In China, the most popular social occasion is at the dinner table.

With cups intertwined and laughter, many feelings will be more harmonious and intimate, and many things will do the same.

Both dignitaries and ordinary people have always attached great importance to this kind of communication etiquette when eating.

When Mr. Zheng was a child, when he went out to eat with friends, his parents would always say, "Go out and change into beautiful clothes, and don't go out untidily." Not only that, when eating from small to large, I often hear a sentence, "Sit with a posture, stand with a posture, and eat with a posture."

At that time, eating a meal always felt very tired and troublesome, but when I grew up in society, I found that they always emphasized and made sense.

Because, whether wearing appearance or posture directly affects a person's temperament and mental state.

People who are elegant, energetic and generous at banquets and parties are always the most popular and attractive.

In previous articles, I wrote about how to have a correct sitting posture.

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Then, in this article, we will talk about how to make the standing posture more beautiful.

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Business banquets, friends' dinners, many people eat, some guests will arrive late, and the first one will be in the private lounge area of the box.

This is the best time to talk about things with each other. For example, when new friends meet and say hello, they should know each other first. For example, when we talk about things at the dinner table, we should talk privately and exchange views with each other. For example, old friends have met for a long time, so we can talk alone to deepen our feelings.

Some people like to sit on the sofa and chat, while others like to stand and chat, including me. Because standing and chatting, we can get closer to each other, deepen our feelings more easily and communicate more sincerely.

At this time, the chat standing posture should be to look at each other, raise your head, hold out your chest, tuck in your abdomen, stretch your shoulders, and expand your shoulders as far as possible. Your body center of gravity is between your feet, just like a "T", with your knees together and your legs not too far apart.

Hands can naturally droop and relax at the sides of your body, make some auxiliary gestures when chatting, or chat with a teacup in your hand, as long as you don't cross your hands on your chest and hold your hands on your hips (like a goalkeeper).

This will convey a feeling of self-confidence, positive and generosity to the other party, show a beautiful, natural and solemn side, and give a deep impression.

Of course, when standing, don't get cocky and don't want to relax just because you hold your chest out. Put your body on the ground with one foot, and don't stand and shake your legs, leaning against your legs.

These are ugly standing postures.

Stand for a long time, move a little, adjust your posture, or sit for a while.

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At the beginning of the banquet, a third of the dishes are served and a toast is started.

My habit is that if I am close, I will stand in my seat and raise my glasses. If I am far away, I will go to another seat to propose a toast to show my respect.

People who eat here, in particular, have higher qualifications and status than themselves, so they should go to each other's seats to propose a toast.

Go to the other person's seat and propose a toast. You can stand anywhere.

Keep your head and neck, body and legs in a line, and your feet are stressed in parallel. You can also hold the glass in one hand and assist it in the other (some people like to hold the decanter in the other hand).

If the other person is sitting, such as an elderly elder, a billionaire or a department-level cadre, then when toasting, lean forward slightly, but keep your upper body straight.

If the other person also stands up, then the body is straight, feet stand side by side and propose a toast.

This gesture will convey a sense of humility, sincerity and modesty to the other party.

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After the banquet, sometimes we should take a photo as a souvenir.

Some girls, when they meet the same beautiful women, have to take a picture of their circle of friends.

Take a group photo standing, and pay attention to your posture. Here are some suggestions.

When taking pictures, stand slightly sideways and don't face the camera.

If you are close to the camera, put the smaller face forward. If you are far away from the camera, put the larger face forward, which conforms to the principle of "near big and far small" in photography and makes the photo more beautiful.

Some beautiful women want to pat the whole body and long legs. What standing posture should they use?

Try the standing posture of crossing parallel scissors feet. Girls' legs are slightly crossed before and after, and the front legs cover the rear legs (especially the rear legs) as much as possible, and the body center of gravity is on the rear legs.

It looks like the front legs are slender and the rear legs are covered. Without contrast, it won't look short.

Don't tell me it doesn't matter if you stand. You can use any selfie artifact or Mito Xiu Xiu to modify it.

As long as it's not taken with your own mobile phone, and the photo is in someone else's mobile phone, who cares if you look good or not? Others will dress themselves up beautifully, just comparing you.

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Nowadays, people pay more and more attention to their own image.

Girls do micro-plastic surgery as soon as they have money, just to be more attractive when socializing.

Men, too, drive luxury cars, wear watches, and always talk about drinking Lafite and Kandy at the dinner table.

In fact, it is better to sit, stand and eat well and strive for a higher self. Read more books every month and add some connotation. These are the most practical.

When I was a child, on several occasions, I always refused to listen and insisted on putting one foot on a chair to eat. My mother was anxious and said to me, "If you sit still like this, people will say that you don't have a tutor and scold me and your father!" "

Sometimes, when I look at some people who are well-dressed and indecent, I often recall my mother's words.