1. Innocent little girl
Many girls have just entered the society and have no correct understanding of society and interpersonal relationships. For love, if a man treats her better, she will regard him as Prince Charming. Women who are too simple are easy to be played by men, so be careful.
2. Vanity gold digger.
Vanity women tend to value material things the most, and they are most likely to bow to men's money bombing, while men know best what they like. In the early stage, they may spend some money to make women think that they have hooked up with a rich boy. Don't you know that this is just a bait thrown by a man to lure her to bed?
3. A woman without confidence
This kind of woman may have low self-esteem, but she may be ignored for a long time in the emotional world. At this time, if a man appears and claims that he is "in love" with her, then she may be unprepared and don't know whether this love is true love or a scam. A man who loves her may inspire her confidence and make her thoroughly remould herself, so even if she thinks it is a scam from the beginning, she may throw herself into her feelings without hesitation.
4. Women who are eager to get married
Women who are not married for various reasons often lose their ability to distinguish men because they are anxious to get married. When a man throws an olive branch to her, the woman thinks that this man is the only thrill, but she doesn't know that this man is just playing with her.
5. Lonely and empty married women
Men have normal physiological needs, and long-term non-sexual life will lead to derailment. Their inner emptiness and loneliness are catalysts. When another man appeared and said "love" to her, women began to be the prey of men.
This kind of woman is most appreciated by men.
A natural and unpretentious woman.
After all, there are not a few beautiful women with exquisite facial features, and most of them may look ordinary, but how can a woman with ordinary looks stand out and let men fall in love at first sight? This requires her natural unpretentious personality and temperament, so that people can see her unique charm at a glance. If you think that being natural and unpretentious is the requirement of a higher position, try the simplest method: smile. If you smile so sincerely and naturally, it will be your most beautiful state.
A woman who likes to sweet talk to men.
Everyone likes to be praised. Sincere praise can make people feel excited and satisfied. To put it bluntly, when a man is with such a woman, his self-esteem will be greatly satisfied. Women should learn to praise a man, praise him more and put a top hat on him. Even if they think your praise is unrealistic, they will be very happy.
Worship the woman who trusts him wholeheartedly.
When encountering difficulties, a woman should believe that he can handle it well and that he has this ability. Don't take for granted what a husband has done for his wife. Except for parents, there is really no feeling of taking it for granted in this world.
A sensible woman who knows the big picture.
Many women get along well with their husbands in private, but it is difficult to integrate into men's social circles. If a woman doesn't have a good reputation in the circle of men's friends, it is by no means a good thing. Some women will think that men's circle of friends are all friends, and birds of a feather flock together. You can't block men's circle of friends, you can only blend in with them. Otherwise, once a man cheats, you will only be the last fool to know.
A woman who loves life and herself.
Once many women become housewives, they don't exercise, dress up, study or study, only thinking about their husbands and children. Over time, such women lose their self and femininity. Only when women love life and know how to pamper themselves can they win the favor of men. You don't even love yourself. What do you expect men to love you?
A woman who forgives others and knows how to compromise
Men are also fragile, "incompetent" and depressed. What men need most at this time is the encouragement and comfort of women, not contempt and ridicule. Men make mistakes, but women can't catch them. She has to be tolerant and generous to make a man deeply moved and deeply loved. When a man makes a mistake, a woman chews the root of her tongue repeatedly. Even a woman who has chewed for decades really deserves to be abandoned by men. No matter how much such a woman pays, men will not appreciate it.
Cultivate women with common language hobbies.
If you were from two worlds before, once you are together, you have to experience something together. If you have lived together for ten years and you don't have the same language and hobbies, then ten years in your will really be wasted. Try to cultivate unique love symbols, such as watching movies regularly and traveling regularly, in which after making love exchanges feelings. Once you have unique feelings, your marriage will be indestructible.
Men are most afraid of marrying such a woman.
As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Many women are uneasy before getting married, and don't know what marriage will bring them. A strange life is insecure. In fact, both men and women feel the same way. Men are as afraid of insecurity as women!
The sexy goddess is every man's dream lover, but it is only limited to this. In real life, few men dare to marry a hot and unrestrained woman! In the face of a goddess who is too sexy, most men only dare to peek with their eyes and imagine with their hearts, and dare not really marry home. So what are men afraid of?
1. Fear of insecurity
Generally speaking, before entering the marriage hall, women will have different degrees of tension, anxiety and fear, fearing whether the marriage will last for a long time and lacking sense of security. In fact, men are the same, because in Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, the most important and basic thing is security. But when he finds a sexy woman, he will have a lot of troubles. For example, sexy wives go out to socialize and are very popular. Men always want to find out. Does she have any "blue confidants"? Compared with those plain-looking women, sexy women naturally can't give men enough security.
2. Fear of losing control
A man needs to work to support his family, but also needs his wife to take care of his life properly and give him an emotional and life destination. However, sexy beauty is always difficult to control because of its own advantages. In addition, sexy women are mostly fashionable, so they definitely spend more time and money on dressing up than ordinary women. If a man doesn't have the ability to earn money and support his family, it will be difficult to tie a woman's heart. This is not only a problem of control, but also a problem of hidden dangers. In men's eyes, if a woman can't control herself, she will cheat and cuckold herself.
