In my limited life, I think I must have offended many people by saying something wrong and doing something bad for me.
But I don't remember most of them, because most of them were unintentional, and none of them gave you feedback in time, and there was no way to know if you were wrong.
But once I clearly remember that this incident cost me a respected teacher and a friend. I still remember that pen pals were very popular in middle school. At that time, one of my classmates transferred to another city. After separation, we kept the habit of correspondence. As a result, once, for some reason, my letter fell into the hands of the English teacher. My English teacher is a very responsible and rigorous person, and can be said to be the best English teacher in our school. And I have always liked English, especially his classes.
On this day, the English teacher left several of us who received the letter to ask the reasons one by one (mainly for fear that puppy love would affect students' studies). When asked, I answered seriously and showed the content to the teacher. Because there was nothing wrong with the content, the teacher let me go. When another friend who was left behind because of the letter passed the interrogation, he said after class, I didn't expect you to be fine in front of Laoying (English teacher), which violated my switch. At this time, the child is in a rebellious period. What he likes to hear most is that you are cool, but you are really nice, which is undoubtedly a contempt for me. So I was unconvinced loudly: if I didn't want to get the letter back, I wouldn't be so obedient to him. Who is he?
It was a time for lip service. I forgot that all the windows were open. I am in the corridor and the teacher is in class. .
From then on, disaster arrival. The English teacher no longer pays attention to my English. I raised my hand to answer the question and was never named again. My letter was never received again. .
I realized it was too late later, which is the deepest memory in my life, because I made a mistake and caused such a bad result.