First, we must learn to recognize the scam behind the love relationship. In the case, the woman and her boyfriend only dated for two months, and her boyfriend began to borrow money, which is particularly abnormal in itself. If it is a pure love relationship, the boyfriend will try to avoid borrowing money from his girlfriend, so as to avoid too much interest in his feelings. It can be seen from here that her boyfriend doesn't really want to associate with a woman, but just wants to cheat her out of money. Learn to recognize the scam behind the love relationship, in order to prevent being cheated.
Second, don't borrow money easily and don't trust online investment. In the case, the woman lent 5 million yuan at will and was taken to play cards by her boyfriend, losing 5 million yuan. I didn't see such an obvious routine, which is obviously a lack of vigilance. Whether friends or boyfriends borrow money, they should be more careful. When the amount is large, they must confirm it repeatedly before they can be sure.
Third, keep a clear and rational mind and don't be blinded by feelings. It's best for both men and women not to reveal their wealth at the beginning of their relationship with their lovers, in case they are used by a willing heart. You must be careful when it comes to transferring funds and investments. Learning to refuse is also a way to protect yourself.