I was quite puzzled at the time. Why did she suddenly have this idea? Look at her figure, if there is no indication of caesarean section during pregnancy and delivery, natural delivery will take minutes. Who knows that she suddenly "broke the news": when the child is born, the lower body will become slack, affecting the life of husband and wife, caesarean section will have an extra scar, and the perineum will be tight.
Now that I think about it, I can only blame her for being too young and naive.
Indeed, after working for a year, her mind changed. One day, we were washing our hands after getting off the operating table. She said, I changed my mind. If I can give birth naturally or naturally, caesarean section scares me. I cut the fetus layer by layer, took it out bloody, sewed it back layer by layer, and lay at the mercy of anyone on the operating table like salted fish. Out of the operating room, the pain time is one hundred times longer than the natural delivery.
Now, she is the mother of two children, both of whom have a natural and painless delivery. After giving birth to the baby, she received pelvic floor rehabilitation, and the following recovery is still very solid.
Another main reason is fear of labor pains.
Many expectant mothers know how painful it is to give birth to a child through people they have been to or through the internet, such as the same pain when ten ribs are broken at the same time, the highest level of pain, burning pain, abdominal pain caused by knife cutting and so on. As soon as I heard the description, I was even less confident about the natural delivery.
In fact, now that medical conditions are so good, there are ways to alleviate the pain of expectant mothers' fear. For example, the rise of painless childbirth is a right-hand man to help expectant mothers overcome natural childbirth.
So, expectant mothers, don't worry anymore. If you can have a natural delivery, try to choose a natural delivery, unless there is really no choice but to choose caesarean section. Good luck with your pregnancy!
Hello, I'm a mother who gave birth to two babies by caesarean section. I'm glad to answer this question.
Let me talk about myself first. In fact, when I was pregnant with my family's Dabao, I was always ready to give birth naturally. I insist on taking a walk every morning and evening. However, the baby is too anxious. At 4 o'clock in the morning of 36 weeks +6, my water broke. When I arrived at the hospital, I found that the fetal head did not enter the basin at all, and was directly pushed to dissect. When the second child was born, because the first child was cut, the two children were separated by a little more than a year and a half, so I was psychologically prepared for cutting. Moreover, in the late stage of the second child, the baby was too naughty and turned into a breech position, and it had to be cut. So what's the difference between natural delivery and caesarean section?
It is said that many expectant mothers would rather have a caesarean section than give birth naturally. It's true, most people are mainly afraid of too much pain. I don't blame mothers for this worry. The TV series we usually watch all mention that giving birth will focus on how painful and dangerous it is, so some expectant mothers think it's better to cut it out and sleep.
Then as a person who has been dissected, I have to say that dissection is also very painful. Natural delivery and caesarean section are just the first pain and the last pain. As we all know, the pain during normal uterine contraction can reach ten levels of pain. What about caesarean section? We were anesthetized during caesarean section, but we should know that the anesthetic effect will pass in a few hours, and then the mother of caesarean section will experience uterine contraction pain, incision pain and abdominal pressure for a long time. I believe that mothers who have had caesarean section will tremble when they see the word "pressing their stomachs". Pressing their stomachs means that after the operation, the nurse sister will press down hard at the position of the knife edge every once in a while to help eliminate lochia in the uterus and prevent postoperative uterine congestion. It's really blood pressure. That doesn't count. After caesarean section, you need to have a uterine contraction needle. Because it's not natural uterine contraction that urges the baby to give birth, you have to rely on drugs to make the uterus contract back. Such contractions are also very painful. Contraction pain usually lasts for more than two days, and knife-edge pain lasts for 4-6 days.
Therefore, in order to avoid the pain of giving birth to a baby, expectant mothers who choose caesarean section should consider it clearly, even after the operation, they have to go through a series of pains.
I also have a deep understanding of this. When I gave birth to Dabao, a mother gave birth in the same ward. When I was still lying in bed with water hanging two days after operation, my mother who gave birth eight hours later was able to go to the toilet. Two days later, she was discharged from the hospital. I'm still practicing walking in the ward. This is the gap. For postpartum recovery, natural delivery is much better than caesarean section. Mothers who give birth naturally can hug and kiss their babies after delivery, while mothers who have caesarean section are still lying in bed a few days ago and need the care of others. In a few days, they can hug and feed the baby after they go to the ground, and they are careful not to squeeze the wound. In short, it has absolute advantages in postpartum body recovery and natural delivery.
There are many claims that babies born naturally are healthier and smarter than those born by caesarean section. In particular, many elderly people are convinced and strongly oppose or prevent their daughter-in-law from having a caesarean section. I think this question is completely unnecessary. Both my children were delivered by caesarean section. They are cute, smart and healthy. I don't think they are weaker than babies born naturally. The baby's genes are determined at the beginning of conception, regardless of the mode of production.
