"Body hair skin, by parents, dare not damage, filial piety to the beginning. Standing on the road, I will make a name for myself in later generations to show my parents that I am filial. "
So, hair represents your body. The original wife of the ancients was called the wife of the first marriage. The word "knot hair" originally refers to men and women as adults. There is a poem by Su Wu in the Han Dynasty: "When you are married, there is no doubt about your feelings", and you also regard marriage as the meaning of "marriage", which means husband and wife. When men and women get married, they become married adults. Marriage at this time is also called married couple. People call the couple who get married for the first time as adults the first married couple. If you remarry, you will no longer be married.
One of the origins of married couples
There are "married couples" in southern Zhejiang, and there are folk customs of "tying hair and hugging body" and "throwing silk to comfort feelings". The so-called "tying the hair and supporting the body" means that when the couple get married one day, the man sends a Geng post and the woman gives it back. Geng's sticker says his name, date and time of birth and wedding time. When the woman returned to Geng Tie, she attached a bunch of hair and tied it with a red rope as a token of mutual commitment and commitment to show unity and happiness over the past hundred years. And "throwing silk to comfort feelings" is a married couple. When the man drowned and the body was not found, his wife had to cut off a bunch of hair, tie it to a stone and throw it at the accident site to comfort her feelings. According to legend, the custom of marriage between husband and wife was left by an ancient emperor when he ascended the throne. It is said that it was the first night when the emperor ascended the throne, because he was worried that his beard was too short to sleep (ancient men measured people's knowledge by the length of his beard). The queen beside her is very clever. She cut off her hair and carefully stuck it on the emperor's beard, making the emperor's short beard become a long beard overnight. When the emperor ascended the throne the next day, he stroked his beard and accepted the worship of his courtiers. The courtiers were surprised that the emperor's beard went through his navel overnight. He is really the "real dragon son of heaven"! The queen cut her hair and tied the emperor's beard, which became the reason for getting married.
The second origin of married couples
In ancient China, after the groom took the bride home, he held a wedding ceremony. During the ceremony, he would worship the heavens and the ground, then go to Gaotang, and then the husband and wife would pay homage to each other, and finally they would have a drink, also called a toast. Later, it developed into a ceremony of tying temples, that is, husband and wife sat side by side with their heads tied together, from which the word "married couple" came.
Tie a knot with a pillow and make friends with the dead.
We often hear the word "married wife". The original meaning of "marrying a wife" is: "Men come of age, 20 years old, and women are 15 years old, which just happens to take the crown." In ancient times, both men and women had to have long hair, and when they reached a certain age, they would hold a "rite of passage" for them. When a man wears a crown, he puts his hair in a bun, which is called a "knot", and then puts on a hat. In Shuowen, the total name of the crown is also. Call them adults. In the Book of Rites? "Quli" records that men are twenty crowns and words. It means to hold a coronation ceremony and give it a word. Crown age means that the man is twenty years old, which means that he has just reached the age of adulthood. Twenty years old is also called "the year of weak crown".
In many areas of our country, underage women are called "girls", which can also be seen in many novels written by the ancients. In addition, in the old days, it was also said that "girl" was a handmaid of a large family. "Girl" also includes intimacy. Some elders call their younger generation with a smile: "You are a dead girl, and you can't even do a little thing well!" In ancient times, the real meaning of "girl" refers to a style of women combing their hair, which can often be seen in today's movies and TV shows. For example, in the movie "Dream of Red Mansions", the hair styles of maids who serve their masters are all combed into symmetrical double bun and stuck on the top of their heads, just like a forked ya character. Cheng Zongluo's "Ancient Yangzhou Zhuzhi Ci" contains: a clever bun and two temples. When a woman reaches the age of fifteen, she will be given a gift, that is, "hairpin ceremony", which means that a woman will come of age at the age of fifteen. Zi: The original meaning, the hairpin used in ancient times to curl your hair or button your hat, means that you can curl your hair now and then use Zi, which was called Zi Nian in ancient times. According to the ancients, when men and women reach adulthood, it means that they can get married and start a family.
