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"I don't like watching myself in video chat."
Think of a new plastic surgery project called "video call facelift" a few years ago. Around 20 10, this is a "hot topic" that neither online editors nor TV news producers can resist. I am qualified to say so, because I have worked closely with both kinds of people.
By the spring of 20 12, Dr. robert siegel, a plastic surgeon in Washington, D.C., estimated that almost14 of the about 100 visitors he saw each year who asked for plastic surgery came to his office because they hated the way they looked in the video call. "They will say,' I don't like to see myself in video chat,'" he said in a video describing the operation. My neck looks thick and fat. In order to dispel their concerns, Sigal designed a new surgical method, which is similar to the standard neck lifting operation, but there is an important difference: the incision of this operation is behind the ear, not under the chin, which means that the scar will be hidden in a position that your video chat object can't see. The problem with video calling is that it is like a "mirror on steroids", Sigal said.
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Many of us want to know ourselves. We record the number of steps we walk; We are obsessed with taking extremely detailed bullet notes; We spend $69 to test our DNA；; We sneered at the personality quiz on the news website, but we answered it honestly. By the way, my personality is more like Missandei in Game of Thrones. Who is your test result?
We do these things at least in part because we know that we can only see ourselves in a limited way. There is often a clear difference between the way you look at yourself and the way others look at you, which psychologist Philip Rochet calls an "insurmountable gap". This word is quite new to me, but the feeling it describes is not-think about those scenes that we think are "embarrassing": hearing your own voice; See an ugly photo of yourself; Ask the boss for a promotion. In these cases, what you think you present to the world is forced to meet what the real world sees you.
You don't care about your voice until you hear your own recording; You think you look good until a photo that you don't look good shows that this is not the case; You think you are a leader, and the boss treats you as a junior clerk. These scenes give you a new understanding of what you and others think of you, especially when what others think of you can't keep up with your self-evaluation.