There are only a few reasons for choosing abortion: 1, the child is seriously ill. 2. Children born out of wedlock (accidental pregnancy during student period, love period and extramarital affairs period). ) .3. Those born in marriage but not wanted for their own reasons (economic conditions, career development stage, unwillingness to raise this child, etc.). ).

No matter which of the above reasons, don't have an abortion (the first case is special, if you have it, you can ask).

Many people decide to have an abortion just because they don't know the truth and later regret it. (Especially in the third case, it's just a momentary thought. It's a pity to kill a child by mistake just because of ignorance! )

If it is your friend or relative, I hope you can convince your parents.

If you are an unmarried mother, please see the end.

The Truth of Life: Embryo is life, not a mass of tissue.

Ultrasound and embryo detection technology, let us clearly understand that from the moment of conception, it is a life, just going through different stages of development.

The first week: after 3-4 days of exercise, the fertilized egg reaches the uterine cavity and is implanted, which is called a morula.

Week 2: Spine formation. Brain tissue, spinal cord, nervous system and eyes all have a certain embryonic shape, and at the other end of the spine is a small tail. At this time, there are blood vessels, and the heart has not yet formed, but the part that produces the heart has a heartbeat. Yes, he has a heartbeat now. This is the time when most unwanted pregnancies are confirmed, and expectant mothers begin to struggle whether to have this child or not.

Week 3: The embryo is 2 mm long. The baby has all the genetic materials he needs in his life-23 pairs of chromosomes, and the sex of the baby has been determined.

The fourth week, the baby's heart appeared. Yes, you are not mistaken, heart!

Usually, doctors will recommend abortion about 70 days after menopause, that is, life is about 8- 10 weeks. In other words, what was strangled was a "cashew-sized child with a strong heart and small fingers, trying to develop all kinds of complex organs in an all-round way". Not our nails/hair/tumor/fat and other cell tissues.

The Truth of Abortion: The Destruction of Mothers

There are four ways of abortion: medical abortion (within 49 days of pregnancy, it is easy to remain), aspiration surgery (early pregnancy), curettage surgery (middle pregnancy) and induced labor surgery (late pregnancy).

You may ask: Isn't there a "painless abortion"? Painless abortion = one of the above operations+intravenous anesthesia.

In order to achieve good advertising effect, painless abortion has been given many tall names and packaged with many reassuring advertisements, such as:

"In a dream for three minutes, the trouble disappears."

"A new generation of abortion technology-taking embryos by hysteroscope-the highest guarantee of abortion";

"Superconducting visual abortion is safe and painless" ...

However, the fact is that anesthetizing you and then performing surgery is still high-risk and cruel. The difference is that people who are anesthetized can't feel pain, don't call at any time, and the doctor's operation method is not supervised. It didn't hurt during the operation, but after the operation, the anesthetic passed and it hurt like hell.

Women who have had gynecological examinations may have had such an experience: the equipment was rudely touched, you shouted nervously, but the doctor ignored the operation and called you a fuss. Although the textbook says that the operation in the uterus should be gentle and gentle, the fact is that when you are completely anesthetized and don't resist at all, the doctors who have endless operations will repeatedly treat your uterus, scrape and suck it to ensure that it is clean and there is no residue, which is really not much gentler than handling meat and vegetables in the kitchen.

The following surgical procedures are by no means fabricated or alarmist, but from the authoritative Baidu Encyclopedia, which can be verified by itself.

Uterine negative pressure aspiration (early pregnancy, within 10 weeks);

It is the most common abortion operation in early pregnancy, and is often used for 10-week fetus. At this stage, the fetus has a heartbeat, fingers, toes, arms and legs, but the bones are not perfect and the body is very fragile.

After the doctor opened the cervix with tweezers, he put a powerful straw with suction ten to twenty times that of the vacuum cleaner into the mother's womb to look for a baby with a heartbeat. The straw rotates and twitches up and down, and the baby and other placental tissues are all crushed by suction and then sucked out of the body.

Finally, scrape the palace wall with a curette for a week to check whether the baby fragments are clean. If it is not clean, put the suction head into the uterus and suck it clean repeatedly.