Ancient people were very solemn when crowning and giving gifts. That's why there is the word "wife", which means the original wife. Tie your hair is also called tie your hair. In ancient times, men began to tie their hair in childhood, because it refers to early adulthood. Having a knot in your hair also means getting married. On the wedding day, men and women tie their hair in a bun, so it is called a bun. A couple on their wedding night: "Cross silk knot dragons and phoenixes, carve colorful clouds, one inch is concentric, and a hundred years will last forever." It means: two new people sit on the bed, male left and female right, each cut off a lock of their own hair, and then tied these two long locks together, swearing that they will be soul mates, love forever, live and die together, and never part. Throughout the ages, despite the good wishes of "one inch with one heart" and "long life for a hundred years", things have changed, and life is inevitably suffering from acacia, just as in ancient times, I always said in my heart: This is the joy of knot, what can you do? Women always carefully wrap their love expectations and best wishes in their hair, shiny black hair and skillfully combed hair. In a sense, it is the expectation and guarantee to win love and happiness.
The word "knot" used in the word "knot" is the most meaningful. Nowadays, there are probably several "Chinese knots" hanging in the living room of every household, and lux "concentric knots" will also be seen in the wedding bridal chamber. The meaning of "knot" includes firmness, combination and companionship. In ancient times, "knot" was connected with "bun", which means total hair. The bun is tied at the top of the hair. A poetess in the Tang Dynasty wrote a poem "Midnight Song": "Nong not only cuts clouds, but also distributes them. I have nowhere to go, and I am United. " In ancient times, the bun on the wife's head in the bridal chamber could not be untied by herself. In the ancient book Yili? It is recorded in "Difaint Ceremony": "The master enters the room and takes off the bride's tassel." It means that only the husband can untie the coiled bun, and then embrace each other, loving and lingering, inseparable. Later, people called men and women who got married for the first time "married couples".
In the Han Dynasty in China, there was a custom of holding funeral ceremonies. If the married wife breaks off early for some reason, the husband will break the comb they used when they got married, divide it into two parts, put some strands of his wife's green hair on it, and bury the other half in the coffin, to show that he never forgets his married wife and commemorate this deep love. In "Yutai Xinyong? An ancient poem wrote for Jiao Zhongqing's wife: "Tie your hair with a pillow mat and be friends with the grave." Although this poem is a tragic story with the feudal patriarchal clan system as the background. At that time, lovers in love, if a woman gave a lock of her hair to a man as a token, it was like she gave her body to a man as an important token.
In the Warring States Policy, it is said that "the death of a scholar is a bosom friend, and the woman is ashamed". Two thousand years later, it's still the same.
In addition to appearance, ancient women paid most attention to hair modification. It is said that the first time Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty saw Wei Zifu, he was attracted by her hair. "When I saw her hairdressing, I was very happy and accepted it in the palace." Chen Houzhu's favorite princess, Zhang Lihua, is also famous for her hairdressing. When Ma Huanghou, Emperor of the Han Dynasty, first entered the palace, his beautiful hair eclipsed the makeup of the harem. She is the daughter of Fu Bo general Ma Yuan. She is neither arrogant nor impetuous from being a queen to being a queen mother, and really enjoys life. However, the reputation of later generations is not as loud as that of the swift sisters who died suddenly. Maybe she should have accepted that sentence!
"Since ancient times, beautiful women have the same surname and are not allowed to meet each other."
Numerous female hairstyles have been recorded in ancient literature. Similarly, hair accessories are an important part of hairdressing, and a combed bun should be decorated with flowers and precious flowers. This kind of precious hairpin includes hairpin, Watson, step shake, hairpin and hairpin. Ladies in the palace can make hair ornaments with exotic materials, while ordinary small families can only wear Chai Jing. "Humble respect" is a modest word for ancient men to call themselves wives.
[Initial Chinese Dress]
The ancient people in Yin and Shang Dynasties began to use hairpins, which have two functions: one is to stabilize hair, and the other is to strengthen the crown. In ancient times, both men and women used hairpins. Du Fu wrote, "I stroke my white hair. It has become too thin to hold hairpins anymore. "The gifts given by the emperor to ministers at festivals are usually hairpins. In ancient times, criminals were not allowed to wear hairpins, which means that if your wife is at fault, she must return the hairpins. Because hairpins also symbolize dignity. The history of men issuing cards came to an abrupt end in a pool of blood 400 years ago, and the people who died in the country could not talk about dignity. Now, only from the dress of the Taoist in Baiyun Temple can we feel the once splendid clothes.
