1. Family environment factors: Modern women are mostly only children, and the most obvious advantage of only children is to get more love from their parents. Parents often only consider one child. Many female college students call their parents every day during their studies. Whenever they encounter problems, their parents become their "commanders". Children listen to their parents in many things and only pay attention to their grades. Ding Junhui, a prodigy, is such a person. He always consults his parents when he encounters problems and seldom associates with others. He is like a tool that can only play with the ball, and everything else is operated by his parents. From Ding Junhui's speech, we can also see his shortcomings. He is unsociable and can play ball.
According to psychologists, people who are naive, refuse to grow up and "want to play children forever and refuse to play parents" are called "Peter Pan Syndrome". For young people who like "act young", we need to be vigilant, because the long-term "Peter Pan Syndrome" will cause us to have poor sense of responsibility, strong dependence, psychological fragility, indecision, self-centeredness, narrow-mindedness and so on. This not only makes it difficult for them to take on family responsibilities, but also makes it impossible for them to deal with marital conflicts.
At the same time, as parents, we should pay attention to family education. Wrong family education is the main reason for children's "act young". The "act young" clan has a lot to do with their living environment since childhood. From small to large, they all live in the environment arranged by their parents. Their parents have considered all aspects of their work and life. For a long time, they have always positioned themselves as children under the wings of their parents, and they are increasingly unwilling to grow up and have lost their opinions. And most parents are very strong. Although married, I have never been weaned psychologically, and my weak wings can't fly.
Women are naive because of love.
Wandering the streets alone, I just had a quarrel with my wife and didn't want to go home. In fact, it's just a small matter: his wife asked him, "Are Zhao Wei's eyes good-looking or mine?" The man was writing an annual report to the leader, and without looking up, he casually said, "I don't know."
The wife got serious and grabbed his ear: "I'll ask again ..." This time, the husband learned a lesson and changed his mouth and said: "Of course you are beautiful!" I thought the nightmare was over, but my wife insisted: "You lied!" " "Then I turned my face like a book, and I was so angry that I finally said a concluding sentence:" You are shameless and boring! " As a result, a civil war was launched in full swing. ...
If women are in public, they are often reasonable and gentle, which is the leading factor of social harmony.
So, why does it change when it comes to the man you love, even unreasonable? Freud, a psychoanalyst, believes that once a woman falls in love, she will become naive, more naive, like to talk with milk, like to suck (kiss), like act young (or run wild), or use childhood nicknames (nicknames) and so on. In other words, love makes women easily become irrational, which can be traced back to various low-level needs in infancy.