? The story begins with a male fox. Xiaoqu twisted his foot and went to the hospital to see an orthopedic surgeon. I didn't expect the male doctor in the clinic to be so handsome. At that moment, Xiaoqu moved her heart and started the road of hooking up with Dr. Zhao.

? Xiaoqu got enough love and material from her parents at an early age, with a high starting point. She inherited her father's concept of money relationship, and has an innate advantage in creating wealth, keeping her small company in good order.

? Dr. Zhao is a descendant of Kochi, born in a scholarly family. His father is a senior engineer and his mother is a university professor. Influenced by his parents since childhood, he is keen on knowledge, a typical intellectual, and works as an orthopedic surgeon in a hospital.

? After the "bombing" of Xiaoqu, Dr. Zhao also found Xiaoqu a bit interesting, and the two tried to walk together.

This surprised us a little. The traditional idea is not to tell us that women should be reserved and not be too active.

Girls should be reserved when they meet someone they like! Still take the initiative! Just as Xiaoqu took the initiative to "own" Dr. Zhao, Xiao Guan liked Dr. Zhao very much, but he was afraid to express it. It stands to reason that Xiaoguan is more suitable for Dr. Zhao. No matter personal hobbies or family background, it is a pity to miss it.

We often know what we don't want, once asked what we want. We are often speechless. We often like to discuss the right or wrong of a thing, but as everyone knows, there is no right or wrong, just a different angle. Girls can be reserved or active. We should not let "wrong" ideas "hurt" us all our lives. Every sentence has its applicable time and environment. It is not a panacea. We should stick it where it hurts.

? Should girls be reserved or active? Mainly depends on what we want. Xiaoqu has a clear goal and the desired effect is to get Dr. Zhao. All the movements are to get the favor of Dr. Zhao, and the physical and mental consistency is very good. However, Xiao Guan wants to keep the image of a lady in front of Dr. Zhao, preferring to keep the image of a lady rather than take the initiative to hide his love in his heart: I love you, which means giving you freedom. Loving you is my own business, not yours.

It turns out that in a relationship, we can choose, be better, be worse and be worse. If we want a better relationship, we will do some good things. If we want a bad relationship, we will do some bad things. If we want a normal relationship, we will do some ordinary things. In the final analysis, we might as well ask ourselves: what kind of effect do we want in the relationship?

? Xiaoqu grew up with everyone, with too little "missing" part, enough love, enough material and enough platform. Let Xiaoqu know what he wants from an early age. Go after what you want. On the other hand, we all have "missing" in one way or another. If this "lack" is not seen and perceived, we may be looking for this "lack" all our lives, and we may not regard our needs as "love".

Everyone has his own homework, and no one can escape. No one is complete, even ditty can't escape the cultural gap and cognitive gap, which is an unavoidable "injury". I remember once when she was talking about business with others, she was severely rejected. Xiaoqu casually said: educated, amazing! In the ditty, I verified a sentence: those who come out to mix will always be returned. If you are lucky, you will notice it when you are young and make up lessons in time. If you don't finish your homework, it may take you a lifetime to make up for it.

? Ideas will be passed down. We should start from our generation and give the next generation enough love, enough material, more encouragement and more companionship. What to do for the children? It is better to give him an example, the others are very small in front of the example.

In China in the future, class stratification is waiting for us, and an insurmountable "gap" is coming. It is an undeniable fact that it will become more and more difficult for the poor to have children, and the probability of the elite leaving the elite will become greater and greater. When we accept it, we will understand the operating law of the real world, respect the law, start from ourselves, find what we want, take all actions to win it, and live on the road of happiness.

? Everything starts from your own will.