What hidden dangers will the body leave after such an operation?

From a medical point of view:

1, the uterus that has experienced severe trauma may leave sequelae: cervical or uterine cavity adhesion; Bacterial infection in uterine cavity; Hematocrit in uterine cavity; Cervical trauma; Uterine perforation;

2, uterine trauma, possible hidden dangers: incurable gynecological inflammation may accompany life; Habitual abortion; Ectopic pregnancy; Lifelong infertility.

3, incomplete abortion: if the operation is not complete, a small amount of fetal tissue remains in the uterus, which may affect the uterine contraction and cause continuous bleeding or adhesion and infection. If not found in time, it will directly affect the next pregnancy, or cause new diseases after years of latent;

4. Endocrine disorder: Pregnancy is a very complicated physiological change process. In order to adapt to the growth and development of the fetus, maternal endocrine will change greatly, preparing to lay the foundation for the birth of the fetus. Abortion directly prevented this process. The normal development of body function is destroyed, and it is easy to produce various incurable diseases. Although everyone can be explained by the name "endocrine disorder", unfortunately, medicine can't effectively solve this problem. Many women with abortion have decreased resistance, dark yellow skin or acne, uterine fibroids, breast problems, etc., which are closely related to abortion. Medicine is far from deciphering all the mysteries of the human body. Only by obeying nature can the body obey our wishes.

5, causing psychological problems: Abortion will make some mothers feel guilty, suicidal impulse, retreat, regret, lose self-confidence, lower self-esteem, hostility and anger, despair and helplessness, hate people related to abortion, end the relationship with their partners, lose sexual desire, unable to forgive themselves, cause nightmares and other psychological obstacles.

From the perspective of causal cycle:

Even people who have no knowledge of Buddhism before can understand this passage with simple logical thinking: Sakyamuni Buddha was born in India 2500 years ago. In the book "Buddha said into the birthmark" (56-volume book "Dabaoji Sutra", namely "Fourteen Sutras of Entering the Birthmark"), the whole process of human conception was recorded, from the first week to the thirty-eighth week after conception, which was completely beyond the reach of the medical level at that time. Up to now, modern medicine has slowly and gradually verified all the processes of fetal development in the Sutra of Fetal Entry, which proves that the Buddha's prediction is correct.

Buddha Sakyamuni, who only speaks the truth, also pointed out in the Buddhist scriptures that human beings need to have three conditions (three causes and combinations) to conceive: sperm, egg and divinity (bardo). Instead of what we usually think of as "sperm+egg". God knowledge is to be reborn. It can get a person through millions of robberies, and abortion will ruin its chance to get a person. Therefore, abortion is not only a murder, but also a felony industry equal to killing the father and the mother, which has very serious results in this world, reincarnation. The "bad luck" of people after abortion: physical illness, emotional collapse, unsatisfactory career, repeated financial losses, disasters, etc. , are just the result of this world, the result of future reincarnation is more serious.

Moreover, people involved in promoting abortion have the same criminal career. On the other hand, if you try your best to dissuade and even successfully save a life, then your good career is better than building a seven-level pagoda!

Some people may say that so many people who have had abortions around them have a hard time. First of all, everyone shows their brightest side in the circle of friends, and you may not know what is really hard to say. Secondly, her present blessings are accumulated in the past, and the consequences of abortion will definitely appear in the "future"-if she does not sincerely repent. This future may be the second half of life, or it may be a complete robbery after death.

Pay a little attention, search and consult. There are too many examples of the cause and effect of abortion, all written by people who are disillusioned with compassion, hoping to awaken more people not to repeat the same mistakes. You can't send a link here. I'm afraid I can't send you more examples of articles. I hope you can find them yourself. )

If you are an unmarried mother or under other special circumstances, you can seek the help of non-profit organizations. Good people are trying to do this. They helped many unmarried mothers for free. There are two places to try for help: 1, Life Jiayuan Nurse 2, Shandong Yuanjue Temple. (You can't send a link here, please copy the search directly. )