When chatting with the opposite sex, if the questions asked by the opposite sex are childish and boring, I feel that there is a nameless fire in my heart. How to overcome this emotion?
Your heart is a mirror, it reflects everything. You find that the questions asked by the other party are naive and boring, which proves that you are naive and boring. Without these, there will be no parting heart, and there will be no resentment persistence. In the final analysis, it is your own "heart" at work. Has nothing to do with the outside world. Because you look and don't look, listen and don't listen, think and don't want to, angry and not angry, he is there. You can't change others, but you can change yourself. Why torture yourself with the outside world?