First of all, I want to say that many people always say that introversion is not good and there are many opportunities for extroversion. Actually, it's not exactly like this. What I want to say is an old saying: a leopard cannot change his spots. Because personality is a natural thing, something that always follows you, and you want to get rid of it forcibly. First of all, you will be very tired. Think about it. Do you feel comfortable pretending to be yourself and not being yourself? Second, it is also very important. In fact, people who deliberately change their personalities are easily influenced. It is not obvious that extroverts want to converge. Introverts want to become extroverts deliberately, which really makes people feel pretentious. There used to be such a girl in our class who never spoke loudly. Later, I didn't know what stimulation she received and suddenly made herself look like a swallow. We didn't hate her at first, but it was such an artificial change that really made us tired of him.

In fact, with the growth of age, introversion and extroversion are not obvious, but maturity and stability are very important, regardless of gender. But I want to say that introversion is ok, but it should not affect the future. For example, don't be too introverted, dare not say anything, dare not do anything, and dare not do anything when you see the opposite sex you like. In this case, introversion can really hurt you. However, extroversion is harmful to people to some extent. Some girls don't know when it is particularly popular to get familiar with themselves. They seem to know everyone well, and then talk a lot, but they don't know that they are not welcome. To tell the truth, I have a neutral personality and hate that kind of angry girl. In fact, introversion itself does not affect people's life and work, but your own hints have played a bad role. Do what you have to say and do what you have to do. Don't always think about what I am introverted, I dare not, and don't always think about changing my personality. This thing is from God. With the increase of your life experience, you will unconsciously change imperceptibly, understand? As long as you don't slip away because of introversion, it doesn't matter what others say.

When I was a child, I often heard the teacher say which girls were too introverted and which boys were too introverted, which was not good. In fact, this is a wrong guidance and hint from the teacher. What teachers should do is to encourage such students to do things they dare not do, rather than asking them to change their personalities. If personality and temper can be changed overnight, how can the ancients leave the phrase "a leopard cannot change its spots"?

About making friends, I want to talk to lz most. I tell you, whether you have friends or not has nothing to do with your personality. I tell you: There are many introverted girls around me, but they all have sincere girlfriends. On the contrary, there are extroverted girls around me. Maybe there are many friends at ordinary times, but what really happened? No one spoke. To tell the truth, my personality gradually tends to be neutral during college and graduation. When I was a child, I was called introverted. But from elementary school to junior high school to senior high school, there are always three or five people around you who can play together, and two or three of them are particularly sincere and can say anything. Accumulated, there are six or seven good sisters who can speak their minds. After more than ten years of campus life, isn't it rare to have six or seven good sisters who can speak their minds? I tell you, a good friend who can really pay for you is enough for a lifetime, and the more, the less sincere. Moreover, what a person shows off is exactly what he lacks. Look at how many good friends those people show off all day. Actually, it's stupid We have gradually matured, but we still think they are naive. Moreover, the older you get, the more attractive you find introverted people. For example, teachers talk to Kan Kan when standing on the podium, but some teachers are very introverted and rarely talk when they get off the podium; There is also Guo Furong in the legend of Wulin. You should know that Guo Furong is a very lively and outgoing woman, but playing Sebrina is actually a very introverted person! When I knew this, I suddenly liked Sebrina better. So, like many university teachers in Sebrina, some people are introverted, but they will not delay their work and life because of introversion, so you can do lz.

Don't always think about your personality, even if you are a little timid when you do it. As long as you don't miss an important opportunity in life because of introversion, it's like a different person when you leave the hall in private. Isn't it charming? Many celebrities, such as magician Liu Qian, are like this, but their careers are excellent and they have great personality charm! With the growth of age, both men and women, exposing their extroversion, shouting and swearing are actually very superficial, and you will understand when you step into society. Without the leadership of employees who don't like to talk less and do more, disasters will come out of their mouths, and people who make a hullabaloo about are prone to accidents. With the growth of age, the extroversion exposed to the outside world becomes more and more superficial.

Don't think that introversion means talking less, and extroversion means talking more; Don't even think that introversion means standing in front of people and talking nervously, while extroversion means standing in front of people without being nervous at all. Some people are afraid that others will say that they are introverted and try their best to hide it. In fact, this is very artificial and unpopular. Whether introverted or extroverted, what people like is true!

All you have to do is make a slight change, don't be too extreme, don't always think about what you will become completely, as long as it doesn't affect your work and life, nature is the best.