Finally, I think whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section depends on my physical condition. If both mother and baby are healthy, let nature take its course. If the mother does not allow it, the fetal position is not correct, or the amniotic fluid breaks the membrane prematurely. Then choose caesarean section. Family members should give encouragement and comfort to the maternal body. Everything is based on the health of expectant mothers and babies. Never follow blindly. I wish all expectant mothers all the best and safe production.
The above is my opinion, I hope it will help you.
Now there are so many women who are willing to have a caesarean section. Twist it. Do you want to get stabbed? Is that really the case?
My opinion: no.
Others said that the natural birth was too painful, but I chose to have a baby at first, and it lasted for 40 weeks +6 days. Until the end, I saw that the oxytocin needle was not the main needle, but the medicine wrapped in paper. I gave up natural childbirth. I was really afraid that the baby who had been around the neck for two weeks had a problem with his stomach, and finally chose caesarean section.
It is said that natural labor hurts, but when I gave birth, I saw pregnant women leaning against the wall, and those who could give birth naturally chose natural labor. Are they not afraid of pain or are they all born for the first time, and they are carrying calves that are not afraid of tigers, so they are not afraid of pain?
I don't think so, because everyone believes that a natural birth is good for the baby, and the mother is willing to bear the pain.
Now that medicine has solved this problem, you can give birth painlessly, so pain is no longer a problem.
A natural delivery will relax the vagina and affect the life of husband and wife. Some people are worried about this. But there is also a prerequisite.
First, after giving birth, I can't wait to live together. Maybe the child doesn't need your care, so you will worry about this. But this is just a sign of your lack of confidence. You have needs, and so does your husband, but as a parent, you can understand. I can't believe that all men go out to find women because they are relaxed. Why didn't he say he was young?
Second, it is the woman who gives up herself and lives as a child that affects the life of husband and wife. Women worry that they can't keep men. It's not that men cheat, but that women become mothers, putting all their energy on their children and not paying attention to their postpartum recovery.
Some women may want to say, "Try to be a mother. You are the one who gave birth to the child, you are the one who coaxed the child and you are the one who fed the child. You don't have enough sleep, so you have no time to maintain and recover. "
Then I have to ask, is your husband dead? Why can't you take care of the children? Don't say you can't trust him. Do you really think dad can't take care of the children? Although no woman takes care of the baby carefully, the child can at least be alive and kicking.
You have to believe that even if a man pretends to have a one-night stand, he will take care of the children, understand?
At these two points, it is not a problem for a woman to understand whether it is smooth or not. Don't forget, when your baby is born, you will never fight alone.
I just gave birth recently. At that time, my amniotic fluid broke early in the morning and I went to the hospital. The cervix is not open. The doctor checked and found that the conditions for natural delivery were ok, and then an injection was needed to induce labor.
1 1 Start injecting oxytocin and put on the fetal heart monitor. At first, the contractions were not very regular, but a finger was opened at the back, and the fetal heart was normal. Then the contractions began to be regular. When I reached out my second finger, the contractions began to become unbearable. I felt unbearable pain as soon as I had contractions, and then the baby's fetal heart fell out of range, which was very bad. Normal after uterine contraction, lasting many times. My husband and I discussed whether to get a knife directly in the stomach. I couldn't take it anymore, so I called a doctor to prepare. Just playing for a few minutes, I couldn't hold it any longer, as if I was going to come out. The baby's head came out in the ward. The nurse rushed over, put my legs together and dragged me to the examination room because the delivery room was too late, and then the baby came out in a few minutes.
If the baby can't wait to come out, I may choose to get a knife in the stomach. After all, the contractions are too painful. I admire those precious mothers who can endure contractions.
Both my children were born naturally. Personally, I think it is better to let nature take its course! Because Shunsheng is not only a smart and healthy child, as the saying goes, Shunsheng is a natural birth. For example, when the melon is ripe, it will naturally fall off! As far as I know, some babies born here will be delivered by caesarean section, and some will have no amniotic fluid. Sometimes I think pregnant women are very difficult, so I can do B-ultrasound and have a caesarean section if I can give birth! Of course, there are many other reasons, which is my own opinion. You can't get out of bed for a week after giving birth! As a woman, I really passed the gate of hell. Because you can't get out of bed after giving birth, it's natural and cheap.
First, let me tell you something about myself. At the beginning, from pregnancy to labor, there was no room for discussion with others. In my heart, I am firm. I want to have a caesarean section. Finally, as I hoped, I got a knife directly and met my girl soon.