Afraid of being difficult to serve
Some people say that sexy beauty is a luxury and can only be seen from a distance, not from a distance. Although this statement is somewhat one-sided, it still speaks the voice of many men. Yes, a man who marries a sexy beauty has unlimited scenery everywhere, which proves that his comprehensive strength is stronger than other men. But they still think that sexy beauty is spoiled by the moon and the moon, and it is definitely troublesome to marry home. And men are born with a good face. He is afraid that one day he will accomplish nothing, he will not become a vassal of Nuo Nuo, and he will not serve his "aunt" well. In a rage, she will not save face in public.
4. Fear of losing your freedom.
In human nature, he always retains some characteristics of adolescence. The more he controls, the more rebellious he is. The more he wants to sink in, the more he wants to get out of the cage. There is no need to refute this point. There are many such examples in life. Isn't there a lyric "Nothing can stop my yearning for freedom"? How many still sang a man's heart. In the face of such a sexy goddess, most men are a little scared. Although they have a thief's cheating heart, they still owe some experienced thieves some courage. So he is afraid that this kind of "freedom" will be stubbornly imprisoned or forbidden by sexy beauty after marriage, thus resulting in the idea of not getting married.
I'm afraid I can't live.
After all, any romantic marriage is inseparable from the reality of "pots and pans". In a real marriage, it is important for two people to be relaxed and happy together, and to "live" without pressure in order to maintain their vitality and enthusiasm forever. To tell the truth, it's not that men don't like sexy women, but because of the influence of traditional ideas, facing the sexy goddess will make men have some kind of illusion: "Is she a good woman?" And this evaluation is equivalent to the concept of society. Therefore, when men talk about marriage in the face of sexy goddess, they will be afraid of wolves and tigers, so that they lose confidence.
Four details that men should pay attention to when they get married.
Marrying a wife is a major event in life, which is related to the happiness of a lifetime. You can't spend it together like buying clothes. Change it if it doesn't fit. Men can't just stare at each other's figure and appearance when looking for a wife. No matter how young and beautiful a woman is, she will become a yellow-faced woman. No matter how slim she is, she will be deformed one day. Therefore, men should pay attention to six details when choosing a wife, and the wife they marry after investigation will be happier and last longer.
First, pay attention to childhood photos and find out whether the whole face has been reshaped.
Everyone loves beauty. Women pay more attention to their appearance than men, and it has gradually become a fashion to become beautiful through plastic surgery. Some girls with good financial strength will go overseas, go to South Korea or Taiwan Province Province for plastic surgery and turn themselves into artificial beauties. Although artificial beauty is more pleasing to the eye, the offspring inherited the genes before cosmetic surgery. Wouldn't it be a pity if the woman had a single eyelid before plastic surgery and the baby happened to follow her mother? If you don't do well, you will suspect that the child is someone else's seed because of the contrast between mother and child. This kind of suspicion can easily destroy the trust between husband and wife, and also affect their feelings and marital happiness. Therefore, it is necessary for a man to find out whether he has had major plastic surgery before marriage on the grounds of appreciating his girlfriend's childhood photos.
Second, understand the health status and whether there are family diseases.
Marrying a wife is not buying vases to decorate the room. Married women should not only bear the heavy responsibility of bearing children, but also bear most of the housework. Sometimes she has to go out to earn money to support her family. Without a healthy body, it is difficult to be competent for these jobs. Women's health is also an important guarantee for men's marital happiness. If you don't want to marry a sick wife and go home, you still have to check her health. People can't eat whole grains without getting sick. Those common diseases have nothing to do with the overall situation, but serious family diseases are the killers of a happy marriage. Men should not trust their eyes too much, but should pay attention to whether the woman has an incurable family history, so as to avoid the health problems of her wife after marriage affecting the happiness of marriage.
Third, examine work performance to see if you are self-motivated.
Now there is a saying in the women's circle that "a good job is better than a good marriage". Although a successful man can earn money to support his family without a wife, and it is not bad to stay at home full-time, it is difficult for a woman who is used to luxury to understand her husband's hard work. Especially a man with a strong sense of professionalism, usually has more entertainment outside and less time to spend with his wife at home, which will inevitably make his wife feel lonely. After a long time, it is easy to be disgusted. Full-time wives are not short of money, and many people spend money outside to find warmth. Some rich women go to other places to have fun in the name of traveling, for example. Therefore, whether a man needs his wife to go out to work after marriage needs to examine her work performance in the unit. Only those self-motivated women know how to care about their husbands' career and understand their hardships, and it is easier to become the strong backing of men's career.
Fourth, pay attention to lifestyle and find out whether there is love.
Caring women are generally more compassionate and generous, and are more likely to think about their husbands and families after marriage, which is conducive to family harmony and happy marriage. This is the instinct of maternal love. People need love in society and in marriage. A caring woman knows how to take care of her husband and children and has a harmonious relationship with her mother-in-law. this is very hard
Conclusion: Whether a man marries a wife or a woman marries a husband is a major event in life, and everyone should think it over. When you are young, don't indulge yourself too much. After all, there is no airtight wall in the world. If the husband/wife knew the filth of that year, they would all be unhappy.