Ok, I will give you a small inventory today. After all, only by learning to kill time skillfully can you make money easily!
"Depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out".
We always say, "It's now or never." . This opportunity is actually "worn" by contacts.
Whether in the workplace, business or freelance, you can't lack contacts.
How to accumulate contacts by investing time? The three most effective methods are:
There is an offline party in the same city on Douban. However, girls should pay more attention to safety.
Time is still recommended for offline training and lectures. Although it costs money, it's worth it. On the one hand, you can learn knowledge and skills, on the other hand, you can get to know classmates and teachers who give lectures.
A friend of mine was forced to resign because he had a problem with the leader. During that time, he was unemployed and lovelorn. He was a fan of Freud. At that time, there was a Freud reading club, and he borrowed money to listen to it. At that exchange meeting, he met a friend, and they chatted very speculatively. This friend also recommended him to work in the new company, and the treatment was better than before.
You can also expand your contacts through the Internet. For example, you can join more theme groups. If you like cycling, search your local cycling group. If you have religious beliefs such as Buddhism, you can search your local Buddhist friends group. Love to write articles, you can join special groups and so on. "Birds of a feather flock together, birds of a feather flock together". Choosing a theme club with positive energy can make you know more like-minded friends and make you grow faster.
The simplest and most effective way to have high-quality and wide-ranging contacts is to cultivate more hobbies. When you make friends with others, you can't always talk about your interests. The same interests and hobbies are necessary for your stable friendship. You look at people with wide connections, not because they have superhuman powers or language skills and excellent social skills, but because they can "talk to people and talk nonsense". They have a wide range of interests and hobbies, so they can learn more about some cross-border people from this angle.
So, don't be blindly obsessed with words and social skills. It is the most important thing to really improve your interest and knowledge!
Never comfort yourself with "inner beauty is more important". I only make friends with people who value inner beauty. "
Inner beauty is important, but it doesn't mean that outer beauty is not important. It's not that you are too lazy to take care of your image and lead a sloppy life.
I have a student who recently complained to me that her blind date didn't go well.
Well, I'm almost a woman's friend.
She said, I am not demanding either. I just want to find someone pleasing to the eye. But why is everyone so ugly?
But she is not beautiful either.
People often have two-way requirements, asking others to have a good image, but making themselves sloppy. If others despise you, you will find an excuse to say that such people are superficial and only pay attention to appearance. But ask yourself, don't you?
If you want to change the outside world, you must start from yourself.
I talked about the role of angel aura before. Without exception, everyone likes beautiful things and will be happy because of them. If you are really dissatisfied with your face value and image, then put the others aside and invest time and money to improve your face value and image. This is true for both boys and girls.
However, the times itself does not support plastic surgery, even micro-plastic surgery or injection. Okay, maybe it's an antique. After all, everyone has a different opinion.
To improve your face value and image is not to make yourself perfect, but to make yourself look natural, clean, neat, clean, young and energetic. Let others see from your appearance that you love yourself.
In order to meet these requirements, we can start from the following aspects:
These are not difficult, and you can do it with some time, money and patience. There are many related videos on the Internet to learn. Read more relevant magazines, consult friends who have done well in this field with an open mind, seek their guidance and help, persevere, and you will find your own changes before long.
Your face value and image become better, which can enhance your self-confidence. People, things and things with high frequency will be attracted.
People with good temperament often have a strong aura, and even if they look moderate, they can still stand out in front of everyone.
I spent a long time studying how to improve my temperament in college, and I really have experience in this field.
Conventional methods include:
These three aspects need long-term persistence, not how long you practice every day, but how long you can persist. Even if you only finish half an hour every day, you will gain a lot if you persist for a long time.
Time is now reading two books a week and practicing one word a day. No matter how busy you are, you will finish it. It's been eight years now.
Of course, I will tell you something extra here and teach you two super useful methods:
Say it briefly.
Mirror exercise is: find a mirror at home that can see above your waist, dress up and make yourself look clean, tidy and energetic, then stand in front of the mirror, smile, look into the eyes in the mirror and say "thank you, I love you" repeatedly. Hehe, it may look silly, but it's not. With the help of mirror practice, you can gradually improve your self-esteem, and you can also input positive energy words such as "thank you, I love you" to your subconscious. Once a day, every time 15 minutes, usually lasting 2-3 months, the effect will come out.
Training the eyes is to train the concentration and vitality of the eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul. You can feel a person's spirit by looking into his eyes.
Some people are dead fish eyes, but their eyes are not energetic enough, giving people a feeling of lifelessness.