[married]
The ancients said that young men and women get married and start a family when they reach adulthood, and starting a family means the original match.
Su Wu in Han Dynasty was sent to Xiongnu, and when he left, he wrote a poem to bid farewell to his wife:
Get married and fall in love.
Born to return, died for Sauvignon Blanc.
It's been 0/9 years since I left/kloc-,and it's already bald to see you again. According to legend, there was a custom of funeral ceremony in Han Dynasty. If his wife is unfortunately injured early, the husband will break the wedding comb in half, leave half and bury the other half in his wife's coffin, indicating that he will never forget his married wife in his life. Although it is a ceremony, it shows affection.
The earliest record of people using wigs can be found in Zhou Li. Legend has it that Lu Aigong saw a woman with a cloud of hair on the wall, so he sent someone to cut the woman's hair and made a wig for Queen Lv Jiang, called' Lieutenant'. Wigs were mainly used by princes and nobles in the Han Dynasty. Xin Zhui, the hostess of Mawangdui Han Tomb in Changsha, wore a wig when she was buried. In the Six Dynasties, wigs became popular among the people.
It is recorded in the Book of Jin. Tao Kan's mother Zhan Chuan: When Tao Kan was a child, her family was poor. Once Fan Kui went to live in his house, and he had no money to entertain guests. Tao's mother, Zhan, quietly cut off her long hair and sold it to her neighbors, so she bought some food and drinks to entertain Fan Kui. After learning this story, Fan Kui said admiringly, "If it weren't for this mother, this child wouldn't have been born!" "
Tao Kan will make great achievements in the future, which must be inspired by his loving mother's sadness.
[Flower hairpin fell to the ground, no one picked it up, a green and white Hosta, a golden bird]
Giving each other hair is a unique charming feeling of ancient women.
According to the biography of Shi Yue Yang Taizhen,
After being expelled from the palace for the second time by Emperor Tang Ming, Yang Guifei said to the eunuch who delivered the letter, "My sin is to die together, except for my clothes, which are all given by heaven. Only the skin is born by parents. I can't thank you for dying immediately today. " Then he twisted a strand of hair together and asked the eunuch to give it to Tang. After seeing this, Emperor Ming of the Tang Dynasty was heartbroken, and the result was naturally reconciliation. Unfortunately, under the Mawei slope, the emperor's love finally became pale and powerless in front of the mountains and rivers. "But when she thanked him, her eyes shone with love, because his body and voice were strange to her since they parted." I saw the grass full of beauty and colorful leaves. The beauty is gone, and the hair is still poetic.
[Xiao Xuan window, dressing]
"When night comes, my dream suddenly comes home.
Xiao Xuan's window is dressing up, caring for each other silently, but tears are thousands of lines ... "
When Wang Fu is dressing up, she often asks her husband Perilla softly if thrush is fashionable. Presumably, Perilla once had a deep affection for Wang Fu's thrush and combing his hair, but unfortunately, loving couples did not grow old together.
In Shi Hua, Su Dongpo's good friend Wang Gong was banished to Lingnan, followed by Wang Gong's concubine Ye Rounu. Three years later, Wang Gong was brought back and old friends met again. Su Dongpo asked Ye Rou, "Is Guangnan a bad place?" Ye Rou replied, "This quiet place is my hometown." Perilla was filled with emotion after listening.
Song Nvfu and Ye Rou are full of great love in ancient and modern times. They are tender as water and their hearts are like rocks.
[Pick a home and answer a heart]
There is a story in the Record of Dropping out of Farming: In the early Yuan Dynasty, an important official Ping Zhang had deep feelings for his side room. Later, Pingzhang died, and Doqi, the son of the main room, wanted to take her into the house. Koryo swore disobedience. After giving a gift to Prime Minister Bo Yan, Dourgen got the imperial edict to propose to Korea, but Korea still refused. He fled over the wall that night, stripped off his hair and became a nun. The humiliated Koryo family was finally able to observe the festival for their dead husband, preferring to give up the life of BMW and choose to send a long scroll of dead lights with their families, or because of a love story!