's hard work, the children see in their eyes, and it hurts in their hearts. My mother is always full of hope for life. She does everything wholeheartedly and never gives up easily no matter how hard and tired she is. They are also self-reliant. They help their parents with farm work and housework at home and study hard at school. They were admitted to an ideal university last year. In order to reduce the financial burden of parents, my daughter goes to a tutoring department every night after self-study. It costs more than 600 yuan a month, and the living expenses are enough. My son used the weekend to distribute leaflets on the street to recruit students for the driving school. Every night, he has to do a two-hour part-time job after self-study in the evening and hand out leaflets to the US delegation at school. In this way, after a month, he not only earned enough living expenses, but also sent him some small gifts on his parents' birthdays.

A good woman is a good school. Sensen's body always exudes a beautiful, spring breeze, rainy and wonderful breath. She taught her children to learn self-discipline, gratitude and never give up with her words and deeds!

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Dusen said that the poverty alleviation policies of the party and the government have made me more confident. I believe there are no insurmountable difficulties.

20 13 egg market has been falling for three consecutive years. The wholesale price of a catty of eggs is only 2.7 yuan. Eggs can't be sold, and you have to spend money to buy feed and vaccines for chickens. There is no way but to borrow more money. Sensen said, as long as I insist, I believe there will always be a good day.

20 17, both children were admitted to the university, which is a very happy thing. Sensen cannot be happy. The tuition fee for two children is more than 10 thousand yuan. What should I do? Just when the Sensen family was sad, good news came from the spring breeze of helping the poor and benefiting farmers. Through education in Huangfu Township to help the poor, one person gave 5,000 yuan and two children gave 10000 yuan. The child's tuition has been set, and Sensen's heart is finally in his stomach.

Then, good things followed:

Huangfu township government helped Sensen apply for a breeding loan, which can save more than 3,000 yuan a year.

Huangfu township poverty alleviation team sent 2000 yuan for poverty alleviation.

Yuncheng Daily Poverty Alleviation Task Force sent a bucket of oil, a bag of noodles and a bag of rice during the Spring Festival.

Exempted 900 yuan's medical expenses at home, as well as the winter heating fee in 200 yuan and the critical illness insurance in 48 yuan.

Fertilizer has arrived in the fruit tree field. ...

All this, like showers in a long drought and coals in heavy snow, filled Sensen's heart with confidence and hope, and his locked brows gradually spread out, and his smile on his face bloomed again.

But Sensen is a self-reliant person. After careful consideration, she said to Wu Jun, "Wu Jun, we have hands and feet. We can't always rely on government relief. Otherwise, let's sell the chicken and go out to work. " Leave everything at home to me. I think, as long as we are willing to work hard and are not afraid of being tired, why worry about earning enough tuition for two children for one year? "

? Today, Wu Jun goes to Xi 'an to work, two children go to college, and Sensen manages peach trees and fruit trees at home. The family loves each other, understands and encourages each other, and is full of happiness, joy and warmth. ...

Sensen said, "Life has turned me into a woman. In my heart, nothing can beat me. I can still do what men can do. Now, although I am not rich materially, I am extremely rich spiritually. I feel strong, brave, hardworking, kind and optimistic. This is my eternal spiritual wealth. "

This is Sensen, a woman who never gives up, a woman who will never let a man down. As a wife and mother, she bears the happiness of the family at one end and the burden of life at the other. Although she is very bitter and tired, she is always grateful and always believes that life is a kind of strength, and only strength can create the wonderful life.