Some people's eyesight is weak, that is, their eyesight is insufficient, which makes people lose confidence at first glance. This kind of weak gas field will fall into a disadvantage in both the workplace and social life.
Therefore, to cultivate temperament, don't forget to practice your eyes.
The way to cultivate your eyesight: Take out a blank piece of paper, draw a black spot on it, concentrate, imagine light coming out of your eyes, and stare at the black spot on the paper without blinking, as long as you can. My eyes will be sore at first, and I will cry in a few seconds, but it doesn't matter. From 10 second, slowly, I got used to lengthening the time. 1-3 times a day, and each time 10 minute is enough. Stick to it for a period of time, and the concentration of the eyes will be improved. For example, you dare to look into other people's eyes, firm but not weak.
Ways to cultivate eye vitality: There are many variations of this method, and the principle is to make your eyes move as quickly as possible. I like playing table tennis. When you are tired, rest and watch others play table tennis, and keep your eyes on the fast-moving table tennis. I was very tired at first, and I felt dizzy and nauseous. If you feel uncomfortable, just close your eyes and have a rest. Much better. Keep practicing. Of course, you can also choose a few points at home, mark them with small stickers and stare at the stickers quickly. Can achieve the same effect.
I found that the development of the right brain is controversial. Many people think that right brain development is a scam, because many right brain development costs money. Alas, for those who hold these views, I really want to say, "I believe in you!" " "
People with rich imagination or calculation ability and excellent memory have a higher degree of right brain development than ordinary people.
People can practice constantly through formal methods to achieve the purpose of developing the right brain.
Time recommends some information about the development of the right brain.
Time once said: "Improving your knowledge and skills is always the most profitable business!"
Some people always complain that their promotion is not smooth and it is difficult to start a business. In fact, to put it bluntly, it's not that others don't appreciate you, but that you are not good enough and have vacancies in knowledge and skills.
In the process of improving knowledge and skills, people often make the mistake of being reluctant to spend money. Ironically, we will spend a lot of money on children's basic education, and we are willing to spend money as long as it is related to children's education. This contradictory idea has delayed many people.
Many people think their money is important, but time is worthless. So they usually choose to spend more time just to spend less money. But when you think about it, it's a big mud.
Take learning to spread pancakes. Spreading pancakes is very profitable, but it also needs to be studied, including production technology, ingredients, management methods, hidden rules of the industry and so on.
These things don't mean that you can fully understand a few videos at home and a few raiders. It took you two months to pay or underpay the tuition. It takes a lot of effort to go around, but how much can you learn?
But I don't know, if you spend thousands of dollars on tuition, a master will directly lead you in, tell you the methods, processes and secrets, and practice. Then you can make money directly through this craft. Although you directly invested several thousand yuan at the beginning, you saved valuable time. With this time, you can not only recover your funds, but also make a profit!
It is clear at a glance which is cost-effective.
Remember this sentence: "If you can spend money, don't spend time!" Your time is much more precious than money. "
To live, you must learn to rest and gather. The mobile phone can't be charged all the time, otherwise there will be too many. People are the same.
Seven days a week, leave some time for yourself and do something that you like and are full of positive energy, which will make you relax and gain a good mood.
For example, you can:
I met a friend online before, and he shared a lot of experience about online sales.
At that time, I asked him, "You are very diligent and update every day."
This is definitely my idea.
Why is sharing happy?
Because you can get others' attention, recognition, praise and even follow by sharing your own experience or work.
And this power will drive you to keep moving forward, keep learning and keep working hard, just to share more and better content.
So people who love to share make rapid progress, and this growth is two-way.
You can share your reading notes and reading experience online.
You can share your hobbies and works.
You can share your successful experience or failure lessons in a certain field.
Whether you are a novice or an old hand, you can share it. As long as you have a good positioning, you can gain more and more fans and your progress will be faster and faster.
Take gourmet cooking as an example.
If you are a novice in cooking, you might as well choose a popular recipe every week, record the process of cooking this dish for the first time with a camera, talk while doing it, and remember to taste, comment and summarize the experience and lessons after finishing.
If you are a good cook, it will be easier. Update a video of your cooking regularly to teach you how to make delicious food.
These two routes are very good and very suitable for content entrepreneurship. They can not only gain fans, make friends, but also make money. Why not?
Learn to kill time, how to be a slash youth and make money easily?
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Well, I didn't realize until I said so much.
I hope the time shared today can help everyone.
I have been studying content marketing for ten years. I don't want to have an advantage in the number of articles, but I hope the quality of articles is worthy of my heart. I speak for dry goods!
Remember to pay attention to time, and reward if you like it!