Lin once said, "tenderness is necessary, but it is by no means a compromise." We should be calm and calm. "
A woman's temperament is not born, but accumulated bit by bit in the cultivation of the day after tomorrow.
The beauty of a woman is not superficial. Although some women look so indifferent, after careful contact, they will find that quiet temperament is so pleasant.
But many women don't understand this, and always feel that shaping a good temperament can be achieved through external dressing.
So some people spend a lot of money to improve their temperament through plastic surgery and luxury goods. But this idea is obviously wrong, because in luxurious clothes, a delicate face can't replace the inner charm.
The quieter a woman is, the nobler she is. A woman's Jing Ya temperament hides the height of her soul. Quiet women avoid noisy crowds because of self-discipline and indifference, and only walk in simple circles to cultivate a quiet heart.
The most beautiful temperament of a woman: quiet and simple. Yi Shu once said:
"Everything should be quiet; Come quietly, go quietly, work quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid noise. "
If a woman is talkative and always talks nonstop, it is easy to annoy others. Noble women don't make noise in public.
Such a woman doesn't need gorgeous clothes or show off. She can quietly exude noble charm. They are not tired of fame and fortune, are not trapped by prejudice, pursue their original intentions and stick to their principles.
"Poetic woman" has the ability to study quietly, without showing off or making public. Being a quiet woman, not comparing with others, not vain, living in indifference, can always open up a pure land for herself in an impetuous life.
A truly elegant woman knows how to keep silent. A beautiful woman is not necessarily elegant, but an elegant woman must be beautiful and charming.
"A lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell others what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex. "
Be a quiet woman with blue temperament. If a woman talks about everything all day and says everything, she will eventually be utterly confused and unable to live a quiet life.
Look at the flowers in bloom before the court and stay in the clouds outside. Don't be happy for things, don't be sad for yourself, be quiet for a long time. This is a person's best attitude towards life.
A truly noble woman does not argue, does not argue, and does not say much. Don't fight for fame and fortune, those are all floating clouds to her, she just closes the door and lives her good life quietly. This silence and quietness is exactly where her noble extravagance lies.
Don't gossip about other people's right and wrong, don't cry, don't make trouble, don't call names, and never need to chatter. It always gives people a sense of stability and dignity, so it is intriguing.
Message from Man Qing: Without inner peace, where can there be external peace?
Writer Bai Luomei said:
"I have always believed that the most beautiful woman should have a quiet and elegant world. No matter when, no matter what mood, she can calm you down and reassure you. "
Being quiet means being rich in your heart, you don't have to cater to anyone, but stick to your heart. Whether a woman is noble or not can often be seen from her manners.
Zhang Aijia, she once said to young people:
"Quiet applies to everyone of all ages. Only when you calm down can you see yourself clearly and how much ability and energy you have to do things. The biggest problem that young people encounter now is impetuousness. If someone told me to be quiet when I was a child, I would take a lot of detours. "
Quiet is rare, quiet is rare. Being simple and quiet is a woman's best temperament.
We have been growing up in the world of mortals, but don't get lost in the world. Only when you calm down can you be more awake and understand what you really want.