Learn to eat children, but also know how to dislike them. Abandoning a son has many purposes. Abandoning children to take advantage of the situation, attacking and killing children, shaping children, sealing children in the air, and learning to abandon children is a leap to improve the chess power of Go.
There is also the need to learn some basic formulas, common sense of layout, basic life and death, bureaucratic skills and so on.
All this comes from playing more chess, thinking more, reading more and studying more. More importantly, you must like Go.
Finally, I wish you continuous progress in chess!