First of all, I want to say that dental care is really expensive? It really costs tens of thousands of dollars for a family member to have a dental care. Last year, they spent a lot of money on dental care alone?

After reading the problem carefully, I think we should try to communicate with our parents slowly (this may take some time to explore), and then we can communicate with our parents more when we encounter such problems, because even the closest people are often difficult to detect your thoughts and feelings. At this time, it is best not to take it to heart, sort out your thoughts, organize your language, and then communicate with your parents. After understanding your own thoughts, try to think about this problem from the standpoint of parents, because if a family's economic situation is unstable, parents' pressure should be the greatest. Under the premise of not making yourself feel wronged and uncomfortable, try to understand your parents, then try to adjust your emotions and slowly learn to accept these realities that people feel helpless but have to accept.

I think my father's procrastination should be because the dentist is cheating money, so we should really communicate well and let my father know the details, and then add some common expenses for going to the dentist at present and the reasons why he spends so much money, so that my father can know you better and understand you better. I think my father should be a little angry when he says this. If the closest person who has lived together for so many years says such a thing, I will certainly be hurt.

As the saying goes, we can't choose to be born, but we can choose our own lifestyle. A person's parents, family background, etc. No, the economic situation should be difficult to adjust for a while. So we can try to change ourselves. Facing a difficulty, there must be many solutions. If you have financial difficulties, let's see if you can try to do some work yourself, or borrow some money from relatives and friends around you and try to get together.

Try to learn to live in peace with your emotions and realize why you feel uncomfortable. Is it because you feel that you have lost something, or what you really want is the understanding of your family? Warm from family? Get respect and support from parents? etc

In a family, there is a great need for equal and open communication. According to my experience, it is really important to keep running in and learn to understand and tolerate.

I don't think my answer is good enough, but I tried my best to help you?