At the beginning of 2000, the internet age was just emerging, and Sister Furong was the first generation of internet celebrities in China.
At that time, the Internet had not been popularized for a long time, and one of her posts on the Tsinghua campus forum quickly became popular.
At that time, she caused quite a controversy.
Many people say that she was provoked by "dressing up ugly", so she was ridiculed and ridiculed.
But in order to become famous quickly, she didn't care about the ridicule of everyone, but took many activities to make herself appear frequently in the public eye.
But who would have thought that it was such a "notorious" originator of online celebrities who turned himself into a CEO worth over 100 million after 17?
Sister Furong stumbled all the way.
Fortunately, after numerous taunts and setbacks, she finally overcame all the problems in her life and realized the counterattack of her life.
Now, seeing her gentle and intellectual appearance, I just want to say:
A woman who refuses to accept her fate is really beautiful.
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Who would have thought that once upon a time, Sister Furong, who wanted to get traffic quickly by "dressing up ugly", was still an inspirational student.
Sister Furong, formerly known as Shi Hengxia, was born in a worker's family in a small county, and her family was not rich.
So, she made up her mind at an early age: she must be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, and walk out of the small county by herself to change her destiny.
But sometimes, fate just likes to play jokes on her.
Shi Hengxia is indeed an excellent student, with excellent grades, and is very popular with teachers.
In the first college entrance examination, she was admitted to Shaanxi University of Technology with excellent results.
At that time, many people advised her that Shaanxi University of Technology was also a good school, so go to school.
But for her, whose goal is Tsinghua Peking University, there is a big gap.
So, with a stubborn force in her heart, she decided to repeat one year and continue to sprint to Tsinghua Peking University.
But accidents often happen at the most critical time.
On the eve of the college entrance examination, she unfortunately suffered a car accident, and her left hand and left leg were severely comminuted.
She should have gone to the hospital, but she didn't want to give up the results of her hard work for so many years and resolutely took the college entrance examination with injuries.
Unexpectedly, I fainted because of my injuries and had to be sent to hospital for treatment.
In this way, she once again lost her dream of going to Tsinghua Peking University.
Helpless, after the injury healed, she had to return to Shaanxi University of Technology to complete her college course.
She can be arrogant and unyielding, but she always thinks that Shaanxi University of Technology is not worthy of herself.
Her heart every unwilling, she said to herself:
"I'm sure I will succeed. Now is not the time. The pupa hasn't turned into a butterfly yet! "
So, at school, she often burns the midnight oil and reviews silently, hoping that one day, she can realize her dream for many years.
But I tried many times and ended in failure.
As a result, proud and resentful, she began to express her emotions by publishing articles in forums in Tsinghua and Peking University.
In this article, the whole article is narcissistic and unyielding, which makes everyone curious. Who is this person who said "Peking University, wait for me, and I will make you proud of me"?
Just when everyone was most curious, she posted her photos online.
A group of photos in the shape of "S", together with the words "Clear water gives the hibiscus, and it's natural to carve it", made "Sister Hibiscus" appear on the Internet.
After that, every picture she posted on the Internet was "standard": confident and charming smile, plus a reluctant "S-shaped" curve.
In stark contrast to the people who were generally conservative at that time.
So, with such a way of "dressing up ugly", Sister Furong became angry.
Later, a business team found her, and with this enthusiasm, they began to help her hype, making her the most famous online celebrity at that time.
But it also made her the laughing stock of the whole network.
Singer Rollin Wang even wrote a song with her friends, which was specially used to mock her:
She appeared frequently in the public eye, began to make money and traveled around Shang Yan.
Put on your own signature moves every time you go on stage.
In this overwhelming abuse and ridicule, she earned a lot of fame and benefits for herself.
But it is precisely because of this that she got pregnant before marriage, and then her boyfriend cheated and was broken up.
From then on, Sister Furong began to realize that grandstanding is not far away.
And once that ambitious, stubborn and unyielding self, should not live like this.
So, she decided to make a change and let herself get ahead in another way.
Since then, she has disappeared from the internet for many years. When she returned again, she completely changed her face, which surprised and admired everyone.
