Nowadays, the aesthetic standards of many people in China are fair skin and skinny figure. Nowadays, many people think that thinness is the most beautiful. Unlike the Tang Dynasty, obesity was beauty at that time. In school, you can find that few girls weigh more than 100 Jin, and even boys are generally thin. There should also be voices and expressions, that is to say, in some appropriate occasions, you should express your thoughts. What you want to say has a certain foundation, rather than expressing your thoughts casually. You can express what you want to express in a relatively plain way in various occasions.
In fact, beauty should not only look at the appearance, but also the inner beauty. People who have really seen the world and know how to communicate with others in society are very attractive. Whether boys or girls, if they can have better communication with others, they will be liked by many people. In other words, emotional intelligence should be high. In life, if the appearance is not so outstanding, you can give yourself a lot of points. There is no need to spend so much effort on appearance. Many people feel inferior because their looks are not outstanding enough. Actually, it's totally unnecessary. As long as you are good enough, someone will appreciate and understand yourself.
Now people's aesthetics have become more and more open. Many people are not only limited to appearance, but also have very high internal requirements. So if you want to communicate with her now, you should not only have high emotional intelligence, but also know how to communicate with others.