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Sister Furong, who tried to hold a concert and appeared in movies and plays, ended in failure and understood a sentence:
Temporary traffic can make you rich and famous, or you can ruin yourself.
So, she decided to concentrate on raising children and make new efforts.
Sister Furong, who used to rely on "grandstanding", began to slowly extend her tentacles to the business community.
Stubborn and unyielding, she found a wider and farther road for herself on the other side, even with children.
Sister Furong has always had her own ideas and plans.
After losing her status as an "internet celebrity", she began to rely on her accumulated contacts to open a media company and establish a psychological counseling website. ...
She completely disappeared from the internet and started another completely different success.
A few years later, she won a series of awards with her unremitting efforts.
Stumbling on this road, she finally defeated fate and herself, became the CEO of a media company, and became the winner in life.
Some netizens have calculated that Sister Furong's worth has already exceeded 100 million.
After making her own achievements in life, Sister Furong began to see a different world.
In addition to getting involved in business, she also started charity.
After the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008, she immediately donated a sum of money to help the post-disaster reconstruction in the disaster area.
In addition, she also set up a template on her website to help people in need.
It is such an inspirational and full of positive energy that she also won an unexpected surprise in her life.
You know, Peking University has always been an unattainable dream for Sister Furong.
But one day, this dream was quietly waving to her.
In 2009, she was invited to give a speech in Peking University.
When she entered Peking University, countless feelings and excitement emerged in her heart.
After all these years, she finally did it!
On the podium, she is brilliant, mature and dignified, and has become the goal and yearning that thousands of Peking University students want to achieve.
With her own efforts, she turned those contemptuous and mocking laughter into today's admiration and applause.
At the beginning, she was eager to get ahead, and finally achieved a grassroots counterattack.
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After many twists and turns in life, Sister Furong finally understood:
"It's easier to be famous than to succeed, but you still have to have real materials."
So in addition to her career, she is constantly improving and changing herself.
She began to precipitate herself, studied tea art and etiquette classes, gave up those fancy dresses before, and the whole person took on a new look.
She also often reads books to improve her conversational temperament, and now she looks gentle and intellectual.
Besides, she often exercises, practices yoga, runs and climbs mountains.
If you look through her Weibo, you will find that she is a person who loves life very much.
She often shares photos of her life, sometimes at work and sometimes while enjoying the scenery in the suburbs.
In fact, as early as 20 12, she appeared in Esquire magazine, and her temperament and face once again surprised everyone.
Today, compared with the past, she has completely changed and lived confidently, independently, intellectually and elegantly.
After many years, she was interviewed again and recalled her experience of becoming popular. She sighed with emotion:
Being misunderstood and rejected, I have more time to enjoy and enrich myself with loneliness. "
Once, when she faced many setbacks, she felt very wronged and thought about giving up.
She can be determined and brave, not only survived, but also gained some courage and strength from that questioning voice, and moved forward all the way.
As long as there is time and opportunity, she will constantly enrich and improve herself.
Therefore, she became a strong woman full of energy and self-confidence.
Sister Furong said, "One can also have fun and happiness, or be lonely, but never be lonely. Live for yourself, wonderful but not lonely. "
So even a single mother, she is trying her best to live the best life.
At work, hard work and perseverance; In daily life, she often takes time out to accompany her children and enjoy life.
If God gave her a play script, there is no doubt that she has turned the play upside down and turned it into a positive life with her own efforts.
At the age of 44, she is still slim and radiant.
She proved to us:
No matter what your background and experience are, as long as you work hard enough and are competent enough, you can live a strong life, which is the unique color of live high.
She was once laughed at by everyone; Now, she has become the envy of countless women.
Perhaps, many of us, like Sister Furong, will experience many ups and downs.
But if we can be like her, even if we stumble all the way, we will not give up our determination to "keep growing".
I believe we can finally get rid of the dark clouds and find our own way.
Sister Furong said a simple but reasonable sentence:
"Learn to be your own psychologist, constantly release pressure on yourself and cheer for yourself.
Cultivate more good hobbies, read more inspirational books and make more mentor friends.
Many times, others may not be able to help us, and we need to go our own way. "
This sentence is also for everyone. I hope everyone can still encourage themselves and improve themselves after the ups and downs of life.
Let yourself live brilliantly.